Quick. Please help.

She probably gave him a hand job under a coat or something, and over the years he's exaggerated it every time he tells the story. However, why on earth he thinks that a girlfriend with a daughter of a similar age would want to hear THAT, goodness only knows!! Bin!

And I’m gonna say it all the women in here just support each other.

Yes - that's what the site fundamentally exists for.

You do realise I’m not the person who started this thread, don’t you? I think you’d be better off on Reddit.

Fine. Run people off who have a different opinion. That’s gonna help your situation.

I’d suggest starting your own thread if you genuinely want to talk about women’s views of men’s sexual needs, so you can set out your premise clearly and prompt a proper debate. I’m glad you enjoy sex, but I didn’t ask you about your sex life. Nor did I ask you to imagine mine.

I’m new to this. And I’m gonna say it all the women in here just support each other. They don’t care about what their men sexual needs are. It’s just all about. My man doesn’t wanna have sex with me. My man wants blowjobs. Maybe it’s just because I’m younger. I love doing it. I love getting my boyfriend off. If you don’t like doing it anymore I don’t know what to tell you.

Why did you reopen a thread that’s so old, just to post that load of wally?

So I am 22 and female, and if I’ve noticed anything about other women, it’s that they want men’s sexual appetites to fit into their view. So middle-age man who used to have young girls like him has that part of his life passed and all of a sudden a pretty younger girlwants him and we all clutch at our pearls. You can’t see men how you want them to be you have to see them for how they are and then adjust to that.

He told me because we are getting to that stage of getting to know you better...we were talking about "I can't believe this actually happened" moments. Started off quite innocent, then got fruitier. I told him I was part of the mile high club. He then came out with that.

I definitely wouldn’t judge him for telling you then!

I’ve never done anything like that young women did but I have gone home with men I’d met at a bar and this is no different.

I definitely think it’s worse when you have a child a similar age.
I know my DD doesn’t get up to what I was doing at her age and I would hate to think that she did.
I’m sure you had your moments too.

Try not to associate this young woman with your DD.
As you say it was a different time and completely mutual.

Yep, agree with everything you say

The actual act wouldn’t bother me.

They were both adults and got carried away with each other and then carried on dating afterwards.

I know lots of people who meet at bars/clubs and have a ONS with them.

What would give me the ick is the fact he’s still talking about it over a decade later.

How did the conversation come about?

Were you talking about the wildest thing you’ve done with a partner - if so, I wouldn’t judge him for telling the story.

But if he brought it up to brag about it randomly then I’d have to end it because I wouldn’t be able to get over the ick.

I would have no concern with the fact she was 19. She's an adult and people on here act like he's some kind of paedophile. I remember being 19 and I was fully aware of the effect I had on older men and could be quite bold with my sexuality. She could have instigated it.

However, he sounds like a bit of an idiot and would probably give me the ick with the way he talks about it!!

He could just still be very shocked and impressed it happened though! Not sure I'd automatically dump him over it. But if he gives you the ick I would.

The person who said he would have his eye on your 18 year old daughter is ridiculous. So we think that because he had a sexual encounter with a 19 year old he now fancies all 19 year olds (who are adults by the way).

That's word for word something from the 90s nonsense stories that would be published in the grotmags.

And even if it never happened, it's equally grim and pathetic that he should make it up.
So it's lose-lose either way.
You will never get over the ick from this, so do yourself a favour ...

Oh my God. I have teenage daughters and could NEVER be with him.

I think he's making it up. Even at my silliest teenage time I didn't fancy sucking an old man's nasty cock. I still don't. He's weird, don't have any kind of relationship with him.

So did you say anything/kick him out?

I, too, would like to know his reasons for telling you that story.

It's an immediate no from me

This x 100%

Bit left field here, but ask him why he thought to tell that story? And let him know that it gave you the ik, then give him the floor. Still bin him but would be interesting to see why he thought it would be a good story, then tell us all on here!

Very weird to bring up on a date.

Perhaps he's negging you? A young hot girl did this, what are you going to do to impress him?

Having a BJ from 19 year old - fine
being proud of this sex episode - fine
voicing this pride - weird

Confused what you need help with - asking if you should date him? Because you go on to say you want to kick him out - do you need help with that? Or did you just want to tell us what he said so we can tell you unreasonable/reasonable?! Sorry - im
confused op.