DH and I have a five week old DD. We also own a business that is stressful and challenging to manage.
I am largely off work but squeeze about 1-1.5 days worth of wfh in through the week around baby care and the bit of housework I manage to do. Because of this I haven't managed to get to get to any of the classes that are on my radar.
DH is a very active person. He's signed himself up for a couple of marathons later this year and as he's very competitive, he's doing a significant amount of training for them, which is fine as he's fitting runs in at convenient times that we've agreed. It's good for his MH, so I'm on board.
However, this week he's decided to reinstate a couple of his more time consuming hobbies which has him out of the house for 4-5 hours tonight and a further 3-4 hours on Tuesday including dinner with his mates afterwards. If I asked him not to go, he wouldn't go, but I don't want to be unreasonable.
He's a great, hands on Dad - he willingly takes on a lot of DD's physical care e.g nappy changes, baths. He has also done the lions share of the housework and cooking since she came along.
AIBU to be a bit pissed off that he's out doing three separate hobbies and because of our business and our baby I can't even seem to get along to the bloody buggy fit class that's on once a week?