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DS 15 and A level English?

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Boedatives · 01/08/2024 15:29

NC recently for this as it feels hugely disloyal......

DS is 15 and doing GCSEs next year. He is predicted all 9s - he's not a genius, just an all rounder at a very expensive school that spoon-feeds the boys, for want of a better word.

He is thinking of doing English A level ...... but he has read ONE book in the last year. I can't think of any before that.

It was Arsene Lupin by Maurice Leblanc, translated from French and it took him 7 months. He has never read anything by a classic english author - this is all apart from what they read and study in class. I mean for 'pleasure'.

By his age, I'd was deep into Thomas Hardy, all the Brontes, JD Salinger, Harper Lee.

I've given him short stories by HG Wells and a couple of PG Wodehouse schoolboy tales. If he doesn't look at them this summer, wibu to go into school before he makes a level choices and advise the teacher of his reading habits, or lack of? It seems ridiculous.

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Butchyrestingface · 01/08/2024 15:34

You seem quite dismissive of him.

clary · 01/08/2024 15:33

If he gets all 9s he must be smart and working hard; you can’t get all 9s without that, whatever school you attend.

Why does he want to take Eng lit? What other subjects is he choosing? Has he had a look at the spec to see if he likes the texts and what the level of work is?

I don’t think you can diss him to the teacher like that. How has he got on this year with Macbeth and Dickens?

I would talk to him about it, try to encourage reading, take him to a play or two. Ask him if he realises how many books he needs to read. Eng lit is a great A level imho. What might he do his NEA on? Ask him to consider that too.

Hankunamatata · 01/08/2024 15:32

Let him finish his GCSE and decide what A levels he wants to do. Putting him down and scoffing at what he wants to do isn't helpful to anyone

Peonies12 · 01/08/2024 15:30

YABU. It's his choice, nothing to do with you. Don't intervene, can you imagine how embarrassing and undermining that would be.

sunsetsandboardwalks · 01/08/2024 15:29

YABVU. It's not up to you.