My DH and I split up back in November. He has had 2 girlfriends since then (that I know of) and is now buying a house with the latest.
We have 2 DS together, aged 5 and 2. He has them every other weekend and every Tuesday over night.
From what I know, they haven’t met the girlfriend.
Im uncomfortable with them having a second home set up with someone who has only been in their dads life for 6 months max. I know this sounds like I’m being a bit petty but it’s a genuine concern that the kids will feel like they’re living with a stranger.
I wouldn’t feel comfortable living with someone I don’t know myself so can’t expect my small children to be either.
My ex isn’t someone who you can have an adult conversation with and whenever I express my concerns, (for example taking them out of school/nursery without my knowledge) he accuses me of trying to control the kids lives. I’m absolutely not.
Aibu?
Has anyone been through anything similar?
tia.