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AIBU automatic cars are easier?

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FondOfOwls · 31/07/2024 17:03

I've been toying with an idea of getting an automatic car, when we swap our car soon. I was surprised how polarising this seems to be!
I am not a keen driver, in fact I dislike driving. I have an old manual car that makes do, but I never really got 'used to' it. I guess I just don't drive enough. I am finding it a massive pain in the arse trying to concentrate on the road, constantly changing gears in heavy traffic and trying to make sure my kids don't kill each other in the back seats.

I though getting an auto will be a way to make driving easier, DH wants to test drive one too. However DFIL, neighbours and some other people seem to think that I will be speeding in an auto (as you don't have to manually change gears) and get careless? I don't speed and we live in a heavy traffic area with roundabouts stacked on top of each other.

Apparently it's all due to my lack of experience in driving and I was told I just have to keep practising, drive every day to get used to it etc. AIBU to think I don't NEED to do that, as I don't really care to drive a manual?!
I chatted to some friends who drive autos and they love them.

YABU manual driving is a skill and getting an auto is lazy
YANBU if you don't love driving, there's no point sticking with manual for the sake of it!

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FondOfOwls · 31/07/2024 17:05

Rainbowsponge · 31/07/2024 17:04

I hope YANBU as I am starting automatic lessons next week, on account of the fact I’m NOT a co-ordinated person and hope this will make it easier

I really pushed through to get a manual licence as everyone made a big deal out of it, but I am NOT a natural at it! Good luck to you :)

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Rainbowsponge · 31/07/2024 17:04

I hope YANBU as I am starting automatic lessons next week, on account of the fact I’m NOT a co-ordinated person and hope this will make it easier

newhousenewhouse · 31/07/2024 17:04

I have recently got an auto as it's an electric car. I won't go back to a manual. So easy!