Or am I right that this is pointless with a toddler?

I'm not a single mum but no, I personally wouldn't attempt this holiday. When they are very young a holiday is just a location change. All the routine and restrictions of small children come with you. That's not to say it can't be a positive experience in the right location though.

Having had two toddlers, i think it’d be hard at 2.5 to go abroad but far far easier by 3.5. An all inclusive beach break or whatever might be easier this year and something more adventurous break next year when you’re not dictated by nap times or in the thick of tantrums.

That said, it all depends on your toddlers temperament so if they are easy and adaptable and you think they will be fine then go for it!

Don’t forget there are beautiful historical places in the uk, you could get started here, get her used to travelling and sleeping in strange places before you go all out!

Just to say that my 2yo wasn't bored or whining at historical stuff and not was I as a child (according to my mother, I saw a picture of Elizabeth I at that age and imprinted like a duckling). Totally depends on your child and you, I think. My DS would hate a sporty holiday but my nephew would love it!

I’ve done mini city breaks since 10wks (they are now 3), and always had a great time. I don’t think it’s pointless to take a child on holiday, everyone likes a break.

I think a little bit, yes - especially the historical part.

At that age, the best holidays for us have been ones with a lot of nature eg country walks and places to explore, or at an all inclusive with a good kids' pool and mini disco. Self catering also very helpful.

A 2yo can't sustain interest in historical stuff so you'll be struggling trying to enjoy it yourself while placating a bored and whining child.

I think it depends on your 2.5 year old! I did some solo UK city breaks (though he was closer to 3) and probably could’ve gone abroad if I was braver. But mine was a pretty easy toddler - had good understanding when I explained things and was not prone to tantrums. I think if yours is tricky you’d be worth waiting til they’re just a bit older so can they be excited (not confused, scared or grumpy) about things like the journey and hotel.

There are limits with what you can do with a toddler but you can design breaks that work for you both

Might be easier when they are slightly older

First think about doing something locally - a national trust place might have a playground and cafe as gardens and history and you can often do a little history if you sandwich it with other things - your turn, mummies turn - try something locally and once they have the hang of sharing the adventures then you should be able to go away further

I think it's easier from about age 6 or 7 though when sharing and waiting turn becomes easier

I would absolutely do this. It won’t be like a mini break on your own but you won’t regret the memories of eating ice creams with your daughter in a beautiful town square, or letting her run wild in a beautiful park or garden, or eating pizza with her under a dusky evening sky.

It won’t be relaxing or self-indulgent or an opportunity to recharge but it could give you beautiful memories and a refreshing change from the usual grind.