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Help I'm in UTI misery

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utihelp · 30/07/2024 21:10

Sorry for posting on AIBU, I'm desperately looking for tips to help with a UTI. I am in so much pain 😩 trying to avoid antibiotics unless I absolutely can't shift this any other way. I've sent DP out for cranberry sachets from the supermarket. What else can I do?

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SiobhanTheGoblin · 30/07/2024 23:32

I've had recurrent UTIs for over 20 years due to damaged bladder lining (autoimmune). Only kept at bay now by taking nitrofurantoin every day for 5 years which has given me lung disease. I am "too young" to have the bladder removal that was recommended 6 years ago. So I live with the now infrequent infections and restrictions such as no alcohol. If my advice is worth anything - please take the antibiotics. You do not want an embedded infection or kidney damage from this. Cranberry juice is not effective for an infection. You would have to drink so much of it that you would feel sick and it still wouldn't be enough. It's an old wives tale based on cranberry having some positive effects but only when very concentrated. You will need water, lots of it. I drink lucozade sport or rehydration drinks so I don't get sick from the water I have to drink during an infection. No alcohol, no caffeine, no spicy food or citrus as the pain will be worse. Orange juice is my kryptonite. Also apple juice. Put a hot water bottle on your kidneys or abdomen, or take a bath. If its making you need to pee every few seconds I recommend just sitting in the running shower and not holding it in when the pain is very bad. Cocodamol helps with the pain when I can't sleep. Not wearing tight clothes around my middle. I also feel better just eating what i want and being lazy when I'm unwell from it. Less stress makes the pain easier to deal with.

Sorry for going on. I wouldn't wish this on anyone so try and help if I can. I get a UTI every time I have a period due to the inflammation the period causes in my abdomen, makes my bladder lining get pinprick bleeding which for some reason turns into an infection. Jury is out as to whether it's embedded in the lining because I can't afford to go private and the NHS don't test for it.

I hope it clears up quickly!

Itiswhysofew · 30/07/2024 23:05

Seven Seas Essential Cranberry FORTE, as maintenance. Recommended to me by a retired nurse, who is a sorceressGrin

RivkaTheBold · 30/07/2024 23:02

iamtheblcksheep · 30/07/2024 22:47

I suffer often with UTIs. Go and get two two little bottles of water, get them to room temp and pour a bit of cordial in them if you struggle with just water. The. Lick yourself in the bathroom and start drinking.

I get in the bath and pee in the bath as nature takes its course. It helps. Then I get in bed with a hot water bottle. Not really practical today but if you can it will help with the pain. As long as you’ve drunk all four litres, it will be fine by morning.

Drinking litres of water doesn't work for me, I need the anti biotics to shift it

Crispynoodle · 30/07/2024 23:01

You need antibiotics if you don't take them it could lead to sepsis and hospitalisation

Lizzie67384 · 30/07/2024 22:58

westcountrywoman · 30/07/2024 22:48

Pee in the bath (filled with warm water of course). Sit there for ages drinking and peeing.

100% this

ChubSeedsYorkie · 30/07/2024 22:58

Cranberry and lots of water, I always find just being able to go to the loo a relief as well. I had awful uti s in my 20s and unfortunately the only thing that solved it was antibiotics. They usually got me feeling normal within 4 hours of starting them.

Lizzie67384 · 30/07/2024 22:58

I find if you run a warm bath it’s easier to go for a wee in the bath than toilet, seems to take away the pain. I also take painkillers and literally drink so much to try and flush it out x

DeersBeersPeers · 30/07/2024 22:55

Google waterfall d mannose. I get the powder one. I used to gave repeat UTIs until I stumbled across this solution. If you need antibiotics then take them first and you can use d mannose next time as soon as you feel any hint

Bobloblaw84 · 30/07/2024 22:55

AnnaMagnani · 30/07/2024 21:14

Take the bloody antibiotics. You can't wee the infection out.

If it’s mild you totally can. I have done it many times.

There is an analgesic which is over the counter in the US. It’s called “AZO” and you can buy it on Amazon. Amazing relief of symptoms while you chug water like a loon.

Itiswhysofew · 30/07/2024 22:54

TheSerenePinkOrca · 30/07/2024 21:13

Drink bicarb of soda in water. Same as the cranberry sachets but doesnt taste nice. (Google it to get quantities right).

Hot water bottle between legs. Then ice pack. Alternate.

This worked for me. Bicarb & hot water bottle on pubic area.

Bicarbonate of soda, 5 ml (one teaspoon) in half a glass of water, 2 - 3 times a day. But don't take for too long, as high salt content.

randomusernam · 30/07/2024 22:52

I don't think the cranberry stuff really helps. I always found drinking only water and lots of it 3-4 litres in a day. That can help flush it out. Also helps relax the bladder. Put a pad in so you aren't so worried about wee. I always find the more you go to the toilet the worse it is. You don't want an empty bladder because that's when the pain and bladder spasm starts.

westcountrywoman · 30/07/2024 22:48

Pee in the bath (filled with warm water of course). Sit there for ages drinking and peeing.

Ineedaholidayyyy · 30/07/2024 22:47

As a fellow UTI sufferer , I sympathise with you and I appreciate you've explained about the gastro problems, but please don't avoid antibiotics if you need them. One of my family members ended up in an ICU with sepsis from an untreated UTI, a short term gastro issue is much better than life threatening sepsis.

Do all antibiotics give you gastro issues, there are a few that you can have for UTIs, so it might be worth asking the DR for a different one? Sorry if you've already tried that. Hope you feel better soon.

iamtheblcksheep · 30/07/2024 22:47

I suffer often with UTIs. Go and get two two little bottles of water, get them to room temp and pour a bit of cordial in them if you struggle with just water. The. Lick yourself in the bathroom and start drinking.

I get in the bath and pee in the bath as nature takes its course. It helps. Then I get in bed with a hot water bottle. Not really practical today but if you can it will help with the pain. As long as you’ve drunk all four litres, it will be fine by morning.

Lovemybunnies · 30/07/2024 22:47

D-mannose is brilliant. I take it the minute I feel that niggle. Order some from Amazon as PP said and get well soon.

MyCatHatesSandals · 30/07/2024 22:45

utihelp · 30/07/2024 22:44

I recently had a copper coil removed, could this be the cause? A friend mentioned it and it made me think whether it's triggered some sort of infection as I haven't had a UTI in years.

Quite possible.

MyCatHatesSandals · 30/07/2024 22:44

UTI veteran here. Cranberry does little to nothing, and those sachets can aggravate a UTI.

Antibiotics with omeprazole and/or famotidine to mitigate gastrointestinal side-effects.

Hiprex, but buy size 000 empty gelatin capsules and pop your tablet in there to reduce impact on the stomach.

Topical oestrogen.

If possible, get your urine tested with a proper urology lab via a urologist.

utihelp · 30/07/2024 22:44

I recently had a copper coil removed, could this be the cause? A friend mentioned it and it made me think whether it's triggered some sort of infection as I haven't had a UTI in years.

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LostittoBostik · 30/07/2024 22:42

Ps. I've just had one for the first time in a year (now in forties) and it's taken two courses of antibiotics to feel better

LostittoBostik · 30/07/2024 22:41

OP, it's not just kidney infections you're at risk of. Don't try to fight it without. I ended up with bladder scarring and three years of constant symptoms despite the infection being long gone. I ruined a lot of my twenties. Just take the antibiotics with probiotics and avoid all sugar.

ShoehornSheryl · 30/07/2024 22:39

Haggisfish3 · 30/07/2024 22:35

Nitrofurantoin are usually given for utis. They aren’t antibiotics. They essentially react with your urine to make it like an antiseptic liquid, they don’t usually affect the gut at all, and certainly nothing like antibiotics do.

That is completely wrong. It is an antibiotic and it does cause horrid side effects (I suffer whenever I take it when I have to for UTI’s)

PoopedAndScooped · 30/07/2024 22:39

utihelp · 30/07/2024 22:01

Explained further up, they give me severe gastro side effects so it's just swapping one problem for another essentially. Trying to avoid that

Gastro symptoms or a kidney infection possibly turning to Sepsis and the need for multiple courses of antibiotics and potentially a in hospital stay

thaegumathteth · 30/07/2024 22:37

Haggisfish3 · 30/07/2024 22:35

Nitrofurantoin are usually given for utis. They aren’t antibiotics. They essentially react with your urine to make it like an antiseptic liquid, they don’t usually affect the gut at all, and certainly nothing like antibiotics do.

Nitrofurantoin is an antibiotic

britneyisfree · 30/07/2024 22:36

I have one now. Spent the weekend rubbing huge amounts of coconut oil on my bits. Stopped it stinging so much. I don't know how if helped but it got me through.

I used copious amounts. Have gone through a jar. Blush
Have got AB's now.

RivkaTheBold · 30/07/2024 22:36

That was me on Sunday. I ordered anti biotics online and picked them up from boots.

Was gone by Monday night.

It's unbearable. Cranberry and the sachets do nothing for me.