Controlling for being angry at DH using oven

People must be able to use the oven.
if you are so distressed by the heat could you open the window and get a fan?

Like PP said, get a fan.

My dog won’t be cooled with a paddling pool, cool towels or any means, he just has to lay flat and keep still. Doesn’t stop me cooking though.

Get an air fryer so DH doesn’t have to heat the oven. I doubt an oven heats the kitchen by THAT much. If it does, get rid of it as it’s not economical, a huge waste of energy and making a big carbon footprint.

You really are hard work and very odd.

Get a grip.

Surely you mean "our" house?

I’m feeling a little chilly. The temperature in here has dropped to 28.5.

Omg, as an adult I cannot imagine living in an environment where I have to tread on egg shells for just wanting to use an oven for my meal! You cannot control adults to that degree - that outrageous. It’s hot for a few days. Seriously, get a grip!

Your poor husband
whilst 26 is hot nobody is going to spontaneously combust

You seem to be getting a hard time on here
I'm with you though - I really suffer from the heat as do our pets so if the other person in the house was to use the oven on such a warm day I would be pissed off too.
Luckily he uses the airfryer most of the time anyway (and he's pretty considerate and not selfish like your H)
Maybe you need a more efficient way of cooking: a range cooker on for 40 mins for a fry up does sound pretty inefficient....

How much heat do you seriously think putting the oven on for a bit causes? 🙄

Your level of rage is probably responsible for at least 2C of the temperature increase.

@SharpOliveHam II’m with you but apparently we’re in the minority.

We don’t use ‘hot’ cooking methods in these temperatures. Luckily we all suffer from heat so are generally on side with it.

We use the instant pot a lot, the microwave, and eat cold food. Creating unnecessary heat during a heat wave is selfish and short sighted.

You're telling me not to be ridiculous 🤣🤣

Have you met you?!

And no it's not ridiculous to expect responsible dog owners to choose dogs based on their needs.
If you can't meet their needs without this ridiculousness then you have failed

Well you, along with many other people, are being silly having dogs like this unless you live in the artic.
I was at the beach at the weekend and saw someone at the beach with a husky!!

26’c isn’t that hot at all, your dogs will be fine, if they overheat they will pant like they are designed to do.

He's using the stove to make a fry up, or cooking it in the oven? I guess it's foolish and wasteful of energy in summer to run the full oven for one persons meal that could be cooked in a pan on stove top? Otherwise he does need to eat. You can't just blanket ban the cooking or eating of hot food just bc it's summer.
Buy an extra fan or a portable Aircon unit if the heat is bothering you.
Could he buy an air fryer for his 'fry ups'?

If your oven has heated up the whole house that much then something’s wrong with it. I have a range cooker too and it doesn’t do that.

You’re not suppose to put cold or freezing towels on your dogs in hot weather!!!! Do your research instead of acting like you and you alone are correct!!

You are being ridiculous and hysterical. Don’t even bother with the “hysterical is misogynistic” because in this case it’s absolutely true.

He needs an air fryer!

It's not "unseasonably hot". It's summer

Stop moaning about it and buy the poor guy an air fryer. If you’re so obsessive about this you really should consider getting a/c installed.

This is very unreasonable of you. It’s his house too

Yes, yes you are. If you really truly cannot tolerate it to this extent you could get air conditioning or move to the North East it is a balmy 23 here.

I don't know about controlling but your reaction is completely over the top.

26C is not swelteringly hot and it's certainly not the temperature of a sauna. It probably feels hotter to you as you've got yourself all unnecessary and are 'running around' trying to cool down your dogs.

Get yourself back to your work, with a cool drink. And seriously take on board the thoughts and suggestions people have been saying here today. And then go and apologise to your husband.

Surely the dogs can go into another cooler room in the house? I sympathise with hating the heat It is also worth getting a portable air conditioner. Then you can keep one room cool with the door and windows shut (try to have good seal where vent goes out one window). I do that and me and the dogs go there. Also if you put a bowl of ice in front of a fan in the kitchen it will cool down the room quicker.

At a total tangent.

He doesn't fry food but had a fry-up. He only eats healthily but was eating sausages (which are extremely processed and definitely not healthy).

Not criticising anyone's food choices. (Sausages are quite tasty).

It all sounds a bit bonkers. 😁

I have a double coated rescue dog from Macedonia, she is a Malamute / Carpathian Shepherd cross and has a coat like a Bear. She will be 5° cooler under her coat in summer and 5° warmer in winter, she's used to 50° summers and knows all the cool spots in our house and wont go near a paddling pool😁I'm only saying this because I think you can afford to relax a little.