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AIBU to wonder how on earth do people afford new cars ?

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CarsAreExpensive · 29/07/2024 17:12

OK, so I'm probably BU here but I really do wonder. I'm a single parent but earn what a lot of people consider a good salary of 100k. I rent, as its hard to get on the property ladder living in big city and can't move away as rely on family to help with childcare a bit.

Today I have driven through few areas / towns that are seen as deprived areas, full of council homes, refugees etc. I won't name the areas, but those areas are known for poverty. Anyway, every other driveway there was a brand new car on and I'm talking about Mercedes, bmw, audi, range rover. Houses and driveways looked terrible.

How on earth can people afford those cars ? Even HP agreements, those cars would be at least 400-500 per month if not more !

My car is getting old. 10 yrs old and I'd like better car but simply can't afford to spend that much money a month for something I won't own. Am I going somewhere wrong and missing the trick?

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iamtheblcksheep · 30/07/2024 10:41

Noonelikesasloppytrifle · 29/07/2024 20:12

I have worked with some very vulnerable people, many of whom claim benefits and many of whom have been refused PIP unfairly. I have also worked with many individuals who have been in receipt of PIP whereby it's utter bullshit. One who springs to mind was able to lease a brand new BMW 1 series through motability. He was able to pay a down payment because his PIP got back paid. He prioritised the car over his living costs but would target vulnerable women to pay the rest. He was an exceptional narcissist and liar. He is just one example but there are many who play the system successfully which sadly then detracts from those in actual need.

I’m not going to argue with those who think every claimant is in desperate need and there is no fraud. It’s futile. Those that know that there is a large amount of fraud know for a reason. It does detract and take resources away from those in need but until people are willing to have a real conversation about it then we’re just going to go round in circles. I have a very distance relative who claims PIP for her ‘bad back’. There’s nothing wrong with her. It isn’t hard to play the system if you know how

Katemax82 · 30/07/2024 10:40

My husband had a brand new car on pcp for under 300 a month. Also a lot of people on PIP qualify for motability so would have a new car

MUCHtodoAboutSomething · 30/07/2024 10:28

Didimum · 30/07/2024 10:11

No where did I say driving that car was my only choice – inferring that sounds like a you problem.

Yes after mortgage, childcare, house repairs, commuting costs and bills – no I don't have £30k to drop on a new Ford Focus – and certainly not the £70–100k+ cars that OP is talking about – and paying for one on credit seems like a very dumb and unnecessary decision while I still have a mortgage and young children to pay for. Forgive me for being financially sensible, I guess ...

You can afford it, just have other priorities, a lifestyle you are
maintaining in other ways (absolutely up to the individual how his/her money is spent). The thread is about being clueless how others afford it.

"We earn combined £185k and still can’t afford a new car. We drive a 17yr old one that is continually on the verge of collapse."

😂 Not affording something on a wage that would rival the prime minister, having other priorities and a "nice" lifestyle is entirely different to not affording something. It is an insult to people who are actually struggling.

Didimum · 30/07/2024 10:11

Fluffycloudsfloatinginthesky · 30/07/2024 09:53

I don't usually make these comments but come on using the word cannot afford when you are on £185k is slightly wrong.

You have obviously made other decisions on how to spend the money and so maybe you don't have enough left for high car payments but to say that driving a falling apart 17yo car is your only choice is a bit wrong.

No where did I say driving that car was my only choice – inferring that sounds like a you problem.

Yes after mortgage, childcare, house repairs, commuting costs and bills – no I don't have £30k to drop on a new Ford Focus – and certainly not the £70–100k+ cars that OP is talking about – and paying for one on credit seems like a very dumb and unnecessary decision while I still have a mortgage and young children to pay for. Forgive me for being financially sensible, I guess ...

Picklemum24 · 30/07/2024 10:01

Cobblersorchard · 30/07/2024 08:46

We lease, and shop around for deals. I have had some very lovely cars for under £300. If you don’t choose the color and options you can get over stocks for really good prices.

We don’t like holidays much so don’t spend in them, it’s all about your priorities. Although we also own houses, I wouldn’t spend money on anything else until I had at least one rung on the ladder (we have 3).

Ours is the same, was an in stock offer so under £300 a month with no upfront payment.

Fluffycloudsfloatinginthesky · 30/07/2024 09:53

Didimum · 30/07/2024 08:55

Apart from my extremely wealthy friend (£1m joint annual income) everyone I know with a nice ‘new’ car leases it. My dad did the same and always had a new flashy car every couple of years. No doubt a lot of people thought he bought them. Our cleaner has a lovely new Land Rover – leased.

We earn combined £185k and still can’t afford a new car. We drive a 17yr old one that is continually on the verge of collapse.

I don't usually make these comments but come on using the word cannot afford when you are on £185k is slightly wrong.

You have obviously made other decisions on how to spend the money and so maybe you don't have enough left for high car payments but to say that driving a falling apart 17yo car is your only choice is a bit wrong.

CarsAreExpensive · 30/07/2024 09:46

I'm really sorry to hear about the struggle people have with PIP. I was not familiar with it as luckily noone in the family needs it but it sounds awful how much you have to put down and pay towards new car when you require it to have a life. Sending lots of love 🫂

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Didimum · 30/07/2024 08:55

Apart from my extremely wealthy friend (£1m joint annual income) everyone I know with a nice ‘new’ car leases it. My dad did the same and always had a new flashy car every couple of years. No doubt a lot of people thought he bought them. Our cleaner has a lovely new Land Rover – leased.

We earn combined £185k and still can’t afford a new car. We drive a 17yr old one that is continually on the verge of collapse.

Halfemptyhalfling · 30/07/2024 08:52

Some jobs you would need to prioritise a car as appearance is important. Some ethnic minorities prioritise a nice car to prove they've made it in new country. Some posh cars depreciate fast so can get a newish one much cheaper than you'd expect

Cobblersorchard · 30/07/2024 08:46

We lease, and shop around for deals. I have had some very lovely cars for under £300. If you don’t choose the color and options you can get over stocks for really good prices.

We don’t like holidays much so don’t spend in them, it’s all about your priorities. Although we also own houses, I wouldn’t spend money on anything else until I had at least one rung on the ladder (we have 3).

Strictlymad · 30/07/2024 08:43

babyproblems · 29/07/2024 17:29

We don’t buy brand new cars but a little bit older than new; we’ve never leased as always been told it’s the most expensive way to have a car! So we started off with old bangers when young annd have aleats saved ans much as we can- and it’s only now mid thirties we can save a decent amount each month and so now can afford to buy outright. I suppose if you live really consistently within your means and save generously for years you have a cash pot to spend as you like. We’ve never done fancy holidays etc as I hate holidays so I suppose it’s just choices made over a long period of time!

saving a decent amount each month is probably what a lease costs- but you are still saddled with the mot service etc so leasing may be better for you in that senario

Singlespies · 30/07/2024 08:41

Lease, PCP, HP. When interest rates were lower, there were some good deals. A few years ago I paid £160 a month for a brand new Honda and the lease included MOT, servicing, maintenance. Next car was much swankier - a Ford Puma - and that was £250 a month. My current car I bought. I slightly resent driving an older car for not much less money, but I needed to have something a bit more insurable for young people.

Theoldlife · 30/07/2024 08:37

Flopsythebunny · 29/07/2024 22:53

It's actually nearer £330 per month plus the advance payment. In my case, the advance payment was nearly 8k

The advance payment is generally optional though- I have a mid range 24 plate Suzuki s cross that didn’t cost me a penny.

Picklemum24 · 30/07/2024 07:48

Lots of people get trapped in a cycle of PCP / lease arrangements - it's more expensive overall and paying monthly makes it harder to save. But its also very convenient and we choose to lease even though we could buy an older car outright. There are some good deals around if you are happy to get whatever car is on offer and don't have a specific make / model in mind.

Its not too dissimilar to renting too, you can generally rent in a nicer area than you can afford to buy and you can finance / lease a nicer car than you can afford to buy too.

LostTheMarble · 30/07/2024 07:46

beguilingeyes · 30/07/2024 05:15

The mean-spiritedness of some people just depresses me. Is this who we are as a society now.
How dare some people have nicer things than me!
Who cares what car other people drive and where the money came from?

How dare some people have nicer things than me!

Actually on Mumsnet it seems to be ‘how dare people who I deem to be of an underclass have nice things? Either you can afford a full lifestyle of nice things or I’ll assume that the one or two luxury items you have are gained illegally/immorally/as personal spite to me and my large income’.

beguilingeyes · 30/07/2024 05:15

The mean-spiritedness of some people just depresses me. Is this who we are as a society now.
How dare some people have nicer things than me!
Who cares what car other people drive and where the money came from?

OnlyTheBravest · 30/07/2024 00:49

It's a mixture. Some people have prefer to lease cars, others have inheritance and buy nice cars which will last, some use their PIP for get mobility cars and are more than happy to pay the extra to have a larger vehicle, some have company cars and some make their money from cash in hand work/criminal activities.

Malahide · 30/07/2024 00:03

Saltedbutter · 29/07/2024 23:32

I get the idea that the other poster would also be angry if PIP cars weren’t maintained. I don’t think they have a clue.

I think they are also failing to grasp the crucial fact that these ‘fancy brand new cars’ aren’t being given to ‘undeserving’ disabled people just to maximally exploit government money, but because it is the most cost effective way of doing things. New car = little to no repairs, no MOT and can be sold on for a good price by Motability at the end of the lease. Older cars would be a nightmare for them in terms of fleet management and maintenance.

Malahide · 29/07/2024 23:58

iamtheblcksheep · 29/07/2024 19:51

I wouldn’t judge you. The motability scheme is meant for people on the higher level of the mobility part of PIP.

Id Have an issue if you were out cleaning said car every weekend as in that case you clearly aren’t entitled to the higher rate.

Some people just can’t get it into their heads that most decent people don’t begrudge spending money on the genuinely disabled. It’s those that are clearly milking the system that’s the issue.

Re: your ‘washing the car’ comment - you really are spectacularly tone deaf and ignorant as to what life with a disability can really look like. You obviously have no idea what you’re talking about, stop spouting such bigoted nonsense.

ILoveToCleanSaidNooneEver · 29/07/2024 23:56

Sorry, I meant to say I couldn't afford to buy a brand new car outright, but I could afford those monthly payments on a Loan or HP.

ILoveToCleanSaidNooneEver · 29/07/2024 23:50

Different life choices and priorities?

I could afford a brand new car, either bought outright, with HP or through loans at those monthly costs, but I'm content with my 20 year old Volvo and when it dies, I'll probably get another second hand car which I'll buy outright.

We earn well. I'm not a car person, although my DH is, but he likes big vehicles that I don't wish to drive.

We prioritise fun, going out when we want, and having a beautiful home that is owned outright.

Inlaw · 29/07/2024 23:45

I couldn’t afford one either. Until my 10yo car died and I had no choice. You cut your cloth as they say.

LostTheMarble · 29/07/2024 23:37

Saltedbutter · 29/07/2024 23:32

I get the idea that the other poster would also be angry if PIP cars weren’t maintained. I don’t think they have a clue.

Some of the stereotypical nonsense coming out here, I’m shocked certain posters haven’t suggested that these undeserving people of motability cars aren’t also sticking 50 inch tvs in the back for all 200 of their kids that the government are paying for on top. All whilst they have to go chop wood for their poor, exceeding wealthy parents so they don’t freeze in their big house in the Home Counties this winter 🥺

Crazycatlady79 · 29/07/2024 23:36

Some people will prioritise a car over other standards of living.
Even, say, in run down areas such as mine, there are a disproprtionate amount of what I'd call 'flash' cars.
I guess some may be Motability PIP related, others may be HP, other forms of loans etc.

Saltedbutter · 29/07/2024 23:32

LostTheMarble · 29/07/2024 23:29

What if it’s the parents who are leasing it for their child? I am a healthy adult but I have a child who could be entitled to the higher rate of mobility - it’s a very hard fight though. I know someone currently going through appeals for their 6 year old who is still 1 years old in every sense, despite a mountain of evidence they have still decided that said child can walk about adequately despite being in a specialist pram most of the time. If they do get a motability car, is it not allowed to be cleaned in case someone thinks they’re committing fraud?

I get the idea that the other poster would also be angry if PIP cars weren’t maintained. I don’t think they have a clue.

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