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Adam Peaty

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PassingStranger · 29/07/2024 13:13

Am I the only one to feel abit sorry for the mother of his son?

They were in a relationship until Adam went on Strictly and started a relationship with Gordon Ramsays daughter. He obvioulsy got caught up in the celebrity thing.
He know has got a tattoo of hollys name and talking of engagement. Whats the rush?

Also when the camera went to Adam and his family it was Holly who was there in the forefront with Adams mum and George etc.
I suppose Im being unreasonable, she is Adams girlfriend now.
How does the ex feel though seeing all this and knowing he had his head turned because he went on Strictly etc, and having to watch Holly with her son?

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CrinolinMcCringe · 29/07/2024 14:15

PassingStranger · Today 13:13
Am I the only one to feel abit sorry for the mother of his son?

There's a lot of projection here isnt there? Assuming that she must want to be with him.

For all you know, whatever she may say publicly or politely, she could be delighted to be shot of the self-obsessed man child whose existance takes priority over everyone else in the family that is typical of athletes and D-list "celebs".

I'd rather be able to do what I want than have to be dragged every few months to sit in the hot,sweaty chlorinated stand of a pool to watch a man at work.

meandkarmavibe · 29/07/2024 14:09

I'm sure it's already been pointed out but it was a different daughter of Gordon Ramsay on Strictly - that was Tilly, he's going out with Holly

It was lovely his son was there and his ex clearly is fine with it all

DaisyChain505 · 29/07/2024 14:01

Why should he not be able to be in a new relationship just because he had a failed one that resulted in a child being born.

what do you expect him to do, never move on or be happy or experience love again just because he’s had a child?

LizFromMotherland · 29/07/2024 13:58

How does the ex feel though seeing all this and knowing he had his head turned because he went on Strictly etc, and having to watch Holly with her son?

Dunno 🤷‍♂️

If you know her then ask her. If you don't, then this is all a bit weird.

Lentilweaver · 29/07/2024 13:57

"Just a swimmer?". He is the first British swimmer ever to retain an Olympic title.

BehindTheSequinsandStilettos · 29/07/2024 13:56

WhereIsMyLight · 29/07/2024 13:37

A really quick google says that Adam Peaty went on strictly in 2021 and he didn’t start dating Holly until June 2023, having been linked before that. He broke up with his ex in 2022. If they started an affair in 2021, as you are suggesting then I don’t think anyone saying 3 years is a quick timeline to be discussing engagement. However, even dating for a year, I don’t think talk of engagement is particularly quick. Although, Holly is still quite young.

Adam Peaty has spoken openly about his alcohol and mental health problems and had to step back from swimming for a while. Him and his ex also wouldn’t be the first couple to break up due to the stress of a new baby. That’s without throwing in raising a baby by yourself because your partner is training at the highest level for Olympic swimming and he’s suffering with mental health and alcohol addiction. There were a lot of stress factors on that relationship and I think separating while they can still coparent together rather than hating each other is really healthy.

It sounds like his ex is pleased that her son’s father is in a stable place to be a good role model to their son. And Holly is a stabilising factor in that. A bit like when my mum was happy my dad married my step mum because maintenance became regular as did me visiting them.

This.
Not a Strictly curse although all break-ups get tied to it.
He will have known Tilly from his series and cast following each other from that.
Gordon was in the audience a few times. Holly may have been.
However, the cracks appeared following the AT with Katya and near-kiss acting.
Eiri felt disrespected and was honest about that.
I admire her because she got some flak for that iirc when she was at home viewing, looking after their son at the time.
When they split the following year (August 2022) he said he'd let her down. Her statement on social media was gracious and elegant at that time too.
Rumours of Adam and Holly came about when they started liking each other's posts in November 2022. They confirmed their relationship May/June the following year.
Adam didn't do the tour in 2022. Tilly did.
You meet people through work, through friends of friends, through social media.
There isn't always an overlap and even if there's an initial attraction, it's not always acted upon.
Would I feel resentful? I'd feel sad but we all know on here, the pressure having a baby has on a couple, let alone a partner away from home/travelling/training a lot. I hope she has already found or finds the happiness she deserves.

Tippexy · 29/07/2024 13:56

girlfriend44 · 29/07/2024 13:21

Dont know but what has he done to his body? He was the only swimmer who was covered in tattoos? The others bodys looked much better.

Hes done well, but at the end of the day he is just a swimmer!

He has had some mental health difficulties in the past, but clearly has done very well indeed to overcome them and win the silver!

Feelingmentallyunsettled · 29/07/2024 13:55

DietrichandDiMaggio · 29/07/2024 13:41

He was famous long before he met his ex-girlfriend and his current partner is not famous, although her father is. Nobody knows why they split up, though she became pregnant very soon after they met, so their relationship wasn't really established and may have ended much sooner had George not come along.

Tbh I didn't know anything about Adam Peaty apart from the fact he is a swimmer. Then this morning I heard an interview with his Mum on the Today programme in which his son George was mentioned. So I googled who his wife/ partner was and found who his current girlfriend is and how they met. I have never seen, and am not interested in seeing, Strictly come dancing , but everything I've heard about it , including how many relationships have been affected by it, has been bad.

My comment about people ditching existing relationships for celebrity ones was more a general observation. And it is how I have always felt, and still do, as a general rule. But if the mother of Adam Peaty's son is a big enough person to be happy for him then I am pleased.

HeartandSeoul · 29/07/2024 13:55

I thought this may have been a post about how different he is compared to the last time we saw him (I couldn’t see this was an AIBU post when I clicked on it).

He seems so much more at peace with everything, and generally much calmer. It was so lovely to see. I thought he seemed somewhat arrogant previously.

Lentilweaver · 29/07/2024 13:54

I thought he was very dignified too, and quick to congratulate the winner. Amazing achievement to nearly win gold in his third Olympics.

VickyEadieofThigh · 29/07/2024 13:52

Feelingmentallyunsettled · 29/07/2024 13:29

I know his personal life is his own business but when I see people ditching their girl friends/ partners/ wife's for celebrity relationships as they become well known themselves I find it sad. And I know I possibly shouldn't but I think less of them.

But people meet and fall for others when already in a relationship all the time. That it was via Strictly isn't important.

HighOnMaiden · 29/07/2024 13:51

girlfriend44 · 29/07/2024 13:21

Dont know but what has he done to his body? He was the only swimmer who was covered in tattoos? The others bodys looked much better.

Hes done well, but at the end of the day he is just a swimmer!

And Lo! A wild goady fucker appeared....

Butterflyfern · 29/07/2024 13:50

So sad that posters think it's more important to discuss his relationships and tattoos than his incredible sporting achievements and his battle with mental health to get back in the pool.

He talks about barely being able to get out of bed a few years ago. It's unbelievably impressive that he is able to compete at the level he did yesterday.

Simone Biles is getting lots of kudos for overcoming similar mental health battles, and rightly so. But why does that not apply to Adam Peaty? (Is there a white working class male with tattoos bias going on?)

ItsAlrightDarling · 29/07/2024 13:49

girlfriend44 · 29/07/2024 13:31

I do realise that, they just look awful. He was the only swimmer looked like that?

So? Is there a particularly way that swimmers should look?

LadyKenya · 29/07/2024 13:49

Feelingmentallyunsettled · 29/07/2024 13:29

I know his personal life is his own business but when I see people ditching their girl friends/ partners/ wife's for celebrity relationships as they become well known themselves I find it sad. And I know I possibly shouldn't but I think less of them.

Why should you think less of him though? He owes the public nothing, he is just living his life. Others should do the same, and stop judging things they have no insight of.

vodkaredbullgirl · 29/07/2024 13:49

girlfriend44 · 29/07/2024 13:21

Dont know but what has he done to his body? He was the only swimmer who was covered in tattoos? The others bodys looked much better.

Hes done well, but at the end of the day he is just a swimmer!

🙄his body.

GreatScruff · 29/07/2024 13:47

I think you are really over thinking this.

Two students met at university and started a relationship, had a child and split up. Now one of them has a new girlfriend.

It happens all of the time.

ilovesooty · 29/07/2024 13:45

Werweisswohin · 29/07/2024 13:19

His personal life isn't our business.

Exactly.

MeouwCat · 29/07/2024 13:45

Sorry you WOULDNT want to upset Gordon

MeouwCat · 29/07/2024 13:44

I hope for Adams sake he takes good care of his new girlfriend, you would want to upset Gordon Ramsey

Fargo79 · 29/07/2024 13:44

girlfriend44 · 29/07/2024 13:21

Dont know but what has he done to his body? He was the only swimmer who was covered in tattoos? The others bodys looked much better.

Hes done well, but at the end of the day he is just a swimmer!

What a weird, gross comment 🤢🤢🤢

cloudsss · 29/07/2024 13:43

Feelingmentallyunsettled · 29/07/2024 13:29

I know his personal life is his own business but when I see people ditching their girl friends/ partners/ wife's for celebrity relationships as they become well known themselves I find it sad. And I know I possibly shouldn't but I think less of them.

Normally I would agree with you, but he wasn’t with his previous girlfriend for that long. It’s not like she supported him for years to get to the Olympics and then he suddenly ditched her for someone famous.

Werweisswohin · 29/07/2024 13:43

girlfriend44 · 29/07/2024 13:31

I do realise that, they just look awful. He was the only swimmer looked like that?

It's irrelevant what we think - his role is not to look good for us.

Westfacing · 29/07/2024 13:42

His ex sounds nice and their boy is lovely.

I wondered why Peaty was being interviewed by Gordon Ramsay the other day - part of that BBC family thing. Was thinking, didn't know Ramsay was a swimmer!

Emilywiththegreeneyes · 29/07/2024 13:42

Ha ha, all that misery only to be shown in the first couple of posts that his ex is delighted for his achievements and even more so, for their son to see it.

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