I've been in a relationship with my partner for 3 years and do love him. However, I am constantly feeling let down by him and unimportant.
He has lots of problems with his family (crappy divorce and struggles with his teenage children) along with some legal problems I recently helped him sort out. I'm very much a "go to" person for him as he's all over the show. When we're together things are good but when we're not, it's like I cease to exist.
We don't live together and live about 2 hours from each other's houses. This means we typically just spend weekends together.
Today he's gone home at 6 after "feeling drained" and needing to get home to sort out his things for work tomorrow. I called 4 hours later to check he'd got back okay to be told "oh, I've just come out for a quick drink with friend. I'll ring you when I'm home".
So, tired, needing to get ready for work, but in the pub at 10 and still no call, so presumably still there.
He's got a friend staying with him at the moment who is having some problems in his marriage and I'm not convinced isn't cheating on his wife.
AIBU to be really pissed off about this?