My great grandmother died yesterday and I am estranged from my family and found out due to social media, I’ve felt betrayed and heartbroken since finding out the news and felt ignored by my boyfriend. I had plans to go out today with a friend and my boyfriend would go to his mums but I just feel drained and not up for it, so I told him I’m not going today and he has kicked off with me saying “I’m not babysitting you” and saying “you’re selfish” so I’ve got angry with him and told him I want to break up. He’s now on the phone slagging me off to his mum in the other room. I feel so lonely and disappointed, with not having family or barely any friends I expected him to be more caring. Am I being unreasonable for expecting more care?