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To think going from 1-2 kids must be harder than 0-1?

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onetwoshoe · 27/07/2024 22:24

People say the second slots in but I can think of loads of reasons why it must be harder. Sure, your first makes you a parent and there’s no bigger change to your world than that. However, the second totally changes your available time, finances, mental load, organisation and pretty much everything else! Or AIBU?

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CableCar · 27/07/2024 22:29

Everyone is unique. I found 0-1 ridiculously hard as my baby was a really difficult baby, but 1-2 was an absolute breeze!!

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onetwoshoe · 27/07/2024 22:29

combinationpadlock · 27/07/2024 22:25

There is no answer to that, it depends entirely on each family, parent, child, home. etc.

That’s true. I just can’t see how (as joyous as it may be) adding more to your family is in no way harder

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combinationpadlock · 27/07/2024 22:25

There is no answer to that, it depends entirely on each family, parent, child, home. etc.

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