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Unreasonable teacher/school

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DontKeepScratchingIt · 27/07/2024 18:52

My GD (13) goes to a school rated "needs improvement". It's crap. No other schools are in the area, so a different one would mean getting 2 buses, taking well over an hour. That school is already at full capacity.

Yesterday was the last day of term. The shoes she wears split yesterday (it's a 45 minute walk home), so her dad emailed the school to say he was sending her in trainers, explaining why. Her mum sent the girl with a note, too.

The teacher refused to acknowledge those messages, and instead put my GD in "isolation" for the whole day (2 boys were in isolation for poor behaviour) - so she missed any lessons, but also a little party they had for end of term. AIBU in thinking the teacher was very mean and spiteful?

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missedmyappointment · 27/07/2024 18:57

Bustedpoon · 27/07/2024 18:54

School gotta have rules. They'll just think it was swinging the lead on the last day.

Then they can ring home and check - i think it was pathetic. I left a school that treated kids like this

StevieFae · 27/07/2024 18:56

Depends on the school behaviour &/or uniform policy.

Do the teachers actions match the policy?

If they do, then it is reasonable, if they don't then it is not reasonable as they have breached the policy.

You need to read the school policies.

It isn't about a teacher being mean and spiteful if they are following school policy.

Bustedpoon · 27/07/2024 18:54

School gotta have rules. They'll just think it was swinging the lead on the last day.

Sunshine9218 · 27/07/2024 18:54

As a teacher if I didn't believe a note I would call home and check. Unless the child has a reputation/history for lying/forging notes I might not try. It's pretty easy to tell a fake one though.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 27/07/2024 18:54

That’s mean.

We had kids who broke shoes etc. They would get a permission to be out of uniform in situations like this.