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Dog left in car at supermarket

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Sparklingtonic12 · 26/07/2024 20:38

I'd popped into a large supermarket earlier. When I returned to my car I saw parked opposite me was a black van with a staffy type dog sitting in the front. It had the passenger window cracked open slightly. The dog was panting alot.

I looked around and couldn't see anyone coming back. You obviously don't know how long the owner will be. Could be 5/10 mins, could be 20 or more.

So I decided to go into tescos and approach customer services. I was polite and said someone has left a dog in the car with the window down a small amount and it's panting alot. She kind of laughed and said in my experience most people come in and grab stuff and then go back out, usually if I call over the tanoy they get irritated. I replied that there was no way of knowing how long someone was going to be and not everyone is 5 mins. She then shrugged and I did get a bit cross and said don't worry about it then you obviously don't think it's important and I walked out. I sat in my car a further 10 mins and luckily the owner did come out but that poor dog.

It was fairly warm in my area.today too. It does not take long for a car to heat up in this heat. 5 or 10 mins could make a dog really poorly. It also had a short nose and these dogs are renowned for breathing issues.

Aibu to have gone into tesco and said something to customer services. I don't know what else I could have done really. Also was Ibu to be annoyed that the staff member did not really care about the welfare of an animal?

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DuncanMeBiscuit · 26/07/2024 21:31

EvilNextDoor · 26/07/2024 21:30

Shop in Waitrose they would have called over the tannoy

They would've treated the dog to a spa day.

EvilNextDoor · 26/07/2024 21:30

Shop in Waitrose they would have called over the tannoy

DuncanMeBiscuit · 26/07/2024 21:28

Of course YWNBU but I'm sure you know that.

If the member of staff (not sure why a PP is bringing up their take home wage?) wasn't willing to call on the tanoy, I would've asked to speak to a manager.

AquaFurball · 26/07/2024 21:26

The police here respond really quickly to these situations.

Feelingmentallyunsettled · 26/07/2024 21:24

Tbh it was a difficult situation for you and for the member of staff you spoke to.

You weren't sure what to do about the poor dog but you were caring enough to do something, which was going into the shop to report what was happening in the carpark.

The staff member also probably didn't have a clue what to do. I don't think it's that they didn't care. The staff member will be trained to expect and deal with a range of situations but this situation was not one they would have had to deal with before.

I'm really glad the dog was OK. and good on you for being prepared to take action.

Screamingabdabz · 26/07/2024 21:08

“Also was Ibu to be annoyed that the staff member did not really care about the welfare of an animal?”

You are being unreasonable to assume that a minimum wage worker didn’t care about ‘animal welfare’ so much as the supermarket protocols and doing what it takes to keep their job.

Sparklingtonic12 · 26/07/2024 21:04

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