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To move the family bathroom downstairs?

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letsjustdothis · 26/07/2024 11:51

We've seen our dream property after years of looking...it's beautifully secluded, architect designed, and even within our budget, but the problem is, the eaves make the top floor feel a lot smaller than it is.

This looks okay for the bedrooms but the "main" bathroom has a tinier than average bath with attached shower head and a toilet and sink crammed in, and no storage options. It doesn't actually have a terrible footprint on the plans but in reality feels tiny and extremely claustrophobic because the ceiling height is incredibly low (part of the room is effectively lower than knee height) and there's no window (no idea how the extraction/fresh air works, if at all...).

I just don't think it's viable at all, but we love the rest of the house.

We could change the smallest bedroom into the bathroom instead, but then it would only be a 2 bed house which I think is too few bedrooms for its size (currently 2,000 sq ft on paper).

I was thinking we could just knock the bathroom through to the smallest bedroom instead and use it for a dressing area/cupboard storage, as closing off one of the doors would also increase the amount of usable ceiling height space for that bedroom.

And put a family bathroom downstairs off the sitting room (which is a decent sized second reception room with one tiny window). The house is very open plan with a big hallway, so I don't think it would look out of place.

Both my partner and I love a big bathroom, and he likes to have late baths, so there would also be the advantage that he wouldn't wake me up. And if there was a leak or something (as happened in our current house), it wouldn't wreck a ceiling. Plus some potential buyers may appreciate a downstairs bathroom for accessibility needs, although we would really like it to be our forever home so it may be practical even for us in the future.

The master bedroom upstairs has a small ensuite, so there would still be some kind of bathroom up there.

There's also a small cloakroom downstairs with just a toilet and sink, but I don't think there's the space next to that room to make it into a full bathroom.

We can't knock through the ensuite and bathroom to make a normal sized bathroom with a window because there's an old chimney in between the two.

So it seems like building a small extension for a family sized bathroom could make sense. The space where it would be built is currently part of a (long) flat paved driveway so we don't need it, and it's not at all visible from the street, plus there are tall electric gates so no one can see in.

That said, I'm reading that having a downstairs bathroom is really undesirable and knocks a lot of value off the property. I've been googling but a lot of situations seem to be where it's the only bathroom/toilet in the property, or where you have to walk through the kitchen to get to it. So I'd love to hear your thoughts on this specific situation.

UK based, if that's relevant.

YABU = you wouldn't buy your dream property if it had the main bathroom downstairs and just an ensuite upstairs.

YANBU = doesn't bother you because there's a toilet and shower upstairs and it would be better to have a nice family bathroom even if downstairs.

OP posts:
Sunshineafterthehail · 26/07/2024 12:02

I never understand people who frown on a downstairs bathroom. After all waking hours using the loo are longer than overnight!!
Go for your downstairs bathroom op. Sounds like a fabulous plan. And who wouldn't want a dressing room?

letsjustdothis · 26/07/2024 11:59

This is the floor plan and it's just me and my partner, no plans to expand. We have friends/family visit a lot so do a lot of entertaining, but they don't stay over often.

https://www.imghippo.com/i/PZMOY1721991747.jpg

More interested to hear if we ever wanted to sell in future, whether it would put families off as we have no experience in that area and imagine it's most likely a family would be buying it from us!

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Thetwix · 26/07/2024 11:58

I wouldn’t buy a house with the main bathroom on the ground floor, unless it was a bungalow. And definitely not a bathroom off the sitting room.

But if this is your dream “forever” house presumably you plan to live in it for a significant period of time- in which case you should do whatever you want and that suits your lifestyle. I wouldn’t be worried about resale if I intended to live in it for a couple of decades.

JC03745 · 26/07/2024 11:56

Do you have a floor plan? How many are in your family and is it likely to expand?

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