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Making a move on DH's friend

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suspiciousqueen · 25/07/2024 23:53

I posted previously on relationships board about my dh.

At the moment as it stands, I can't stand him, today I just lost it with him in front of the kids and then few mins later apologised to the kids and went for a walk to clear my head.
It's constantly on my mind of how he lied and hid stuff from me. I thought we were the kind of couple that would tell each other everything no matter what but obviously not.

So today I had a 'bright idea' of flirting with one of his friends when we all meet up this weekend. Just to fuck him off in all honesty.
I've always been loyal to my DH even when we were dating and his friends would give me lingering looks but I never fell for it.
I just want to give him a taste of his own medicine to show him what it feels like.

Beginning of this year he told me I can't be friends with his other group of friends cos one of his friends and I struck up a genuine friendship and he hated it. I never hid anything, told my DH everything we spoke about and it was all innocent but he nonetheless still didn't feel comfortable me talking to him so I cut ties with the friend which I was sad about.

So aibu in flirting outrageously with one of his friends this weekend?

Btw I haven't flirted with another guy in 30 years so will need help in this department!

OP posts:
BlastedPimples · 25/07/2024 23:54

What a creep tho telling you who you can and can't be friends with. Controlling much?

BlastedPimples · 25/07/2024 23:54

If you want to cause drama and distress possibly for your dcs too, then go for it.

Or just bin your h.

Then you're free to do whatever you want.

Mountainpika · 25/07/2024 23:54

Don't.

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