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To let my 9yo use my makeup

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RosieChardonnay · 25/07/2024 17:53

I have some makeup, all very natural. My 9yo is very interested in it. She will try on my (very natural) foundation, setting powder, lip balm etc. I can tell she has it on but it's so natural and she does a good job so most people would not know she was wearing it. She likes the routine of cleansing at night too. She uses my simple cleanser.
I only allow her to wear it in the house, I would not allow it at school/parties etc. I always tell her she does not need any makeup, she is so beautiful naturally inside and out. I always talk about how it's important to be a kind person and how you are as a person is so much more important than how you look etc. She has asked when she can wear makeup out of the house and I said maybe 13. I do allow a bit of nail varnish and some lip gloss now. She has a couple of friends who do wear some makeup now when going to birthday parties. Sometimes they talk about skincare together and she has mentioned brands like drunk elephant etc. I have said she doesn't need that and it's not suitable for her age.
So am I unreasonable letting her use my makeup? I don't mind too much and she is very careful with it. She enjoys organising it for me too and is very excited when I get something new to try it out. She does have some kids makeup of her own but prefers to use mine as she says it's more natural.

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RosieChardonnay · 25/07/2024 18:25

Comedycook · 25/07/2024 18:04

I actually I think the fact it's natural make up makes it worse than the kind of garish glitter stuff. Kind of means she's taking it more seriously. I think I'd definitely be trying to discourage this.

Thanks for your comment. Personally I think the glittery stuff looks awful on kids and I would never encourage it. She doesn't like it either.

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RosieChardonnay · 25/07/2024 18:05

S1lverCandle · 25/07/2024 17:57

Slight over use of the word natural.

I probably did overuse the word!!!

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Yourdemonsyourproblem · 25/07/2024 18:04

She needs to be a kid unfortunately I know it's so hard now a days with kids wanting to be to grown

Comedycook · 25/07/2024 18:04

I actually I think the fact it's natural make up makes it worse than the kind of garish glitter stuff. Kind of means she's taking it more seriously. I think I'd definitely be trying to discourage this.

Sirzy · 25/07/2024 18:00

I agree with your overall approach but I would buy her her own suitable make up and skin care products rather than using yours, sharing make up isn’t ideal!

PashaMinaMio · 25/07/2024 17:59

Keep her a child as long as you possibly can.

Using light hardly-there make up for special occasions from 13 onwards seems like a good plan. “Less is more.”

It’s a bit like ear piercing, a right of passage which where I’m coming from is also something to look forward to as you enter your teens.

zzar45 · 25/07/2024 17:59

I think things like foundation and setting powder are too much for a 9 year old.
Glitter lipgloss, colourful nail polish or eyeshadow is fun playing, a grown up face of makeup is not imo.

otravezempezamos · 25/07/2024 17:59

I feel your pain OP. So many little girls are trying to be grown up too soon. This skincare nonsense for such young children needs knocking on the head.
I am lucky in that my kid is almost always doing sport when not at school so any make up would end up under her chin or up her nose 🤣 But I wouldn’t let her use mine. It’s for adult skin (and comes at adult prices).

S1lverCandle · 25/07/2024 17:57

Slight over use of the word natural.

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