So DD has just passed her driving test and her friend asked her to pick her up and could she please bring a spare pair of shoes. DD has just bought some new trainers and lent her those - she’d never even worn them.
Friend has since then kept “forgetting” to return them. And on one occasion whilst they were our friend turned up in the trainers.
Shes now given them back and they are ditched - there was not one attempt to clean them, the backs are squashed, covered in dirt.
I’ve told DD to drop her as a friend because I said that’s beyond disrespectful but unfortunately she feels like she doesn’t have many friends and would be very lonely without her.