I work in a mid sized team of 20 which is fairly evenly split in terms of gender.
I’ve become close with two women and we went out last weekend and a photo was posted. A different colleague then messaged me on Teams so say “why wasn’t I invited?”
I just feel like just because we’re colleagues means I have to spend my free time with her and if it were a team of four then of course I’d never exclude her - but at least 7 others weren’t invited.