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To think it’s completely and utterly unacceptable for men to compete in women’s sports?

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SwainedFreed · 24/07/2024 20:42

How the hell is this being allowed! I’ve seen the volume of medals they are earning - medals which should be earned by women. Men and women are not physically comparable and this is just a line which once again shouldn’t be crossed.

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butterbeansauce · 25/07/2024 07:33

SamW98 · 24/07/2024 21:30

Because they’re misogynistic pricks who are proud of screwing women over.

They don’t give a shit how many women lose their dreams - they see it as validation that they’re women.

Yes. It's so weird that these men that want to be women seem to really hate....
women.

SamW98 · 25/07/2024 07:28

We are in this situation because we all (or most of us) agreed that male people could be women. And the only way out of it is to acknowledge that they are not actually women, and never can be.

I don’t believe most of us ever did agree male people could be women. The majority of the federal public had no idea this batshittery was going on until it started to get out of control and we got to where we are.

i think a poll among the public would show that the majority don’t believe anyone can change sex. Most people imo are sick and tired of this whole #bekind being forced upon us at the expense of women’s safeguarding because of men who can’t understand the word ‘no’

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 25/07/2024 07:26

itsgettingweird · 25/07/2024 07:19

look at leah thomas the swimmer.... was at the bottom of his league as a male swimmer, and now, hey presto he is now a she (i have no issue with this) and she is now competing and beating bilogical woman hands down

amp.theguardian.com/sport/article/2024/jun/12/transgender-swimmer-lia-thomas-out-of-olympics-after-losing-legal-battle-swimming

Lia Thomas does not compete as a woman anymore. This was changed ages ago. Also British swimming and world swimming have a female and open/male catagory.

There was a time when the world went mad as it happened. But it was responded to pretty quickly and she has lost a legal case to be able to compete as female.

*He.

Women have still lost out and suffered because of biology deniers and people insisting men can become women. Maybe people like yourself seeing as defending Lia's position and calling him she are the main points of your post.

Just because sporting bodies are finally standing up to the 'men's feelings takes priority over everything' brigade brings no comfort to the women who have already lost out.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 07:24

itsgettingweird · 25/07/2024 07:19

look at leah thomas the swimmer.... was at the bottom of his league as a male swimmer, and now, hey presto he is now a she (i have no issue with this) and she is now competing and beating bilogical woman hands down

amp.theguardian.com/sport/article/2024/jun/12/transgender-swimmer-lia-thomas-out-of-olympics-after-losing-legal-battle-swimming

Lia Thomas does not compete as a woman anymore. This was changed ages ago. Also British swimming and world swimming have a female and open/male catagory.

There was a time when the world went mad as it happened. But it was responded to pretty quickly and she has lost a legal case to be able to compete as female.

Until it's the case in all sports, at all levels, worldwide, there is still a problem.

itsgettingweird · 25/07/2024 07:19

look at leah thomas the swimmer.... was at the bottom of his league as a male swimmer, and now, hey presto he is now a she (i have no issue with this) and she is now competing and beating bilogical woman hands down

amp.theguardian.com/sport/article/2024/jun/12/transgender-swimmer-lia-thomas-out-of-olympics-after-losing-legal-battle-swimming

Lia Thomas does not compete as a woman anymore. This was changed ages ago. Also British swimming and world swimming have a female and open/male catagory.

There was a time when the world went mad as it happened. But it was responded to pretty quickly and she has lost a legal case to be able to compete as female.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 07:17

Sisterdeloris · 24/07/2024 21:46

no one is saying trans ppl can’t play sport but they need to compete against members of their own sex. Trans women can compete against men because that’s what they are

They're outcasts sadly. They may have been born men but they would look out of place playing a "man" and equally they're not accepted by women given the many reasons on this thread. Its a shame really as I dont think most are going through the trans process solely to win sports (though maybe some are??)

It doesn't matter why they're doing it.

OK, they feel really really sad that they were born the "wrong" sex and they really really deeply feel that the universe played a cruel trick on them.

Why are the feelings of this small number of individuals more important than safety and fairness for all women and girls.

(I'll give you a clue. It's because they're something that begins with M and rhymes with "hen", and so their needs are considered more important. If they actually were women, no one would give a shit about their feelings.)

FrancescaContini · 25/07/2024 07:15

Ten years ago we would have laughed at the idea of this and said, don’t be silly, that’ll never happen. Yet it is happening. I still struggle to believe it every time I read about men taking medals from women in women’s sports.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 07:14

Sisterdeloris · 24/07/2024 21:36

It doesnt make sense does it. But then should the trans people compete against men? Or should they just give up on competitive sport unless its mixed sports but other than darts it doesnt really happen does it.

They can do what they like as long as they don't make it women's problem.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 07:12

thursdaymurderclub · 24/07/2024 21:27

i have absolutely no issue with anyone wanting to be whatever they want to be! but when it comes to sport... have you noticed its males who have chosen to be females who are stealing and cheating other women out of medals.. i cannot think of one example where a woman who has chosen to be a man has won any medals in any field of sport... and we all know why this is. i don't care what operations you have, what blockers or medications you take. the male body, with or without certain appendages is always going to be so much stronger than that of a biological female! its sad and its cheating.

look at leah thomas the swimmer.... was at the bottom of his league as a male swimmer, and now, hey presto he is now a she (i have no issue with this) and she is now competing and beating bilogical woman hands down.

cheats!

Follow that train of thought through to the end.

You say you have no issue with Lia Thomas now being a "she".

But that's how we've ended up with Lia Thomas competing in women's swimming events.

Because we all agreed that people like Lia are now "she", and so the next step was, "Well since she's a she, she can compete in women's sports."

The International Olympic Committee said something along the lines of, "Everybody understands that trans women are women" when defending its decision to let Laurel Hubbard compete in the women's weightlifting in Tokyo. Hubbard didn't win, but still deprived an 18 year old female athlete from a developing country of the opportunity to compete.

We are in this situation because we all (or most of us) agreed that male people could be women. And the only way out of it is to acknowledge that they are not actually women, and never can be.

If you are willing to say someone is a woman is becomes very difficult to explain why that person should not be allowed in places or sports which are for women.

LlynTegid · 25/07/2024 07:08

If the previous government actually had really cared about women, instead of empty rhetoric, it would have been easy to effectively ban those who have gone through male puberty from competing in women's sports. No public (usually lottery) funding, no use of public facilities for competitions.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 07:08

SSpratt · 24/07/2024 21:16

Women need to leave the control of these governing bodies and set up their own competition. For women, run by women. Leave the men to run their own two categories (for men calling themselves men and men calling themselves women).

Just like female rape survivors should set up and fund their own single sex rape crisis support?

Er, no. Men just need to stay the hell out of places which are for women. However they identify.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 07:05

MargaretThursday · 25/07/2024 07:01

If TWAW, so it's fair that they compete against women, then TMAM should be taking equal numbers in men's sports....

Funnily enough that's not happening because their female bodies make them uncompetitive against men so they have to compete in women's categories or not at all.

MargaretThursday · 25/07/2024 07:01

If TWAW, so it's fair that they compete against women, then TMAM should be taking equal numbers in men's sports....

itsgettingweird · 25/07/2024 06:57

Most British sports bodies and also world sports bodies have updated their transgender policies the past year or so and have female and male/open categories.

Cycling certainly has so despite the link above I'm not how sure how it's happening at club level.

My ds is a swimmer. Clubs have to follow aquatics gb/ home nations gender policy when they run meets.

You can only swim in the female category if you are biologically born with female sex.

I know there's threads continuously on here with regards makes competing as females but in the real world of elite sport it just isn't happening.

Keepingcosy · 25/07/2024 06:56

It's batshittery on a grand scale.

And all the opinionated male pros and ex pros don't say a bloody word about it.

Any male competing is a narcissist cheat who treats women as props.

The fact people enable situations like this and then say their concerned about VAWG is unbelievable. Always knew women are seen as less than, but this really told me just how less than we are.

ChaToilLeam · 25/07/2024 06:53

Sick of all the virtue signalling bullshit. It’s always women losing out. To help with #bekind, sport should #befair.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 06:40

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 24/07/2024 20:48

Politicians don't govern sports, and even if UK politicians kicked up a stink, that's inconsequential for sports where the governing bodies are based outside the UK anyway.

It's a problem for the governing bodies of individual sports to tackle.

Why is saying no to men a problem at all?

It's easy.

"You can't compete in women's sports, because you're male. End of discussion."

Why is this apparently so difficult?

hollyblueivy · 25/07/2024 06:37

XenoBitch · 24/07/2024 23:23

Maybe my view on this is too simplistic, but I think that if you were born with a penis, then you should not compete with people who were not born with a penis.

This is the nail on the head.

There does appear to be quite a uniform view on this post. It sounds as though the UK are further ahead than America in trying to sort he mess out.

Is there any appetite in the USA to put a stop to this?

ClickClack300 · 25/07/2024 01:42

I feel so sorry for the women that have trained all of their lives for this race. Mind you, isn’t this the same country where women aren’t allowed abortions? Enough said. Disgusting.

Relaxandunwind · 25/07/2024 01:25

Women with vaginas should boycott sport until the women with penises stop participating.

Relaxandunwind · 25/07/2024 01:22

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 24/07/2024 20:49

You'd think it would be obvious. However, I think it's the Emperor's New Clothes. If you say something that's obviously at odds with the facts, people assume it must be true that there's been a new scientific discovery, or how could you hope to get away with it? In this case, millions of years of human evolution is just being batted aside as if somehow something massive's changed in the last few years. Well, spoiler alert, it hasn't. Women have separate sports for the same reason children and older athletes do - it means like is competing with like. Male bodies that went through male puberty are still male bodies that went through male puberty even if the male is taking oestrogen and wearing stereotypically female clothing.

(And it's right and proper that they went through male puberty. Everybody has to go through puberty, even if it's tough. It's an essential part of human development and the children currently being given blockers are getting drugs that have a lot of very nasty side effects. Huge medical scandal in the making.)

Yes I agree. It’s the Emporor’s New Clothes again.

” I just happen to have a penis but you must agree with me I’m as much a woman as all you lot with vaginas «

Yes, of course ! Whatever you say ! 🤣

BreadInCaptivity · 25/07/2024 01:11

Yes.

Of course it is. It's bizarre that the question even needs to be asked.

But here we are.....because male entitlement knows no bounds nor the glee in mediocre sportsmen demonstrating their biological superiority over women (often literally when you look at their clothing where the anatomy is very evident).

RedToothBrush · 25/07/2024 00:24

Circumferences · 24/07/2024 21:24

I don't know how these men sleep at night

Probably with boners.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 24/07/2024 23:57

Unbelievable that this has to be said. Long overdue for cricket, football and the other sports bodies pandering to these men cheats to wake up and start doing what they're meant to be doing. Ensure that women's sport is for women - no exceptions.

TheKeatingFive · 24/07/2024 23:49

It's obviously absolute horseshit and anyone with a brain and a conscience knows that.

Yet so many are prepared to sit back and let this happen. Or worse, bully and harass women standing up for themselves.

It just shows you how little women count to some people. The last few years have been absolutely eye opening to me. I had no idea how ingrained this casual misogyny is. 🤬

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