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DH ‘quick drink’ after work

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Conversat1onswithfriends · 24/07/2024 18:47

Would this annoy you? DH goes for a ‘quick drink’ after work meaning he doesn’t get home until gone 9pm. We have a newborn and a toddler and the days at home are so long I’m not sure if this is making me irrationally angry when I see his text! It’s once every couple of weeks but really messes up dinner plans etc too.

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ToofHurty · 24/07/2024 18:52

I wouldn’t begrudge this once every couple of weeks.

ErrolTheDragon · 24/07/2024 18:51

That doesn't sound like a 'quick drink' to me.

What time does he leave work and how long is his journey?
Tbh if I had a newborn and a toddler it think any sort of drink after work was a bit unreasonable unless I was getting some social time off too.