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Pushchair for 4 1/2 year old?

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fghbvh · 24/07/2024 07:25

My son is recently diagnosed ASD. He's fairly low additional needs (high functioning). He'll be five at the end of November and starting school in September.
We got rid of his pushchair at the start of this year. I don't drive and now we don't have the pushchair I rarely take him out on my own.
He is perfectly able-bodied, but refuses to walk for longer than a few minutes. He then asks to be carried and I'm just not strong enough to do this. If I don't carry him he will have a meltdown and we end up trapped somewhere until my husband can drive to collect us.
I'm filled with anxiety every time we go out and my mum suggested allowing him to go back in a pushchair. My husband is very against this - but he drives and is big and strong so has no problems carrying our son.

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fghbvh · 24/07/2024 07:33

PuttingDownRoots · 24/07/2024 07:31

Is he wanting to be carried due to sensory overload? If so... look at it like a wheelchair

I'm not sure. Sometimes it is very clearly that, others I don't know. My husband thinks it is laziness.

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RantyMcRanterton · 24/07/2024 07:33

A maclaren buggy (Major Elite) would suit, I reckon. You can pick up a second hand one.

When your husband does the school run he's welcome to walk and carry your little boy. You're not fucking your back up, end of.

fghbvh · 24/07/2024 07:32

lateatwork · 24/07/2024 07:30

Would a scooter work? But tbh if a pushchair works for both of you and it means you can get out of the house, I'd do it.

Scooter / bike is the same as walking. He'll do it for a few minutes and then want to be carried. And then I'm left trying to pick him up and carry the scooter 🤣

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PuttingDownRoots · 24/07/2024 07:31

Is he wanting to be carried due to sensory overload? If so... look at it like a wheelchair

lateatwork · 24/07/2024 07:30

Would a scooter work? But tbh if a pushchair works for both of you and it means you can get out of the house, I'd do it.

LydiaTomos · 24/07/2024 07:28

How much does he weigh? I used a Silver Cross Pop buggy on holiday for a four year old. Check the weight limit on that one. You might be able to find one on Facebook Marketplace.

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