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Admitting to killing his sister and getting away with it

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SouthernFashionista · 23/07/2024 22:29

I could weep after reading this. But mostly I’m just angry. How in gods name has this happened? I know some don’t like DM links but the facts are that a man punched his sister in the head, killing her, and admitted doing so yet will face no charges. Sickening.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13664507/Girl-11-died-punched-heat-moment-half-brother-not-face-charges.html

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MaMaMalenka · 24/07/2024 04:35

Teentaxidriver · 23/07/2024 23:57

I imagine CPS/ police are scared of being accused of racism, hence no charge.

THIS!

T1Dmama · 24/07/2024 04:35

SOMEONE PLEASE START A PETITION!!

T1Dmama · 24/07/2024 04:28

How can parents stop police talking to the other children?? Surely this is wrong… there’s been a murder and the parents should be over ruled!

LargeSquareRock · 24/07/2024 04:25

mandarindreams · 24/07/2024 02:45

Horrifying but not surprising. Sibling on sibling domestic abuse is often trivialised and this is the natural end point. I know a lot of people (female and male) who grew up with violent siblings and who were told they'd just have to live with it because nothing could be done to remove their abuser.

All of this. If you have a violent sibling, there is nowhere to turn. Not parents, not schools, not police. Speaking from experience.

HelenaWaiting · 24/07/2024 04:17

Callmemel · 24/07/2024 01:28

Worth emailing Jess Phillips on this horrendous case?

Yvette Cooper.

DoIWantTo · 24/07/2024 04:00

What kind of vile people would protect the person that killed their daughter?! The adults all deserve to rot in hell.

Allthehorsesintheworld · 24/07/2024 03:24

And presumably he still lives with the younger children who could be at risk?
Hope the girlfriend has seen him for what he is.

Violence against women and girls a “National emergency” yet CPS have let this child down so badly. And in doing so could leave the younger children at risk.

apnews.com/article/uk-police-violence-against-women-girls-585c695c32fb1961fd6d7bff3be5e6da

biscuitandcake · 24/07/2024 02:47

I also hope she stays away from the punchy fucker.

biscuitandcake · 24/07/2024 02:47

I hope the girlfriend (whom he texted his confession to) is OK and doesn't suffer any negative consequences from the CPSs crapness. Reading between the lines it sounds like she did the right thing by the little girl. It's awful if she made the (difficult but 100% morally correct) choice to report and the police did fuck all.

mandarindreams · 24/07/2024 02:45

Horrifying but not surprising. Sibling on sibling domestic abuse is often trivialised and this is the natural end point. I know a lot of people (female and male) who grew up with violent siblings and who were told they'd just have to live with it because nothing could be done to remove their abuser.

fearfulexchange · 24/07/2024 02:14

Disgusting, that was an awful read. That poor little girl, shame on them all.

slammmer · 24/07/2024 02:00

I think that we can safely say that the Mohammed's have no honour and have disgraced their religion.

Callmemel · 24/07/2024 01:28

Worth emailing Jess Phillips on this horrendous case?

AliceMcK · 24/07/2024 01:10

Teentaxidriver · 23/07/2024 23:57

I imagine CPS/ police are scared of being accused of racism, hence no charge.

It certainly wouldn’t be the first time.

Even if the child did have an underlying health issue and he didn’t mean to kill her, the fact he a grown man forced his way into a room and punched an 11yo girl in the head should still be punished and there is nothing racist about that.

BobbyBiscuits · 24/07/2024 01:10

What a sick family to try and protect the adult son who admitted in the text messages he killed her! They prevented the two younger ones who witnessed the killing from speaking to police. I don't even see how that part can possibly be legal?
Absolutely disgusting. RIP another poor innocent female child. Killed by a male family member.

Peacelily001 · 24/07/2024 00:35

Bagpuss2022 · 24/07/2024 00:33

Absolutely disgusting poor poor girl also why are the two younger children not being removed by SS? Surly they are a danger their sister was killed by a adult brother.

Exactly this. They should be removed for safeguarding. The poor kids are probably traumatised from witnessing what happened too.

Bagpuss2022 · 24/07/2024 00:33

Absolutely disgusting poor poor girl also why are the two younger children not being removed by SS? Surly they are a danger their sister was killed by a adult brother.

BlackShuck3 · 24/07/2024 00:29

MiGatoEsBonitoTuGatoEsFeo · 23/07/2024 22:58

Also his face should be plastered all over the paper.

I'd think it'll already be online? It wouldn't be too hard to crowdsource his identity surely?
As per a pp I can't help thinking there must be some inaccuracy in the news report.

SinisterBumFacedCat · 24/07/2024 00:27

The parents are as guilty as he is. I hope someone is keeping a close eye on those poor younger siblings.

AllTipAndNoIceberg · 24/07/2024 00:25

God, how awful. And baffling

Surely there needs to be more of an outcry — you can’t just let men go round killing children and handwave it away? He confessed!

Eleven years old Sad

DreamTheMoors · 24/07/2024 00:25

This is sickening. Heartbreaking. I’ll never understand the why of these things.

Earlier today I read a short article about a 12-yr-old girl who suffocated her 8-yr-old cousin and then rearranged the bedding to make it look like nothing was disturbed.
This happened in the US a few days ago and was captured on home surveillance footage.
The older child is being charged with murder.
The article didn’t mention why.

Our civilization is falling apart.

No33 · 24/07/2024 00:24

Yet again, another girl/woman that doesn't matter.

This is disgusting.

AvrielFinch · 24/07/2024 00:24

Terrible. If it was another child I would understand more, but not an adult.

twilightermummy · 24/07/2024 00:19

I can't believe what I've just read. The CPS sound next to useless in this case. Females (particularly of colour) must be considered worthless. It makes me sick.

It's clear what's been going on in that family and that they've closed ranks to protect him. I'm inclined to agree with a previous posted about the two-tier policing. It stinks. There's something seriously wrong in every element of this case.

MissFancyDay · 24/07/2024 00:14

LuluBlakey1 · 23/07/2024 23:07

Her beauty (or not) is irrelevant.

Why comment like this, it's so disrespectful, all children are beautiful, it's obvious what was meant.