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Admitting to killing his sister and getting away with it

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SouthernFashionista · 23/07/2024 22:29

I could weep after reading this. But mostly I’m just angry. How in gods name has this happened? I know some don’t like DM links but the facts are that a man punched his sister in the head, killing her, and admitted doing so yet will face no charges. Sickening.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13664507/Girl-11-died-punched-heat-moment-half-brother-not-face-charges.html

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Nextweektoo · 24/07/2024 08:56

diktat · 24/07/2024 08:11

Please don’t turn this into an opportunity to be racist to Muslims. This is about another little girl let down by her family and the justice system.

Did you say another child that doesn’t matter to Christians when Star Hobson, Arthur Labinjo Hughes, Victoria Climbié and many other kids were killed?

While you do the same to Christians?

1983Louise · 24/07/2024 08:53

Probably the same reason the poor girls that were groomed in Rotherham were let down so badly. Let's not rock the apple cart and upset certain parts of society. Before anyone gets on their high horse I'm stating the bleeding obvious and nothing else.

TVRose · 24/07/2024 08:48

I read this yesterday and couldn’t believe it. The only good thing is the world will know how the family covered for him, but I’m guessing in some circles that will see the family held in higher regard in their community, that they protected a male. Just awful

TheScenicWay · 24/07/2024 08:46

I doubt the police are worried about coming across as racist. This isn't a random stop and search.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 24/07/2024 08:45

slammmer · 24/07/2024 02:00

I think that we can safely say that the Mohammed's have no honour and have disgraced their religion.

Absolutely; after all there's nothing in their religion which suggests it's okay to use such violence on a defenceless sibling or for the family to behave as they have

There's plenty among some subsets of the culture though, and as so often "cultural sensitivities" are very likely to be the priority here - which is why I'd say good luck to those hoping an eye is kept on any other siblings

ThatAgileGoldMoose · 24/07/2024 08:42

You don't get to throw around accusations that the police aren't acting because they fear being called racists. Not when the killer has admitted his crime.

Why isn't he being pursued for an assault charge, if there isn't enough evidence that his blow was deadly?

Rape is legal and there's a man walking around who openly admits he killed a little girl and he doesn't even have a criminal record to show for it. He could technically go get a job working with children and it wouldn't show up on a DBS check. What a country to be female in.

BakeOffRewatch · 24/07/2024 08:42

You’re right @Brexile , perpetrators of all characteristics are getting away with it. The reports about the prosecution and probation system are really worrying, such as the case of Sara Aleena murdered by Jordan McSweeney. Jordan shouldn’t have been released but the probation system is under staffed.

However I hate that that’s used to deflect very serious issues in communities, honour killings, abusive behaviour dynamics in the larger family and stopping access to education for girls are huge issues.

Probably12 · 24/07/2024 08:41

He should be prosecuted and the parents as well, for covering it up.

tragic and appalling.

BakeOffRewatch · 24/07/2024 08:38

The legal system is meant to represent society, is there a petition or way to support CPS making a prosecution?

I’m still waiting to hear the outcome of the case of poor 10yo Sara Sharif. I can’t believe her father left her dead and fled to another country. Families are really failing their children.

Brexile · 24/07/2024 08:36

Teentaxidriver · 23/07/2024 23:57

I imagine CPS/ police are scared of being accused of racism, hence no charge.

That makes no sense. It would be more racist to say 'Who cares about the victim, she's only a [insert epithet].

I'm pretty sure that prosecuting murder in these circumstances can never be a racist act. Clearly the CPS can't be arsed and now racists are going to use it as a wedge issue, claiming that minorities are now getting away with murder as well as the usual grooming etc. Well yes they are, but white perpetrators are too.

BrutusMcDogface · 24/07/2024 08:33

Birdseyetrifle · 23/07/2024 22:39

Sadly it doesn’t surprise me that they are protecting the male in this situation rather than getting justice.

This was my first thought, too. Despicable.

GeraniumJenny · 24/07/2024 08:33

No wonder they call it the Criminal Protection Service.

That poor girl deserves justice.
Her family are disgusting for not telling the truth.

TheScenicWay · 24/07/2024 08:27

That poor beautiful girl. Let down badly and probably had been for ages.
The fucker didn't even know why he punched her and killed her.

TheScenicWay · 24/07/2024 08:26

None of this makes sense!
There are text messages.
There's a 999 call where they picked up on what family members were saying.
There are younger witnesses who are also vulnerable and need protecting.
WTF

Sherrystrull · 24/07/2024 08:23

@mirax

Maybe toxic females or maybe other women who are being controlled, abused and are scared themselves.

LordPercyPercy · 24/07/2024 08:22

Please don’t selectively quote to deliberately miss my point.

The outrage here is that there is no prosecution taking place. That IS the point that you've deliberately missed.

Bluescissorsbluepen · 24/07/2024 08:20

I was fuming yesterday when on (I think) GMB they were blaming social media and Andrew Tate for the rise of VAWG and while they undoubtedly play their part surely this is much more of a reason.

you can kill a girl child and walk away even when you admit it. The police are no deterrent, you’re not going to end up in prison and probably the ‘investigation’ won’t expose you to public disgrace so carry on hitting your wife. It’s sickening and I don’t think the public realise how little justice there is.

NeedToKnow101 · 24/07/2024 08:19

This story comes out one day after the story that VAWG has risen massively. It's terrible if they don't prosecute this man.

diktat · 24/07/2024 08:18

LordPercyPercy · 24/07/2024 08:16

Did you say another child that doesn’t matter to Christians when Star Hobson, Arthur Labinjo Hughes, Victoria Climbié and many other kids were killed?

Their killers were prosecuted.

Please don’t selectively quote to deliberately miss my point.

DreamlandFable · 24/07/2024 08:17

What a joke this country has become. It seems that no-one is held accountable for anything anymore. What else has this murderer and his family gotten away with? He must be walking around thinking he’s untouchable.

That poor 11 year old girl was not ‘screaming her head off’ for nothing. She must have been terrified.

LordPercyPercy · 24/07/2024 08:16

Did you say another child that doesn’t matter to Christians when Star Hobson, Arthur Labinjo Hughes, Victoria Climbié and many other kids were killed?

Their killers were prosecuted.

Bromptotoo · 24/07/2024 08:14

He apparently admitted it in texts to his girlfriend. They would have some value in court but a jury would hear it in a context of other evidence that would put the causal link between the alleged punch and the girl's death in doubt.

He went .'no comment' at police interview and may well have, as is his right, refused to take the stand at trial.

I understand the analogy with pub brawls where somebody bangs their head on a kerb or whatever and they're charged with manslaughter. Causal link there is crystal clear.

It's been said before that the difference between manslaughter and man's laughter is merely a bit of punctuation.

Hard cases, either way, are why we have a system to decide what get's prosecuted.

diktat · 24/07/2024 08:11

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Please don’t turn this into an opportunity to be racist to Muslims. This is about another little girl let down by her family and the justice system.

Did you say another child that doesn’t matter to Christians when Star Hobson, Arthur Labinjo Hughes, Victoria Climbié and many other kids were killed?

Unknownsecret · 24/07/2024 08:08

That’s an horrific read from beginning to end … the half brother AND her parents are all responsible! Her father immediately lied in the 999 call, failed his daughter and backed up the half brother 😟 That poor beautiful girl .. those poor siblings who witnessed it all 🥺

diktat · 24/07/2024 08:08

This is heartbreaking. My brother was 12 years older me than me, I grew up scared of him. He slapped me with such force once for being late getting out of school. One punch on the face from him would have seriously hurt me.

Rest in peace, Falaq.