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To say vanity sizes should be rolled back?

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amoreoamicizia · 23/07/2024 13:37

I bought some vintage St. Michael shorts this weekend in a size 12 which fitted me perfectly. In current sizes I'm an 8 or sometimes- incredibly- a 6 (looking at you, Boden).

As flattering as it is to think of myself as a size 8, it's simply not the truth or a reflection of reality. A small size 12 does seem about right, as that was my size as a slim-ish teenager in the 90s.

Who is this vanity sizing really helping? Who does it serve? Isn't it about time clothing manufacturers were held to account and forced to roll back sizes to what they were in the early 00s, at least?

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Disturbia81 · 25/07/2024 15:27

@Butterworths You're right they probably have similar amounts of fat just spread differently. So weird how different our bodies are! I was classed as anorexic and ill at a size 10 because of how my weight distributes and the size of my shoulders and hips etc.

Funny how men don't analyse their bodies so much..

Anonymouseposter · 25/07/2024 13:18

Butterworths · 25/07/2024 13:11

Yes this all makes sense - are you disagreeing with me somehow?

I misunderstood and thought you were saying that the body fat percentage would be similar for all of them

Butterworths · 25/07/2024 13:11

Anonymouseposter · 25/07/2024 12:57

Her whole skeleton will be bigger, both longer and broader. Her muscles will be bigger. Weight charts tend to allow 4lbs more for every inch in height. She is 10 inches taller than the shortest woman, therefore this would amount to 40 lbs. Clothes sizing is difficult. People have different shapes and clothes are cut to the average. Clothes size doesn’t necessarily reflect whether someone is overweight. The average is catered for, very petite, very tall, very hourglass tend to find buying clothes difficult

Yes this all makes sense - are you disagreeing with me somehow?

Anonymouseposter · 25/07/2024 12:57

Butterworths · 25/07/2024 10:50

This is such a funny idea. I guess the taller woman's bones are somewhat heavier as they will be a bit longer but she also has body fat and there is just more of her overall. I would be amazed if she has less fat in total than the shorter woman it's just distributed over a larger body so she is more in proportion.

Her whole skeleton will be bigger, both longer and broader. Her muscles will be bigger. Weight charts tend to allow 4lbs more for every inch in height. She is 10 inches taller than the shortest woman, therefore this would amount to 40 lbs. Clothes sizing is difficult. People have different shapes and clothes are cut to the average. Clothes size doesn’t necessarily reflect whether someone is overweight. The average is catered for, very petite, very tall, very hourglass tend to find buying clothes difficult

NonPlayerCharacter · 25/07/2024 12:44

it’s possible for your weight to creep up and not know it because unless you weigh yourself - I don’t - you wouldn’t know from clothing sizes.

If you want to keep an eye on your weight, weighing yourself is exactly what you should be doing. It's silly to use one marker as a measure for something else. If it's size you're concerned about, use a tape measure.

cardibach · 25/07/2024 12:04

Likewhatever · 23/07/2024 20:13

Of course I’m not saying everyone is in denial about their size, I’m just making the point that it’s possible for your weight to creep up and not know it because unless you weigh yourself - I don’t - you wouldn’t know from clothing sizes. You might notice your old clothes not fitting I suppose.

fc123’s perspective was really interesting and informative about how sizing is determined but it doesn’t address the variation between different manufacturers.

You Ishtar notice from old clothes? Of course you would, unless you change all your clothes every month. I buy very few clothes. I know exactly what my size is doing as a result. I also weigh most weeks. What it’s doing at the moment is coming down, but the variation in sizes I have to buy is massive (and naturally I’m buying more than usual because the old ones are too big).

cardibach · 25/07/2024 11:52

Tomatojuiceandvodka · 23/07/2024 16:17

Sizing is madness on the uk high street. Yesterday I bought a new denim skirt and a pair of denim shorts. Skirt was a 6 and shorts a 10. Go figure.

I also agree with a pp who said shoes have got bigger. I was a 7 as a teen and am a 6 now. Maybe my feet have shrunk?

Well this is rubbish about shoes. Lots of companies size small. I’m a 9.5 I. DMs and Birkenstocks (the only shops I can consistently buy from) which is an EU 43. ASOS sells 43 as an 11. My feet actually have got smaller with weight loss, but 8 have to buy bigger sizes in most shops.

cardibach · 25/07/2024 11:17

Bunny44 · 23/07/2024 14:36

I've been wondering about this. I was thinking about losing weight but I'm currently a size 8 most of the time. XS bikini bottoms. I'm genuinely concerned what I'm going to fit into?? I'm not actually that slim or petite. I have a BMI of 24 and quite a bit of extra wobble post baby I'd like to get rid of! I've found some manufacturers are just enormous though.

You’re normal BMI. Of course you aren’t overweight. Address the wobble with t9 gas that’s probably what is causing it.

cardibach · 25/07/2024 11:07

Cherry8809 · 23/07/2024 14:24

Fully agree with posters saying how large M&S clothing runs - it’s so far off, it’s ridiculous. Their size 8 tops are easily a 12.

Same with Zara. I bought a top from there online a few years ago, went for a S, but it was almost like a 14/16. I returned it to see the sizing on the XS but it was the same.

I don’t think the amount of added stretch in clothes helps with sizing accuracy at all either.

And yet I have to buy a bigger size in M&S tops than everywhere else and their trousers have never fit me, even when I was a skinny teenager because the waist:hip ratio is all wrong for me.
It’s not all about size, it’s about shape too.

cardibach · 25/07/2024 10:58

FanFckingTastic · 23/07/2024 13:50

The problem comes when a size 6 or 8 is so much bigger than it was, and that means that actually those of us that were a size 6 or 8 can't actually buy regular clothes anymore. Clothes should just be sold by measurements then it would be factual and hopefully more consistent.

They would still sell the same sizes though, just call them by different things. They don’t sell many clothes smaller than a 6 because not many people need them. That wouldn’t change if you called them something else

Edingril · 25/07/2024 10:52

I want to wear what fits I don't care what size is what but why can't it be all accurate, to me using 'vanity size' shows you have issues I would say

Butterworths · 25/07/2024 10:50

Disturbia81 · 24/07/2024 21:46

@NonPlayerCharacter I think because the extra bone weight of the taller one maybe weighs similar to the extra fat on the shorter one.

This is such a funny idea. I guess the taller woman's bones are somewhat heavier as they will be a bit longer but she also has body fat and there is just more of her overall. I would be amazed if she has less fat in total than the shorter woman it's just distributed over a larger body so she is more in proportion.

Yalta · 25/07/2024 09:29

amoreoamicizia · 24/07/2024 19:00

Ah- I know the answer to this! What happened with shoe sizes is that we used to follow British shoe sizes (4/5/6/7 etc.) and the manufacturer's model for the shoes was made according to this standard. Then when production shifted overseas EU sizing was followed and it doesn't align exactly with British sizing, and the second most common British size - a 6- was often aligned with EU 39 for convenience when in fact a British 6 is larger than a 39. A British 6 is actually more equivalent to 39.5, so people who thought they had size 6 feet may find 39s too small and sometimes when a 40 is labelled as a 6, it's too big.

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I always fitted a size 6.5 or 7 depending on the shoe, although size 7 was slightly too big

Then they brought in the European sizes and 41 fitted perfectly

Still have the 41 shoes so I know my feet haven’t changed but now I am supposedly a size 6

amoreoamicizia · 25/07/2024 09:11

AllPrincessAnneshorses · 25/07/2024 08:45

Quite. But we must all be made to feel like enormous land whales so OP can revel in her virtuous slimness.

I've already said I've lost weight because I'm ill, so F.U.

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ForGreyKoala · 25/07/2024 09:00

willieverlevelup · 24/07/2024 19:20

I’m glad you picked up on this. Labelling women very large based on a size 12 - the mind boggles!

Well said. There is no way I could wear a size 12, and while I am a little overweight I most certainly am not very large!

I daresay a teeny tiny person would say I am, but I am also taller than most of them.

ForGreyKoala · 25/07/2024 08:57

Didimum · 23/07/2024 14:12

Not sure I’ve experienced this. I fit the same size across all brands I wear. From M&S, Boden, Fatface, TopShop, Whistles, vintage clothes, and have been same size all my life. Perhaps it’s the accommodation for hip/waist or bust/waist ratios that changes across brands.

I agree. I don't live in the UK, but do get clothes from there sometimes and I always buy the same size both here and from the UK and they are always fine. I wear a couple of sizes bigger than I did in the 1980s, and I would say that I am a couple of sizes larger than I was then.

NonPlayerCharacter · 25/07/2024 08:48

KirstenBlest · 25/07/2024 08:42

So why the outrage on threads that a British company sells clothes made in China, India, etc?

Well there wouldn't be outrage if they didn't know about it.

My guess is that they think the marketing is misleading.

AllPrincessAnneshorses · 25/07/2024 08:45

Cinocino · 23/07/2024 13:44

Really as long as there’s consistency with measurements it’s really a non issue that sizes have changed over a 60 year period.

A previous size 8 is no more valid than the current sizing for an 8. It’s all arbitrary.

I fit the size I fit, I don’t care what it used to be labelled as, nor does the number make be feel better or worse about myself

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Quite. But we must all be made to feel like enormous land whales so OP can revel in her virtuous slimness.

KirstenBlest · 25/07/2024 08:42

SSpratt · 24/07/2024 21:58

People don’t think that their clothes are made in the UK. The labels state where it is made and clearly says Bangladesh, China, Turkey etc.

So why the outrage on threads that a British company sells clothes made in China, India, etc?

NonPlayerCharacter · 25/07/2024 08:42

IcedPurple · 25/07/2024 08:23

Who is this vanity sizing really helping? Who does it serve? Isn't it about time clothing manufacturers were held to account and forced to roll back sizes to what they were in the early 00s, at least?

Why?

All clothing sizes are arbitrary. Size 8 from 15 years ago was no more or less 'right' than a size 8 now. What would be more useful would be consistency across - or even within - brands, and being able to know the exact measurements for the clothes, especially when shopping online.

There's profiling even within brands, though. The most obvious one being the ones that add a plus size line and you're likely to find the difference between sizes there is of a greater proportion than in the straight sizes (orders of magnitude). But they often also have certain lines for specific customers; for example, they might do a beachwear range for people who holiday in sunny climes in winter. Those people tend to be richer and richer people tend to be thinner. The clothing will reflect that.

Bourneyesterday · 25/07/2024 08:38

The clothing industry has adapted to the world it is now operating in. I don't think it matters whether your shorts say 12 or 8 on them. Why do you think it does?

Auburngal · 25/07/2024 08:32

I have tops from a size 12 to 20. The 12s only got 2.

I have to go to 18 for most of my tops as noticed they are an inch longer in length and not as tight on the sleeves. Yet baggy in the middle

IcedPurple · 25/07/2024 08:23

Who is this vanity sizing really helping? Who does it serve? Isn't it about time clothing manufacturers were held to account and forced to roll back sizes to what they were in the early 00s, at least?

Why?

All clothing sizes are arbitrary. Size 8 from 15 years ago was no more or less 'right' than a size 8 now. What would be more useful would be consistency across - or even within - brands, and being able to know the exact measurements for the clothes, especially when shopping online.

narniabusiness · 25/07/2024 08:19

Thank you @amoreoamicizia for starting this thread and to @fc123 for your contributions. Your industry knowledge has been very helpful. I did come at this topic from a ‘vanity sizing’ standpoint so it was interesting to see size12 taken to be Ms Average, and that she has changed over time.
To add my own two penny worth. I don’t notice my weight increasing as it tends to go on evenly all over and I don’t weigh myself regularly. But I am motivated to loose weight if I have to go up a dress size, so for me consistent dress sizes (over the years) are a useful guide. I was a size 12 as a young adult, and couldn’t have fitted my hip bones in a size 10 pair of jeans. They were cut for a smaller frame than mine. Fast forward 40 years and a slightly larger me is now wearing size 10 and beginning to feel that perhaps size 8 would have been a better fit. I’m struggling to try one on though as in my head, size 8 is for child like petite women.

Bronguin · 25/07/2024 08:16

The real problem is that if, like me, you were originally a size 10, the current size 6 is so large on me that I can't even alter it so that it does fit. There are companies I now can't buy from (Wrap, for example), and if the trend continues, it will be the same for you original size 12s too. I've written to some, asking them to consider making a size 4, but just get ignored.

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