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Neighbour issue. What to do next?

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redlorryyellowlorryredlorryyellowlorry · 23/07/2024 10:00

Hi ladies. We live in a quiet, short road. Around 30 houses, all which open straight onto the pavement. 7 months ago our neighbour was having his house painted. Ooh says I......let's ask them to do ours too. Price was agreed and off they went.
A couple of days later they were good to start. We chose the paint and off they set. Myself and my husband were out at work and returned to a lovely great paint job.
Around 4 weeks following this a neighbour from down the road knocked to say the painters had got paint sprinkles on his car (it was parked outside our house when the painting was done). The painters had clearly not covered the close cars with a cloth. We didn't have direct contact details for the painters but we were sure our NDN would as they had initially engaged them.
We asked NDN to get in touch with them or pass us their contact details.
NDN did none of these things despite us asking several times. Neighbour with the car got his car polished, removing the paint. He said it cost £150 and is looking for reimbursement of this from either the painters or ourselves.
On Sunday 'down the road' neighbour confronted DH, effing and jeffing and threatening him. Like zero to 100. Prior to this DH was going to offer to pay half as we can't get hold of the painters and NDN are definitely not going to help with contact. Anyway, down the road neighbour storms off threatening DH and allsorts. DH didn't react to his aggressive approach (retired police).
Planned to leave it a few days for him to calm down and pop over to resolve.
Just now I went to take the bins out and down the road neighbour is walking to our house with a glare. I ask him is he is OK? 'Not really' he growls. 'Just wait till I see your husband' and off he goes giving me the evils.
Whilst I don't feel threatened by the dick swinging, I am feeling huge resistance to helping him meet the cost of the car polish now. But equally I don't need this drama so close to my home.
Any suggestions for the next step?
Should we be the bigger person and pop the cash through his letter box or let the angry man stew in his juices?
Sorry no diagram Grin

OP posts:
DustyLee123 · 23/07/2024 10:06

You didn’t splash the paint so you shouldn’t have to pay.

IncognitoUsername · 23/07/2024 10:04

How did you pay the painters? Surely you must have a receipt or email? I don’t think you should pay the guy down the road but neither should you leave him to stew. Next door neighbour is being unreasonable in not giving you the details.

EarthwormKim · 23/07/2024 10:04

I can't understand how you had such a big job completed without knowing anything about the guys that did it? You really didn't get their company name, number, FB page? Their names? Their van didn't have signage?

Can you post on FB saying 'house at number (yours) has been painted, it looks great. Has anyone got the contact detail for whoever did it?'

But also, if the owner of the car had already had the paint removed, I don't think you'll have much luck in reimbursement.

Where's the proof it was the same paint as your house now?

RedHelenB · 23/07/2024 10:03

You got your house painted so it's your problem to solve. Pay the man his money and then try again to get the details of the decorator

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