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To ask you to choose which coffee machine (for someone who hates coffee!) and how to force myself to love coffee as top drs have told me I HAVE to drink it and lots of it

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CocoBellaSparkle · 23/07/2024 04:43

Dear MN’s,

I’ve been telling myself to not NC .. (years ago I did a lot ) but I’d rather just be ‘me’ so on that note .. some may have briefly seen/noticed that I’ve got a very bleak outcome .. very later stage ‘C’ caught unfortunately too late and it’s spread and no cure and removal / transplant / chemo will be fatal .. so untreatable and no cure

Anyway got that annoying little bit said and out of the way 😄 sooo my top Doctors/Specialists/ Nurses have all said that for my particular illness (annoyingly would have been better advice in the very early days now it’s more ‘the horse has very much bolted off ..) but nothing to lose in still trying this - coffee is THE healthiest thing people on my shoes can consume for this type of cancer

I DETEST coffee and always have .. i’ve had about 3 or four cups in my whole life .. and those ones not only tasted awful but gave me the shakes , worst migraine and sickness and bad tummy

Genuine question MN’s - can you (or have any of you) hated coffee and made yourself fall in love with it or even tolerated it ?

I love the idea of being a NORMAL person (cause i’m fully aware i’m the abnormal one as everyone loves coffee I believe) and to love coffee and to meet friends for coffee , to appreciate a nice mug of coffee, to have that ‘coffee kick ‘ in the mornings, to enjoy coffee from independent small family owned coffee houses to discover different coffees etc

And now my cancer doctors and nurses are telling me it will only be a good thing for me to drink the stuff so thought would ask you which coffee machines you have ?

i ask as hospital say the instant stuff isn’t really the ‘best’

I love the idea of the touch screen machines BUT they’re crazy expensive (especially for a now single mother , very poorly so had to give up my amazing career and living off savings which has trickled like water AND uber pricey for a coffee HATER 😄)

Now I know (or think ) that the machines that are coffee beans to cup are the best and the pod machines are frowned upon (especially with those who know and love their coffee!)
but I have two boys too and they hate coffee .. so do you think a pod one would be best ?

I’ve had a tassimo in the past (mainly for hot chocolate for my then very little boys and sometimes myself )

My budget is ideally not over £250 (i’ve just moved and finished furnishing my apartment and now I think i need to rob a bank just to live 😄) and have been looking into
Tassimo
Lavazza
L’Or
Nespresso

Plus bonus points - cream coloured /retro look
easy to use (not a faff)
milk frother (don’t think these come with pod machines though - i could be wrong ..,)
also to have pods that have different choices of coffees so maybe I could (force myself ) to actually like a type of coffee ☕️

Also a machine with pods and/or the machine itself that can make a lovejy hot chocolate
pods that include mocha’s/ cappuccino etc

thank you (if you’ve got this far!) for reading and I’m ready to order a machine asap just thought would ask for any pointers

thank you - CocoBella :)

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CocoBellaSparkle · 23/07/2024 05:03

Summer- oh nooo please please don’t say this or come to this ‘conclusion’ .. I NEVER once stated that coffee or anything for that matter ‘cures’ anything like cancer! please don’t put words in my mouth and say this as that’s actually very wrong on your part!

And to ask if this is ‘genuine’ (???) are you ok Summer? Only I think you’re very strange imo .. do you honestly think i’d be ‘lying’ about having this horrific illness .. it’s knocked my teenage sweet boys to the floor , tears .. utter sadness .. they’re being so good to me and helpful .. i’ve been really positive always in a high spirits (even when not feeling like it) for my boys .. i appreciate every single morning i wake up .. i never thought id find myself aged 39 and facing this and spending so much time in hospital

so please please please THINK before you type and press ‘post’ as if it’s not helpful or kind then seriously what’s the point of your message ?

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Margesherwood · 23/07/2024 05:02

Well I think making yourself drink something you don’t like is not a great place to start. I think your starting point is going to find another doctor.

On the coffee point, It’s irrelevant which machine you buy, it is about the coffee itself. You need to try lots of different Coffees to find the one you like the taste and smell of. Personally I think buying a small cafetière for a tenner and a battery operated milk frother (ikea do them for a couple of quid) is a better place to start. And cheaper. And better for the environment than non decomposable pods. Personally I like Illy coffee so I’d recommend that.

Kittylickingplate · 23/07/2024 05:01

I am so sorry for your diagnosis.

I have been advised that coffee is good for my liver so I make an espresso shot, twice a day and just down it like medicine. Mine is a basic Breville machine.

Summerhillsquare · 23/07/2024 04:54

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