Hi
I’m 59 in a fairly full on stressful job IT which is quite physical at times which I struggle with due to knees/strength lifting IT kit around etc.
Husband is 10 years younger is a freelance journalist works from home writing, going to conferences etc.
His father has recently passed, estate worth about £750,000. A third of which will go to our daughter (starting uni in September).
I’m still apparently expected to work until I,m 68 which I don't think I physically think I can do, hauling IT kit around site for 20aged users and am on call 24/7. I also have loNg Covid.. However his pension plan says he can retire at 60.
i know Its his fathers legacy and I have no entitlement but when my mum died I paid for a Land Rover Discovery for him and improvements to the house.
aibu to say we can let me give up or reduce work considerably.?