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No holidays - carbon footprint

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Teacherbee85 · 22/07/2024 21:04

I've noticed recently whenever anyone posts about flying to go on holiday they tend to get jumped on by people saying it's bad for the environment.

I don't think I know any of these people in real life - everyone I know goes on holiday at least twice a year.

But on mumsnet a lot of people seem to have stopped due to environmental reasons.

If this is you, when did you make the decision? How do you deal with family and friends who so still choose to fly regularly?

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BoeJiden · 22/07/2024 21:52

What is the issue with going on a cruise ship?

bergamotorange · 22/07/2024 21:52

BarryCantSwim · 22/07/2024 21:46

So still misunderstanding on purpose.

Any action to reduce is great. Any single action in isolation says nothing about a persons total carbon footprint.

Any reduction is a reduction.

If someone is minded to reduce their carbon footprint, that's a positive action.

WishIhadnotcome · 22/07/2024 21:50

BarryCantSwim · 22/07/2024 21:46

So still misunderstanding on purpose.

Any action to reduce is great. Any single action in isolation says nothing about a persons total carbon footprint.

Oh yes. I see now. That’s true. I could cut down on flying but drive a massive car and eat red meat every day. That’s true. But, generally, the quickest and easiest way to cut your carbon footprint down massively is reduce or cut out flights as they are generally the highest bit of our carbon footprint.

bergamotorange · 22/07/2024 21:48

BarryCantSwim · 22/07/2024 21:40

Wrong. It’s a cut assuming they didn’t also purchase a diesel SUV etc.

If they are already own the SUV then not buying the flights is still better than also buying the flights.

Also owning an SUV doesn't change the impact of the flights. Only the size of their overall carbon footprint, so the absence of flights is still a reduction.

(Before you ask, no I don't own an SUV. Or any car).

Kitkat1523 · 22/07/2024 21:47

WishIhadnotcome · 22/07/2024 21:37

Because if we say it people get pissed off. A very close friend of mine literally shuts me down if I try and mention it. It’s like how it used to be when I said I was vegetarian or didn’t drink alcohol - people who eat lots of meat or drink lots of alcohol would see my choice to not as a criticism of their choice to eat meat/drink. It’s not. My choice is my choice. But it often triggers guilt or shame or something which gets directed back at me.

Thats why I don’t talk about it much. Sick of triggering anger (driven by shame and guilt probably)

I don’t give a flying fuck what others do..,.I certainly no guilt or shame! ….I been abroad by plane 3 times this year and will again and never give ‘ saving the planet a thought’…..but I certainly wouldn’t judge you for doing it…..you wouldn’t make me angry ….I mean why would you?

WishIhadnotcome · 22/07/2024 21:47

Kitkat1523 · 22/07/2024 21:44

Yeh right…..I’m nhs ….can’t even get a fecking pay rise 🤣🤣

Yes. Me too. When I spoke to the organisation I said the same as you, but they didn’t rule it out. The employee gets a metaphorical rubber stamp that makes it look good as it’s doing more for the environment. Our Healthboard is doing more now and there was the very comprehensive report about the impact on health that the climate emergency is already having, soooooo you never know!!

Mulhollandmagoo · 22/07/2024 21:46

Scattery · 22/07/2024 21:13

I have family/friends who have cut back on flights (to the point where they fly about once every 2-3 years). We went on holiday last year to Europe via train. I loved it. I think some people equate "not flying" with "never leaving the country" for some reason.

Yes, we went to France on the train last year, it was brilliant! Comfortable, stress free and cheaper. Definitely looking into doing it again, but going on somewhere further probably once my daughter is older.

BarryCantSwim · 22/07/2024 21:46

WishIhadnotcome · 22/07/2024 21:43

I think if you look at the figures, flying is by far the highest form of transport.

So still misunderstanding on purpose.

Any action to reduce is great. Any single action in isolation says nothing about a persons total carbon footprint.

RoachFish · 22/07/2024 21:46

I am no Greta but I do try and do my part. I have to fly once or twice a year within Europe for work but I don't eat meat, I don't have a car, I live in a small-ish well insulated apartment, I shop second hand for all clothes except underwear/sleepwear/gymwear, I recycle etc. I cycle or use public transport wherever I go and I would absolutely never, ever set foot on a cruise ship.

mitogoshi · 22/07/2024 21:45

I don't think my few commercial flights a year make even a tiny bit of difference when you see celebrities taking private jets daily. Ditto a cruise with 3000 people vs a private yacht

XenoBitch · 22/07/2024 21:45

WishIhadnotcome · 22/07/2024 21:42

There is an organisation that is trying to get employers to sign up to give extra leave if people travel slowly rather than flying. A way of encouraging people to fly less.

But if they need the employees to fly as part of their job, they will want them to use the fastest way possible so they can be back in the office.

WishIhadnotcome · 22/07/2024 21:44

Doodar · 22/07/2024 21:43

its usually because they can't afford it.the only 2 families I knew who did this were't well off, one came into some cash and off they went 😂

It’s cost us more to drive to Europe than fly. Way more than a cheap fly and flop to the Canaries.

Kitkat1523 · 22/07/2024 21:44

WishIhadnotcome · 22/07/2024 21:42

There is an organisation that is trying to get employers to sign up to give extra leave if people travel slowly rather than flying. A way of encouraging people to fly less.

Yeh right…..I’m nhs ….can’t even get a fecking pay rise 🤣🤣

WishIhadnotcome · 22/07/2024 21:43

BarryCantSwim · 22/07/2024 21:40

Wrong. It’s a cut assuming they didn’t also purchase a diesel SUV etc.

I think if you look at the figures, flying is by far the highest form of transport.

Doodar · 22/07/2024 21:43

its usually because they can't afford it.the only 2 families I knew who did this were't well off, one came into some cash and off they went 😂

WishIhadnotcome · 22/07/2024 21:42

Kitkat1523 · 22/07/2024 21:30

But so many places you can’t go ( well not unless you have loads and loads of leave)

There is an organisation that is trying to get employers to sign up to give extra leave if people travel slowly rather than flying. A way of encouraging people to fly less.

BarryCantSwim · 22/07/2024 21:40

bergamotorange · 22/07/2024 21:34

This is unjustifiably dismissive.

If a person cuts their own carbon footprint by choosing not to fly, that's a cut.

Wrong. It’s a cut assuming they didn’t also purchase a diesel SUV etc.

bergamotorange · 22/07/2024 21:38

XenoBitch · 22/07/2024 21:36

So many people proclaiming to no longer fly due to environmental impact.... does that mean that there are less flights now? Because I don't think there is.
Maybe someone could have a look and do the maths on it.
The seat you are giving up is being taken by someone else.

But that's their choice.

I'm making my choice, I think it's the right one, I'm not going to fly just because other people do.

Agii · 22/07/2024 21:37

Industrial farming and agriculture for it causes the biggest pollution. We could start there.

WishIhadnotcome · 22/07/2024 21:37

JamSandle · 22/07/2024 21:10

I've never heard anyone in real life say it

Because if we say it people get pissed off. A very close friend of mine literally shuts me down if I try and mention it. It’s like how it used to be when I said I was vegetarian or didn’t drink alcohol - people who eat lots of meat or drink lots of alcohol would see my choice to not as a criticism of their choice to eat meat/drink. It’s not. My choice is my choice. But it often triggers guilt or shame or something which gets directed back at me.

Thats why I don’t talk about it much. Sick of triggering anger (driven by shame and guilt probably)

XenoBitch · 22/07/2024 21:36

So many people proclaiming to no longer fly due to environmental impact.... does that mean that there are less flights now? Because I don't think there is.
Maybe someone could have a look and do the maths on it.
The seat you are giving up is being taken by someone else.

bergamotorange · 22/07/2024 21:34

BarryCantSwim · 22/07/2024 21:31

This is one of those things that taken in isolation means nothing. Someone’s carbon footprint is far beyond where they holiday.

This is unjustifiably dismissive.

If a person cuts their own carbon footprint by choosing not to fly, that's a cut.

BarryCantSwim · 22/07/2024 21:34

Snowflakeinsummer · 22/07/2024 21:32

The people who eat local in the winter. What do you eat? Potatoes, carrots, onions and swede and spring greens.
We have an allotment and swede and onions are all we have left. I like kale but nobody else does, and I won’t eat the Brussels sprouts because of the amount of insects inside

Agree. Also have a large allotment and outside what we’ve pickled/jammed/chutney’d fresh fruit and veg is scarce.

Kitkat1523 · 22/07/2024 21:34

WalkingonWheels · 22/07/2024 21:18

We don't fly and don't intend to. If more people did the same then perhaps we could make a difference. The future of the planet is more important to me than holidays. Plus, I'm not one for "needing" to go somewhere abroad. It doesn't really interest me.

So you not really ‘giving up something’ …..if you not bothered anyway….I don’t need to go abroad…..but I love going…..so many countries to see…..I don’t really consider any carbon footprint if I’m honest ….I’m vegetarian and drink almond milk….but not because I want to save the planet…. We are all different I guess

DumbassHamsterSitterPerson · 22/07/2024 21:33

Not flying doesn't mean no holiday.
I'm sick of the narrative that it's only a holiday if you go abroad.

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