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AIBU to be worried

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LTw75 · 22/07/2024 12:52

I’ve just logged on to do a Sainsbury’s online shop and in my favourites folder are condoms which I’ve never bought and my husband swears is not him… All other favourites match what has been previously purchased. I can’t help but worry he may be lying… AIBU?

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Yousaidwhatagain · 22/07/2024 14:07

If you have teens could it be them and used the family nectar card or something

Aquamarine1029 · 22/07/2024 14:06

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Loads of men are definitely stupid enough.

Aquamarine1029 · 22/07/2024 14:06

TheDuck2018 · 22/07/2024 14:03

Surely, if your husband was going to fuck around, he wouldn't buy condoms online in the shopping account?????

As the op has explained several times, he could have bought them in the store.

SwannWay · 22/07/2024 14:04

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TheDuck2018 · 22/07/2024 14:03

Surely, if your husband was going to fuck around, he wouldn't buy condoms online in the shopping account?????

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LTw75 · 22/07/2024 14:02

StormingNorman · 22/07/2024 13:58

Do you have teenagers or young adults in the house?

Yes. Do you think it could be the algorithm?

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StormingNorman · 22/07/2024 13:58

Do you have teenagers or young adults in the house?

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LTw75 · 22/07/2024 13:46

saoirse31 · 22/07/2024 13:32

Surely u just have to check all previous orders to your house🤔

It includes items bought in store too so I’m afraid that won’t help

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LTw75 · 22/07/2024 13:45

ginasevern · 22/07/2024 13:30

How did you DH react when you asked him?

I messaged him as he’s abroad. Said it must be a mistake but he has previous from 5 years ago hence my paranoia 😞

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saoirse31 · 22/07/2024 13:32

Surely u just have to check all previous orders to your house🤔

ginasevern · 22/07/2024 13:30

How did you DH react when you asked him?

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LTw75 · 22/07/2024 13:07

Topofthemountain · 22/07/2024 13:00

Hmm very strange, definitely not just a suggested item as opposed to a favourite with the heart?

This was my first thought but have thoroughly checked and all other items (300+) match what we’ve had before or have ‘sponsored’ on there to suggest it’s a proposed item. This has a heart which to me means it’s been purchased before. Am really hoping it’s an issue with the algorithm but wondering if others have experienced this.

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Topofthemountain · 22/07/2024 13:00

Hmm very strange, definitely not just a suggested item as opposed to a favourite with the heart?

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LTw75 · 22/07/2024 12:59

Scentsless · 22/07/2024 12:58

Presumably you can log in and view your previous online orders, so would see if any were purchased. If your DH had purchased them instore, how would that link to your online account? I don't use Sainsburys, but don't they just use nectar as their loyalty card, which is presumably not linked to your online Sainsburys account?

We use the same nectar card so our in store purchases are linked to my online grocery account

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Scentsless · 22/07/2024 12:58

Presumably you can log in and view your previous online orders, so would see if any were purchased. If your DH had purchased them instore, how would that link to your online account? I don't use Sainsburys, but don't they just use nectar as their loyalty card, which is presumably not linked to your online Sainsburys account?