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To wonder if a lot of the Just Stop Oil protesters are not very nice people on a personal level

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HazelSchmazel · 22/07/2024 12:08

There are a few Just Stop Oil threads around and I've noticed that a couple of posters have stated that the protesters are not very nice people.

Which got me thinking .....

A few years ago, I was in a horrible relationship with a rather unpleasant guy - a selfish, alcoholic, abusive cheater, who treated me like dirt and ended up stealing a considerable amount of money from me. Despite being a daily meat eater, regularly flying, driving a gas guzzler, having children etc. he would regularly pontificate on saving the environment (and would castigate me on environmental grounds for having a cat - even though I'm a childless vegetarian, who never flies!). Needless to say, the whole experience made me very unhappy.

Fast forward to the present, and I gather that he is now a very active Just Stop Oil protester.

Now, I'm bracing myself to be shot down in flames, as I appreciate that of course, it's unreasonable to judge an entire movement based on one bad apple.

But could it be the case, that there is something about JSO that attracts these nasty characters? Just wondering ......

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PeachSnake · 29/07/2024 12:25

HazelSchmazel · 22/07/2024 12:08

There are a few Just Stop Oil threads around and I've noticed that a couple of posters have stated that the protesters are not very nice people.

Which got me thinking .....

A few years ago, I was in a horrible relationship with a rather unpleasant guy - a selfish, alcoholic, abusive cheater, who treated me like dirt and ended up stealing a considerable amount of money from me. Despite being a daily meat eater, regularly flying, driving a gas guzzler, having children etc. he would regularly pontificate on saving the environment (and would castigate me on environmental grounds for having a cat - even though I'm a childless vegetarian, who never flies!). Needless to say, the whole experience made me very unhappy.

Fast forward to the present, and I gather that he is now a very active Just Stop Oil protester.

Now, I'm bracing myself to be shot down in flames, as I appreciate that of course, it's unreasonable to judge an entire movement based on one bad apple.

But could it be the case, that there is something about JSO that attracts these nasty characters? Just wondering ......

Quite often we see protesters, JSO,ER, climate this and that as a group of people who have zero respect for the rest of the public, so from wrecking works of art to glueing themselves to roads and buildings, non violence protests that often turn violent when you get the extreme elements. The activists see all the suffering on the rest of us and choose to join them. So they are a constitutionally trouble causing group who respect nobody which is why they come across this way, imo.

HazelSchmazel · 29/07/2024 12:11

DancingLions · 26/07/2024 21:20

My one personal experience of an activist many moons ago was an ex, hugely into animal rights. So much so he was arrested on numerous protests. He refused to wear leather, ate no animal products, even objected to rocking horses due to what they symbolised!

Everyone said that someone so kind to animals must be a lovely person. He was massively abusive and came very close to killing me.

So personally I would never again get involved with someone "radical". I think "the cause" is often an excuse to behave in unacceptable ways but try to legitimise it. Extremism is extremism no matter how noble the cause.

@DancingLions I'm so sorry about your dreadful experience with this vile abuser. My heart goes out to you.

My experience with my ex left me deeply traumatised and I still find it very difficult to trust people. Yet he portrays himself as a noble campaigner for justice, even though he treats people badly on a personal level.

My AIBU was more along the lines of what makes JSO so attractive to such unpleasant people, rather than the rights and wrongs of JSO per se (if that makes sense).

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DollyPegg · 29/07/2024 11:52

TryingToSeeTheFunnySide · 29/07/2024 10:34

That's even less nice 😔

Tough. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

TryingToSeeTheFunnySide · 29/07/2024 11:37

PollyPeep · 29/07/2024 11:04

I wouldn't bother, honestly. These people are showing who they are, and it's embarrassing for them now.

You're right. I'll stop reading the posts on here, and then there's no risk of me rising to the bait again.
Anyway, if you speak to your friend who's in jail, please let her know that many of us think the sentences are ridiculously unjust, and that we're very sympathetic, whether we agree with their tactics or not.
Take care 💚

PollyPeep · 29/07/2024 11:04

TryingToSeeTheFunnySide · 29/07/2024 10:34

That's even less nice 😔

I wouldn't bother, honestly. These people are showing who they are, and it's embarrassing for them now.

TheCadoganArms · 29/07/2024 10:51

TryingToSeeTheFunnySide · 29/07/2024 10:33

I don't agree with the action you mentioned, but tbf to JSO, I think they just use washable powder paint and soup etc. Also they know paintings are protected by glass. No permanent damage would be done.
I think they're trying to make the point that human (and other species) life is more important, and with climate change, many millions, or even billions, of human lives, and those of most other species, are at risk.
I do completely agree with them on those points.

They are morons who along with many of their fellow protesters seem to be completely misjudging the public moods appetite for such direct action. Not all of the National Gallery's collection is behind glass and lobbing soup about could easily damage other paintings that are not protected. I doubt those concerned are exactly experts in preservation of works of art, prehistoric monuments or other objects they target so simply dismissing it as 'its only a bit of washable powder paint' is another moot point.

TryingToSeeTheFunnySide · 29/07/2024 10:34

PBandJ111 · 29/07/2024 08:55

JSO cretins are at Gatwick airport stopping people from going through departures. Sorry but I hope they get hurt.

That's even less nice 😔

TryingToSeeTheFunnySide · 29/07/2024 10:34

TroysMammy · 29/07/2024 10:18

If I was having to step over them on my way to the plane I would accidentally on purpose find my shoe or bag would made contact. "Sorrrrreeeee"

That really isn't very nice 😔

TryingToSeeTheFunnySide · 29/07/2024 10:33

TheCadoganArms · 29/07/2024 08:44

I used to work around the corner from the National Gallery and have a soft spot for the place as I spent many a happy lunchtime mooching around the place. When JSO threw paint over the Sunflowers I was so angry, it was such a futile childish gesture and cultural vandalism and any sympathy I may have had pretty much went out the window.

I don't agree with the action you mentioned, but tbf to JSO, I think they just use washable powder paint and soup etc. Also they know paintings are protected by glass. No permanent damage would be done.
I think they're trying to make the point that human (and other species) life is more important, and with climate change, many millions, or even billions, of human lives, and those of most other species, are at risk.
I do completely agree with them on those points.

TroysMammy · 29/07/2024 10:18

If I was having to step over them on my way to the plane I would accidentally on purpose find my shoe or bag would made contact. "Sorrrrreeeee"

PBandJ111 · 29/07/2024 08:55

JSO cretins are at Gatwick airport stopping people from going through departures. Sorry but I hope they get hurt.

TheCadoganArms · 29/07/2024 08:44

malificent7 · 29/07/2024 08:11

Whilst on holiday visiting galleries we were asked to leave drinks at reception. Jso throw things at art= unacceptable. I say this as someone who thinks we need oil alternatives.
My friend is lovely and used to protest with them but no longer agrees with their methods.

I used to work around the corner from the National Gallery and have a soft spot for the place as I spent many a happy lunchtime mooching around the place. When JSO threw paint over the Sunflowers I was so angry, it was such a futile childish gesture and cultural vandalism and any sympathy I may have had pretty much went out the window.

Fimofriend · 29/07/2024 08:30

I don't understand why the activists haven't been sued for stopping ambulances. Isn't there some law saying that it is illegal to prevent firetrucks and ambulances from doing their jobs?

JollyHelper · 29/07/2024 08:30

I think any kind of activism attracts some people who care less about the cause and more about the fight.

They're angry people who want a 'legitimate' outlet for their anger. They enjoy harming people or causing chaos and pick a cause where they feel their otherwise unacceptable behaviour is justified in some way.

malificent7 · 29/07/2024 08:11

Whilst on holiday visiting galleries we were asked to leave drinks at reception. Jso throw things at art= unacceptable. I say this as someone who thinks we need oil alternatives.
My friend is lovely and used to protest with them but no longer agrees with their methods.

TheCadoganArms · 29/07/2024 07:48

TryingToSeeTheFunnySide · 29/07/2024 06:45

That's not been my experience with Greenpeace or XR at all. Most really do try to walk the talk. I don't know any JSO activists. But, I reckon they are genuinely trying to care for the Earth and her inhabitants.

That may be the case but I am always surprised how lacking in media saviness some of their spokespeople are when invariably the tabloids end up digging up old social media posts of them on long haul gap year destinations (Indigo Rumberlow). Sure, between said trip and joining JSO they may have had a Damascene moment and become fully signed up to living a carbon free life but all the public see is yet another plummy voiced public school type being a hypocrite. As mentioned before the optics are not good.

TryingToSeeTheFunnySide · 29/07/2024 06:45

Zanatdy · 29/07/2024 06:24

I’m sure most are big hypocrites in their private life

That's not been my experience with Greenpeace or XR at all. Most really do try to walk the talk. I don't know any JSO activists. But, I reckon they are genuinely trying to care for the Earth and her inhabitants.

Zanatdy · 29/07/2024 06:24

I’m sure most are big hypocrites in their private life

Violettateal · 29/07/2024 05:46

Good points, yes often lacking significantly in real life

TryingToSeeTheFunnySide · 29/07/2024 05:23

Allfur · 28/07/2024 21:38

Anonymity certainly helps fuel the vitriol

Definitely. Worrying that people think it's OK to be so unpleasant when they can't be identified.
Maybe they forget they're talking about real human beings with real feelings? Though they wouldn't like it if it was them. If everyone remembered the principle of 'do unto others, as you'd have them do unto you' the world of online forums would be a much better place.

TryingToSeeTheFunnySide · 29/07/2024 04:48

IndigoIsMyFavouriteColour · 28/07/2024 21:44

Having spent much time amongst activist/hippie types, I can tell you there is a deep misogyny that runs through this group.

Could you give examples?
I'm a woman and a feminist, and an environmentalist.
I've not spent time with JSO. But, was very involved with Greenpeace for a few years; and was always treated with the utmost respect as a woman.
I'd be interested to learn what you experienced.

PollyPeep · 28/07/2024 22:02

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 28/07/2024 21:44

Repeatedly breaking the law and finally getting jail time (and nowhere near the maximum sentence that their crime for which they were convicted and sentenced to carried) is 'unjust' now. What a travesty indeed!

It is unjust when protesters get a longer sentence than those causing the problem, yes.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 28/07/2024 21:44

Repeatedly breaking the law and finally getting jail time (and nowhere near the maximum sentence that their crime for which they were convicted and sentenced to carried) is 'unjust' now. What a travesty indeed!

IndigoIsMyFavouriteColour · 28/07/2024 21:44

Having spent much time amongst activist/hippie types, I can tell you there is a deep misogyny that runs through this group.

Allfur · 28/07/2024 21:38

Anonymity certainly helps fuel the vitriol