To say DH can’t see female friends alone?

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Namechange2764 · 21/07/2024 17:25

DH has some female friends I feel he is too friendly with. WIBU to say he can only see them in a group situation with others not one to one?

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G123456789 · 21/07/2024 17:28

Unless he has a track record of cheating, you are coming across as very controlling and insecure.

Naturally, if he's taking one out for a meal and staying overnight at hers...you might have a point....if it's coffee or work related. No

combinationpadlock · 21/07/2024 17:28

either trust him or divorce him

Gymmum82 · 21/07/2024 17:28

If my husband tried to tell me I could only see certain friends as part of a group I’d deliberately see them more often on their own. You don’t get to control other people

Goslingsforlife · 21/07/2024 17:27

Jesus. How would you feel if he dictates which friends you can see in what setting. Batshit.

LettuceFlavour · 21/07/2024 17:27

You can't put restrictions on the person you are married to like that. Either be married to them or don't.

Willsean · 21/07/2024 17:27

If you already know he's too friendly with them, he will be too friendly even if others are there

Kangarude · 21/07/2024 17:27

And what will he say to that? If my DH tried to say that to me, I’d be telling him that he doesn’t get to dictate who I can and can’t see. You either trust him or you don’t

Ereyraa · 21/07/2024 17:27

Yes yabu

AgnesX · 21/07/2024 17:26

Good luck with that. Do let us know how that goes (assuming there's some huge backstory?).

ColinFuckingRobinson · 21/07/2024 17:26

Can't really give an opinion without context. Is he untrustworthy? If so, why are you with him? Has he cheated in the past?

Needthesun · 21/07/2024 17:26

Totally unreasonable

Himitsu · 21/07/2024 17:25

Yabu!!

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