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To think this was bloody dangerous and some people are just batshit

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Redgreenfroggy · 21/07/2024 09:40

We are in London at the moment. Can I just say I like dogs and have no issue in general with owners, dogs etc as long as they are well behaved and considerate etc.
Was at the embankment tube station and was walking along the platform with my son and husband. Son was a bit ahead taking to another boy.
Suddenly my son and this lad going flying forward and ended up on a heap and this women starts shouting at them. Turns out her little dog was ok an extendable lead and the dog walked right in front of my son and the other lad. The dog was so near the platform edge. I shout back at the women that on what planet does she think having her dog on an extendable lead on the tube platform was ok. Everyone else is just looking in disbelief. Then member of tube staff just walks past ignoring the issue.

the women picks up her dog and storms off back up the platform.
WTF

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crumblingschools · 21/07/2024 10:38

Where does OP say the children were running about @paperrocksiscissors

paperrocksiscissors · 21/07/2024 10:35

'and was walking along the platform with my son and husband. Son was a bit ahead taking to another boy.'

Youre both in the wrong.

The woman should have the dog on a short lead, but as a Londoner , kids running about on a platform on the tube is DANGEROUS.

Not only is it very easy to lose a child on the underground, its dangerous as hell if they bump into someone and end up on the (electrified) rails!

You should have control of your children on the underground, its not a bloody playground and that dog owner was probably pissed because two boys were charging around on a platform. She , like me, probably lives here, not visiting like you, Londoners do not like children running around on the tube.

Bahhhhhumbug · 21/07/2024 10:34

Dog owner who loves dogs but extendable lead hater here too.
Horrible case a while back in my area where a woman was crossing a zebra crossing with her mini daschund trailing behind her on one. A lorry driver (so therefore in a high cab ) had stopped to let her cross and thought the crossing was clear when she cleared it and proceeded. Killed the little daschund leaving the hysterical woman still holding the handle of the damn lead .Horrific.

79Helene · 21/07/2024 10:32

We've never taken ours on the Tube - it's too fraught for them down there, especially the more central you get. And I firmly believe extendable leads should be banned anyway.

Thelnebriati · 21/07/2024 10:32

YANBU. Some people use their dog to act out against other people in ways they couldn't do themselves.

Perplexed20 · 21/07/2024 10:32

I'm a dog owner. Mu dog sometimes comes with me on the tube.
I hate extendable leads in any situation.

Catdoorman · 21/07/2024 10:30

We used an extendable lead on our elderly, slightly deaf dog on beaches and in fields, so she could have some freedom, It was easier to recall her. she always wore a harness and short lead anywhere else, you're just not able to effectively control a dog otherwise. Very recently a friend of mine had to rescue a dog who was being walked by a child using an extendable lead, it had run out into traffic and been hit by a car. It was bruised and crying, but no serious injuries. The child's mother was wandering along behind. My friend explained the dangers of these leads, but honestly it's obvious. I do wonder how the insurance companies would view a claim regarding accidents involving these types of lead.

Priekebejen · 21/07/2024 10:29

YANBU. Hope your son and his friend are okay. Dog owners can be so entitled! Even to the point now where they’re allowed in restaurants and cafes.

JL690 · 21/07/2024 10:28

The dog owner was in the wrong. I hate these extending leads because many dog owners use them as a token gesture that their dog is under control. I can't believe the number of owners who let their dogs wander across busy cycle paths with these leads, blocking the path and getting upset when cyclists complain.

Runssometimes · 21/07/2024 10:24

I hate extendable leads. IMHO they are for people who won’t train their dog to walk to heel or recall. She’s been totally unreasonable. I regularly brought my large Labrador dog on the tube and ensured he wasn’t in anyone’s way or a trip hazard, sadly some people are just very entitled. It would have been very dangerous for a partially sighted person as those leads can be hard to see - particularly in a busy area. Dog should be under close control for its own and others’ safety.
Glad to hear the boys are ok, but I’d be furious about this too.

supersop60 · 21/07/2024 10:21

Surely you'd want to keep your dog close for its own safety.
Glad the boys are OK.

olympicsrock · 21/07/2024 10:17

Unbelievable. My friend died when she fell into a tube like when a train was coming. Can’t believe this woman’s stupidity

Willmafrockfit · 21/07/2024 10:17

that is shocking @timenowplease

NT trust place i go to asks people to exchange the extendible leads for shorter leads

timenowplease · 21/07/2024 10:16

I've started to think people do this because they're desperate for some kind of interaction with other people and they're using the dog for that.

If the dog jumps at you they expect you to stop and talk to them. I just blank them now. The amount of times I've been called bitch or similar is quite striking.

vivainsomnia · 21/07/2024 10:15

The women was against the wall, the dog was sniffing round the edge of the platform
Yeah, an idiot. Why did she tell the boys off?

vivainsomnia · 21/07/2024 10:15

Willmafrockfit · 21/07/2024 10:12

my dm has a friend who tripped over an extendible lead and broke her hip

There's always one
I read the dog was OK when it was a misspelling of 'ON'. I typed that I got it wrong as you did.

No need for generalisations.

Redgreenfroggy · 21/07/2024 10:13

No they both went flying over the lead. But to be honest you don’t expect a small dog to be or dog lead to be between the platform edge and the platform wall. The women was against the wall, the dog was sniffing round the edge of the platform.

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vivainsomnia · 21/07/2024 10:12

Sorry, misread. She was indeed an idiot!

TellMeWhoTheVillainsAre · 21/07/2024 10:12

vivainsomnia · 21/07/2024 10:12

Did one of the boys kicked the dog? That would indicate that the lead was not the issue but that they were not watching where they were going. In which case, they were at fault.

There's always one.

Willmafrockfit · 21/07/2024 10:12

my dm has a friend who tripped over an extendible lead and broke her hip

vivainsomnia · 21/07/2024 10:12

Did one of the boys kicked the dog? That would indicate that the lead was not the issue but that they were not watching where they were going. In which case, they were at fault.

Happyearlyretirement · 21/07/2024 10:09

those leads are a nightmare. We were walking on the beach with our very well trained dog off lead but beside us a dog on an extendable lead went for her the owner dropped the lead then grabbed the rope bit between her hand she got a terrible rope burn on her hands, that somehow was our fault!!

Redgreenfroggy · 21/07/2024 10:05

the dog was so small it could easy have been stepped on as well. My husband said it so nearly went over the side.

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VanilleFraise · 21/07/2024 10:03

Another extendable dog lead hater.

They make users feel they have control over their dog whilst in practice they may have very little.

Redgreenfroggy · 21/07/2024 10:03

No issue at all with well behaved dogs and owners. They are ok yes just a bit shaken as my son was quite near the track.

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