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To think this was bloody dangerous and some people are just batshit

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Redgreenfroggy · 21/07/2024 09:40

We are in London at the moment. Can I just say I like dogs and have no issue in general with owners, dogs etc as long as they are well behaved and considerate etc.
Was at the embankment tube station and was walking along the platform with my son and husband. Son was a bit ahead taking to another boy.
Suddenly my son and this lad going flying forward and ended up on a heap and this women starts shouting at them. Turns out her little dog was ok an extendable lead and the dog walked right in front of my son and the other lad. The dog was so near the platform edge. I shout back at the women that on what planet does she think having her dog on an extendable lead on the tube platform was ok. Everyone else is just looking in disbelief. Then member of tube staff just walks past ignoring the issue.

the women picks up her dog and storms off back up the platform.
WTF

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nocoolnamesleft · 23/07/2024 18:16

I've been tripped over by a dog on an extendable lead, on a cliff top. Fairly lucky it didn't send me over the cliff.

toxic44 · 23/07/2024 13:41

Extendable leashes are the devil's invention. DP was brought off his bike by a yappy little dog running across the cycle path whilst the owner was glued to her phone. She hardly noticed, just jerked the leash a bit and carried on yattering.

blackheartsgirl · 23/07/2024 08:20

Extendable leads aren’t great and lots of people don’t know how to use them properly.

i use one for mine but it’s always short and locked in built up areas and then once on the field extended so she can run about a bit and reeled back in when we see another dog. I did try a long lead but the dog is a hyper bouncy idiot and got tangled up in it.

also those extended leads can give you a nasty burn if you get caught up in it, my dd3 has a scar on her leg from getting caught up in one (not mine I hasten to add)

Marbledwhite · 23/07/2024 08:10

eastegg · 22/07/2024 23:39

Dog-owner basically put a trip wire across a tube platform and tripped up some kids with it, and you, in response to the mother of one of those children, make up some shit about the kids running in order to partially blame them. You’re out of order.

Absolutely right.

They're also annoying with other dogs. I asked a man to move his dog away from mine the other day as mine was becoming agitated. He moved away but his dog didn't as the lead just got longer. So stupid.

Rottweilermummy · 23/07/2024 08:00

She was definitely in the wrong suppose it was an elderly person that fell over, I hate extendable leads too as most people have no idea how to use them safely, and especially in a tube station , I was on a beach recently in the dog zone, this bloke had his little French bull dog on one , he kept it on long extendable whole time, and it was getting in people's way and going up to other dogs , it might as well have not been on a lead for all the control he had and was just laughing, it came up to our dog a few times, it was lucky she'd had her dinner, and more interested in her ball lol 🤣( Edited for a few corrections ))

YeOldeGreyhound · 22/07/2024 23:43

Arg, that is shocking.
I am not against extendable leads. I use one with my dog. But you need to be aware and have common sense (I like to think I tick both of those boxes). My dog is 14, and we have never had an extendable lead "incident".

eastegg · 22/07/2024 23:39

paperrocksiscissors · 21/07/2024 10:49

Sorry,

A crowded platform , you hit the nail on the head, unless those boys are over say 10, they shouldn't be as OP says 'a bit ahead'.

I don't know if they were walking or running, only OP does, neither do we know how 'bit ahead' they were.

This is my only point, you don't let your kids be 'bit ahead' down Embankment tube. as I said BOTH are at fault, that's all. I'm not defending the dog owner.

Dog-owner basically put a trip wire across a tube platform and tripped up some kids with it, and you, in response to the mother of one of those children, make up some shit about the kids running in order to partially blame them. You’re out of order.

BanditofBrisbane · 22/07/2024 20:13

I'd ban the damn things and make it law that dogs should be on a short lead on roads or transport networks.

If your dog needs to be secured while in an open area, use a long line.

Apart from anything else there is no way to get a dog on one back to you in a hurry and that's unsafe

majesticallycurvy · 22/07/2024 19:39

I was in the park with my baby in the pram and a dog on an extendable lead ran in front fast and the lead got tangled in the wheels of the pram and turned it over! Luckily my husband caught the pram and baby was ok. The dog owner was totally oblivious!!

Ginkypig · 22/07/2024 19:15

My friend had a little yorkie but when she got older with some health issues my friends grandchild (teen and responsible, ie could be trusted not to muck around etc) used to take it on its walks for her.
she lived in a quiet part of town with not a lot of cars and none driving fast but not rural

one evening in winter so while it wasn’t late it was dark grandchild took dog out for its walk on its extendable lead. She crossed the road to come back home thinking dog was right behind her but it was actually a little further behind and a car saw grandchild cross but who obviously hadn’t seen the lead or the small dog behind the teen and ran the poor little thing over. Being so little it didn’t survive.

grandchild was devastated and felt it was all their fault
friend was devastated
driver was extremely upset obviously and felt guilty even though it was an accident.

none of it would have happened if the lead wasn’t extendable.

i thought though that extendable leads had a button to lock them so they can’t stretch more so they can’t run off etc when not appropriate?

Opinionwontchangeluv · 22/07/2024 19:09

Inconsiderate

Redgreenfroggy · 22/07/2024 19:09

They said they were sure it was the same women. I am not sure I would have recognised her again but they are adamant it was her. And the dog was the same.

She was talking to the women next to her about taking the boat trip tomorrow that comes with the 2 day tour bus pass.

Half expecting tomorrow night to hear about a dog drowning in the Thames while still on its lead, with the owner holding the other end chatting away with someone.
Surely that dog’s days are numbered.

Anyone on a boat trip on the Thames tomorrow 😂

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yully · 22/07/2024 19:04

Extendable leads are for people who didn't train their dogs.

Was at a busy cliff top recently, where people were peering over the edge to look at seals. Already pretty dangerous, as the cliff overhangs in parts and you can't see where from the top. Some absolutely moronic woman had a lively young lab on an extendable lead that was weaving between people. Really thought someone was going to be pulled over and fall down the cliff face.

OneTC · 22/07/2024 19:02

Same woman?

Amazing 😅

Redgreenfroggy · 22/07/2024 18:57

Hi not sure people are reading this thread now but my friends went on the bus tour today with their kids. We went to the tower as have done the bus tour only a year ago.

She got on the bus with her little dog and was on the top deck at the back letting her dog go to the front on its extendable lead. Sniffing round the stairs.

My friends husband said he had visions of the dog falling down the stairs and hanging on its lead with the women holding the other end on the back of the bus totally oblivious. a women at the front told her to call the dog back but she just said “oh he is friendly”. Er no the point really.

The driver must be able to see up there with a camera or someone getting off told him as one of the guides got on at a stop and told her to either put the dog on her knee or get off the bus. She did as she was told.

bloody small world

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Packetofcrispsplease · 22/07/2024 18:56

Extendable leads are dangerous , especially in busy areas .
The owners don’t have full control of the dog and it could end up in the road or someone trip over the lead .
I won’t use one I like a fixed lead attached to the back of my dog’s harness

FastFood · 22/07/2024 18:36

I hate extendable leads for that reason.
Also, a small dog on busy tube / train platform should be carried.
l have a tiny dog, who walks beautully on the lead and is Very used to public transport, but I always carry him when its busy, it must be super stressful to be caught in a forest of legs.

Childrenofthestones · 22/07/2024 18:26

The world is full of assholes 😒

MarvellousMonsters · 22/07/2024 18:22

LadyGaGasPokerFace · 21/07/2024 09:54

Those extendable leads should be banned. We have a rescue and were advised against getting extendable leads as you have no control over the dog, it might as well not be on a lead.

100% this. They are so dangerous.

Redgreenfroggy · 21/07/2024 16:59

They were certainly not running

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Redgreenfroggy · 21/07/2024 16:58

@paperrocksiscissors
if the boys where any closer to us I would have been tripping over their ankles. It’s a wonder I didn’t go as well. Also you don’t walk around looking at your feet (also would be dangerous on a tube platform).
Would you rather we had been walking 5 of us in a row. Me Dh and our 3 kids and our friends 4 in a row with their 2 kids. Or maybe we could have walked 9 in a row.

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Northumberlandgirl · 21/07/2024 13:21

I hate extendable leads and don’t have one for my dogs. They’re dangerous for those with poor sight as the cord is so thin. They’re dangerous for the dog as it allows them to get up momentum and I’ve seen them snap. I use a long training lead. It has several d rings to enable the user to lengthen or shorten the lead as required. A friend uses an extendable lead on our walks allowing her dog to run around and in front of us. I hate it.

marshmallowfinder · 21/07/2024 13:10

Awful and idiotic womAn.

ThePure · 21/07/2024 12:52

I have tried to train my dog but he is a rescue flock guardian breed and inherently he is just not as trainable as your average lab. He knows all the commands but it's in his nature to 'operate independently' so sometimes he decides I do not know best. He is 100% loyal but not 100% obedient. I think it is accepted that some dogs are more difficult to have off lead due to prey drive like many beagles, terriers or greyhounds

I therefore find a long line a really useful tool for country walks so he can have some freedom and I can still have control. I always switch to a short lead in urban places, near roads etc.

It is a fixed thick line that I manually reel in and out. I would not use a retractable lead because he is a big dog and it might snap or fail. Plus if we get tangled with the thick line there is not much chance of injury vs the nylon cheese wire ones. It took both of us a while to get used to using it though and in the early days we used to get tangled but both of us have figured it out now.

The main downside of the kind of long line I use is that it can trail on the ground and get wet and muddy in winter and then your hands and clothes get muddy. I just wear crappy old clothes for dog walking and wash them often but I think people use extendable leads because they are easier to handle and don't get dirty.

I think there probably is a time and a place for extendable leads for small dogs in off road areas but I do wish people would understand the limitations and not use them in places where it is unsafe.

TattiePants · 21/07/2024 12:46

You are definitely not being unreasonable. A few months ago I was driving and a woman was walking a dog on the path with an extendable lead. I don’t know if she made a mistake or the lead was faulty but the lead suddenly extended and the dog ran into the road and I hit it. Fortunately it was a glancing blow rather than under the wheels!

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