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To have a glass of wine while pregnant?

383 replies

onethousand · 20/07/2024 19:00

Third trimester, I know it's not recommended but ... really fancy a glass of wine. Would you?

OP posts:
TheKeatingFive · 21/07/2024 13:18

orangeleopard · 21/07/2024 13:17

You don’t NEED to drink during pregnancy, but you often to need to get into a car during pregnancy? You can avoid drinking during pregnancy but a car is pretty essential. They’re not the same at all.

That's why I specified non essential journeys in my post.

orangeleopard · 21/07/2024 13:17

TheKeatingFive · 21/07/2024 13:09

There's no 'safe' amount of anything however.

We weigh up tiny risks every single day. Everytime a pregnant woman gets in a car, they're taking a tiny risk that will result in harm to their baby. Yet I never see calls to limit non necessary journeys.

You don’t NEED to drink during pregnancy, but you often to need to get into a car during pregnancy? You can avoid drinking during pregnancy but a car is pretty essential. They’re not the same at all.

TheKeatingFive · 21/07/2024 13:14

any decent mother to be would not touch a drop of something toxic which may or may not (100% not certain) have a detrimental effect on her unborn baby. For what? A decent mother to be with any kind of common sense, let alone education, wouldn't even want to have this discussion.

And now, without evidence to back up your position, you're into emotional blackmail. Gotcha.

Goldusty · 21/07/2024 13:11

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Goldusty · 21/07/2024 13:10

TheKeatingFive · 21/07/2024 13:03

I think it's the classic 'everyone who doesn't agree with me is stooopid' response.

Well it's a bit sad to even have this discussion tbh...any decent mother to be would not touch a drop of something toxic which may or may not (100% not certain) have a detrimental effect on her unborn baby. For what? A decent mother to be with any kind of common sense, let alone education, wouldn't even want to have this discussion. Also those saying it's fine ought to be ashamed of themselves because they can't know for sure the actual effect of this the baby's brain.

TheKeatingFive · 21/07/2024 13:09

orangeleopard · 21/07/2024 13:06

Not sure why people can’t just not drink whilst pregnant. Why would you risk it, for what reason? There’s no ‘safe’ amount, and I think it’s very selfish that people are willing to put their baby at risk.

There's no 'safe' amount of anything however.

We weigh up tiny risks every single day. Everytime a pregnant woman gets in a car, they're taking a tiny risk that will result in harm to their baby. Yet I never see calls to limit non necessary journeys.

Riapia · 21/07/2024 13:09

onethousand · 20/07/2024 19:00

Third trimester, I know it's not recommended but ... really fancy a glass of wine. Would you?

You’ll regret posting this OP.
The MN coven are astride their broomsticks and heading in your direction.

DuskandDawn · 21/07/2024 13:07

Yes absolutely xx

orangeleopard · 21/07/2024 13:06

Not sure why people can’t just not drink whilst pregnant. Why would you risk it, for what reason? There’s no ‘safe’ amount, and I think it’s very selfish that people are willing to put their baby at risk.

TheKeatingFive · 21/07/2024 13:03

Ponoka7 · 21/07/2024 13:01

Does that "stupid" include all of the medical professionals and research scientists who say that one glass in the third trimester (and two in the second) does no harm?

I think it's the classic 'everyone who doesn't agree with me is stooopid' response.

Ponoka7 · 21/07/2024 13:01

Goldusty · 21/07/2024 12:28

Krumblina, you are wasting your time trying to educate the 'stupid'

Does that "stupid" include all of the medical professionals and research scientists who say that one glass in the third trimester (and two in the second) does no harm?

TheKeatingFive · 21/07/2024 12:58

Goldusty · 21/07/2024 12:58

PhD ...😉

Yes. 😉

Goldusty · 21/07/2024 12:58

PhD ...😉

GabriellaMontez · 21/07/2024 12:46

TheKeatingFive · 21/07/2024 12:43

Me too! So the Dr Keating comment is not quite the burn the poster might think 😂

Ouch😂

Mercurial123 · 21/07/2024 12:43

No I wouldn't.

TheKeatingFive · 21/07/2024 12:43

SharonEllis · 21/07/2024 12:39

I am. A PhD thanks.

Me too! So the Dr Keating comment is not quite the burn the poster might think 😂

Saltedbutter · 21/07/2024 12:40

Goldusty · 21/07/2024 12:22

Ok Dr Keating

So after being judgemental and sanctimonious, you’re now mocking people who disagree with you when they state fact?

SharonEllis · 21/07/2024 12:39

Goldusty · 21/07/2024 12:18

Well I can see you're clearly educated

I am. A PhD thanks.

GabriellaMontez · 21/07/2024 12:37

Goldusty · 21/07/2024 12:22

Ok Dr Keating

Are you disputing this? Or just diverting with what you imagine is a clever/funny comment?

Goldusty · 21/07/2024 12:28

Krumblina · 21/07/2024 12:26

It does make sense. Food is turned into energy which then goes into the mother's blood and to the baby. It doesn't matter what food it is is the same process.
However alcohol as a psychoactive substance can pass to the baby and impact them. It's the same with pharmaceutical drugs which is why we caution on which ones can be taken during pregnancy.

Krumblina, you are wasting your time trying to educate the 'stupid'

Krumblina · 21/07/2024 12:26

TheKeatingFive · 21/07/2024 11:51

This makes no sense. Once the baby is born, it should only be fed milk. So should the OP stick to drinking milk only while pregnant. Don't be silly.

It does make sense. Food is turned into energy which then goes into the mother's blood and to the baby. It doesn't matter what food it is is the same process.
However alcohol as a psychoactive substance can pass to the baby and impact them. It's the same with pharmaceutical drugs which is why we caution on which ones can be taken during pregnancy.

Goldusty · 21/07/2024 12:22

TheKeatingFive · 21/07/2024 12:20

Yet there is zero evidence that one small glass of wine has any ill effects.

Ok Dr Keating

TheKeatingFive · 21/07/2024 12:20

AhBiscuits · 21/07/2024 12:08

It makes no sense if you don't understand how body processes food as opposed to alcohol. Alcohol is absorbed into your blood which you share with the baby. The effect on the baby's blood alcohol is no different than if it had drank the wine. Chips are not absorbed into your blood as chips. It's not like feeding the baby chips.

Yet there is zero evidence that one small glass of wine has any ill effects.

Goldusty · 21/07/2024 12:18

SharonEllis · 21/07/2024 12:16

It doesn't show that at all. Get a grip.

Well I can see you're clearly educated

SharonEllis · 21/07/2024 12:16

Goldusty · 21/07/2024 12:09

Fgs that you even have to ask this question shows that you can't care enough about the possible effects this could have on your baby. And for what? Is it worth it?!

It doesn't show that at all. Get a grip.

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