I don't mean to offend anyone, and this seems to be a very common way to meet people nowadays.
However for some reason it makes me feel a little rejected, like no men at work nor in my friendship group were interested so I've had to resort to this.
I just feel embarrassed about it for some reason and like it's desperate to look for someone?
I constantly see on here how you're supposed to not be looking at all and you'll meet someone when you least expect it? Apparently that seems to have happened for many posters, so clearly they weren't on the apps.
This doesn't happen for me. I'm not constantly out on the prowl for men, I go to work and do my job, I see my friends, family, I travel etc. And I'm really not expecting anyone, yet nobody's decided they want to date me?