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Hairdresser cancelled appointment at my appointment time

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TheAfterthought · 20/07/2024 14:03

I'll try and keep this as concise as possible!

I had an appointment with my hairdresser today. I arrived at the salon and messaged her upon my arrival (Salon is on the first floor building and door is number coded for access). I waited a couple of minutes expecting the door to be open and greeted by my hairdresser. Instead, I receive a text message from her informing me she's unwell and been unwell all week and not in work today and that she's really sorry and will offer me a discount next time if I want to rebook.

Being unwell is one thing and I hope she feels much better soon. That said, texting me AFTER I confirm my arrival for my appointment is what's pissed me off. I arranged my day around this appointment. She says she's been ill all week so I would have thought she knows herself enough to know she had no plans on going into work while still feeling poorly and would have had the courtesy to message me much sooner (without prompting).

She works in a salon with other hairdressers. If she was so ill surely she could have asked one of them to call me and let me know, apologise for the inconvenience and rebook me in at a later date? Or offer to book me in with someone else the same day or later date as no idea how long she will be off sick for? Even as options that would have been appreciated to have been asked. Peter of thise options were offered.

I haven't replied to her message yet because I'm pissed off and I don't want to say anything mean to her because she's unwell. I don't think I can hide a sarcastic tone at the moment.

If this illness was an emergency then I would have understood, emergencies just happen. But she's been ill for a week and not had the thought or if she did, she didn't action the thought to contact me.

I'm unsure whether to give the hairdresser the benefit of the doubt. She's done a good job with my hair cuts previously. I'm a fairly new customer so only been to her twice before but I have been happy with her work. Or, should I find another hairdresser and take my business elsewhere?

I'm geared towards not replying and going elsewhere. Customers shouldn't be treated as an afterthought. It's not a way to run a business. Having worked in customer service for too many years lol 😆 I know how I don't like to be treated and I wouldn't treat a customer that way no matter how long they were a customer for.

I'm interested in outside opinions about this because I'm fed up and long term don't want to act in haste without considering further input.

YABU: Give the hairdresser the benefit of the doubt and rebook the appointment and make use of the discount.
YANBU: Find another hairdresser and take your business elsewhere.

Thanks for reading 😊

OP posts:
meercat23 · 20/07/2024 14:13

I used to go to a Beautician who could be unreliable. She worked from home. Once she was late but arrived about ten minutes after me. I didn't take much notice of that. The second time she was out and had forgotten we had an appointment. The third time I arrived to discover she was out I never went back. In the case outlined by the OP someone else from the salon could have phoned to say the appointment would have to be rescheduled. Very poor form to let her get there on time and then cancel

CherryBlossom321 · 20/07/2024 14:12

She’s unprofessional and unreliable. Sadly not uncommon. I don’t give people chance to do this sort of thing twice (and they always will if you stick with them). See if there are walk in’s or cancellations anywhere else today, and if not, book elsewhere for another day.

SeeSeeRider · 20/07/2024 14:09

olympicsrock · 20/07/2024 14:05

She’s unreliable . I would just go elsewhere.

Me too. Life is too short.

TealPoet · 20/07/2024 14:09

I’d go elsewhere. The annoyance would pass but I wouldn’t trust it not to happen again.

Tgjjl · 20/07/2024 14:08

I’d not respond and go elsewhere.

ThaQuilomum · 20/07/2024 14:07

I'd respond asking why the devil didn't you inform me before now when you've been ill all week. And her response would determine whether I'd be back or not.

Aquamarine1029 · 20/07/2024 14:05

It happened, it shouldn't have, but no one died and life goes on. Either except her apology and discount or go somewhere else.

Normalinnit · 20/07/2024 14:05

What's their cancellation policy the other way round? Would you have been charged if you cancelled, especially last minute? And yes I would be mad, somebody else from the salon should have called you to let you know in plenty of time.

olympicsrock · 20/07/2024 14:05

She’s unreliable . I would just go elsewhere.