So my sister and I are very close, both in age and relationship. I literally can get changed in front of her no issue and we spend a lot of time together. Best friends, share beds on holiday etc. 11 month age gap.
Sister became engaged very recently. When I saw her I congratulated her and obviously asked to see the ring. I asked if I could try it on and she gave it to me. No issue.
Anyway, yesterday my sister and I were having a disagreement and it was one of the fights where you bring every fault into it. And she said something about how my asking for the ring was just plain weird. I apologised later and said I genuinely didn’t know it was a faux pas. Like when I bought my posh birthday watch she tried it on and i thought it was similar thing.
Have since googled and realise some people think it is bad luck but I know sister is not aware of this superstition.
AIBU in thinking I wasn’t deliberately being inappropriate? And her words were just designed to hurt.
I don’t like this implication I have no boundaries. I am actually far too concerned with offending/annoying others.