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To think 'chav' is not an okay thing to call people?

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enternow99 · 19/07/2024 15:11

I find the use of chav on Mumsnet shocking. Is this name chavvy? Is this holiday destination chavvy? Is this outfit chavvy? Chavs moved in next door (I'm a leaseholder, they rent!!!!)

I understand its snobbiness but isn't it a bit horrible?

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Grandmasswagbag · 19/07/2024 15:55

Sorry but I love the word chav. It's uniquely British and conveys perfectly a whole sentiment that's almost impossible to define with other words. Long live chavs. Lots of people use it to describe their own tastes too.

DogInATent · 19/07/2024 15:54

elm26 · 19/07/2024 15:51

Isn't the word Chav an abbreviation for "council housed and violent"? Or something similar.

I think it's a disgusting word and wouldn't like my daughter to call anyone it.

We are council housed, not one violent bone in my body. Or my DH. We have lovely neighbours and live on a really lovely estate. Friendly, neighbourly and well kept.

That's a backronym. The word and its use predate that.

TheCadoganArms · 19/07/2024 15:53

Towelmode · 19/07/2024 15:16

Descriptors are descriptors for a reason

What is a chav these days? I’ve honestly not heard anyone say it for years. Maybe decades.

I still hear it from time to time, mostly by 30/40 somethings. I never considered it a label for 'the poor' but rather a derogatory description for those displaying certain antisocial behaviours. They are the arseholes driving around at speed at 2am in their modified cars doing doughnuts and blaring music. They are the ones sitting on a sofa in their front garden drinking all day. They are the ones who keep 'hard' dog breeds but don't bother to actually train them. They are the idiots causing all the trouble in town centres at kick out time. They are the ones who operate in the grey economy, seemingly jobless but somehow always got money.

Towelmode · 19/07/2024 15:53

Absolutely @5128gap

5128gap · 19/07/2024 15:52

BobbyBiscuits · 19/07/2024 15:38

@5128gap I don't disagree it's a lazy insult. And I was only using those descriptions as they are some of the things that might make someone refer to something or someone as chavvy. Not that they would necessarily have every one of those traits?! You're getting me wrong if you think I'm pro the use of 'chav'. As I said I don't use it.

They are some of the things, yes. But depending on who you ask, others include: wearing sportswear, buying designer items, driving a 4x4 if you dont live rurally, going to Butlins not Centre parks. Going to Centre parks. Hot tubs. Calling your child a name beginning with J, tattoos, being overweight. Being thin. Not working. Working and earning a lot of money....In short, pretty much anything done by people the person using the term has identified as a group they can punch down on. Its used so subjectively its meaningless as a description of a subject. (Although a useful indication of the character of the speaker.)

DogInATent · 19/07/2024 15:51

It's not unreasonable to think it's not ok to use to describe people, but we all know what's meant by terms such as Chav, Council, Gammon or Karen whether we think it's appropriate to use them or not.

elm26 · 19/07/2024 15:51

Isn't the word Chav an abbreviation for "council housed and violent"? Or something similar.

I think it's a disgusting word and wouldn't like my daughter to call anyone it.

We are council housed, not one violent bone in my body. Or my DH. We have lovely neighbours and live on a really lovely estate. Friendly, neighbourly and well kept.

Allfur · 19/07/2024 15:49

DelilahBucket · 19/07/2024 15:44

There have always been words to describe particular kinds of people. When I was a teen, pre the term chav, it was twockers (taken from the police term) or moshers (if you liked to be in mosh pit). It's a natural evolution of language. Over the last few years there has been the term "road-men". Snob has stood the test of time and has been around for a while. It is no less derogatory than chav, yet you seem to feel it is appropriate here OP. Perhaps because you are personally insulted more by the other one?

You're comparing the pejorative term chav to moshers, an insult to nobody?!

BobbyBiscuits · 19/07/2024 15:49

@Beezknees we all make judgements on what we think is tasteless every minute of the day.

SeeSeeRider · 19/07/2024 15:48

PeppermintPorpoise · 19/07/2024 15:15

Agree. Its nasty classism.

Yes. Chav is the same as common, feral lower-class, white-trash, pramface, And just as judgemental, snobbish and horrible as those terms.

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 19/07/2024 15:47

graceinspace999 · 19/07/2024 15:43

Upper class!

😆 made my day!

sweetpickle2 · 19/07/2024 15:46

I wouldn’t use it as it’s a deeply classist term, often used as a derogatory word for working class people.

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 19/07/2024 15:46

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 19/07/2024 15:43

Why is chav bad but snobby fine op?

Because 'chav' is a term judging someone for their social class (which they can't help), whereas 'snobby' describes someone's attitude (which they can help).

Anyway, I'm here for the many spurious suggestions about the origin of the word 'chav' and I have not been disappointed! There are a couple I haven't heard before! Also, the word 'bacronym' is new to me - very good!

Oh nicely put!

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 19/07/2024 15:45

Beezknees · 19/07/2024 15:18

I wouldn't call someone "cheap and tasteless looking" for a start. Who are you to decide what is tasteless?

Absolutely.

Persiancouscous · 19/07/2024 15:45

Most chavs call themselves chavs.

Cyclebabble · 19/07/2024 15:44

Yes, I think it is quite nasty. Classism is still rife in the UK.

serialcatbuyer · 19/07/2024 15:44

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 19/07/2024 15:43

Why is chav bad but snobby fine op?

Because 'chav' is a term judging someone for their social class (which they can't help), whereas 'snobby' describes someone's attitude (which they can help).

Anyway, I'm here for the many spurious suggestions about the origin of the word 'chav' and I have not been disappointed! There are a couple I haven't heard before! Also, the word 'bacronym' is new to me - very good!

What is the social class ?

DelilahBucket · 19/07/2024 15:44

There have always been words to describe particular kinds of people. When I was a teen, pre the term chav, it was twockers (taken from the police term) or moshers (if you liked to be in mosh pit). It's a natural evolution of language. Over the last few years there has been the term "road-men". Snob has stood the test of time and has been around for a while. It is no less derogatory than chav, yet you seem to feel it is appropriate here OP. Perhaps because you are personally insulted more by the other one?

graceinspace999 · 19/07/2024 15:43

BobbyBiscuits · 19/07/2024 15:16

I certainly wouldn't use that language in real life. It seems a bit outdated. Obviously it's an insult and snobby. But there is an issue here...
How would you describe something or someone cheap and tasteless looking, rude, uncouth, antisocial, uneducated and lacking aspiration? Is there an alternative word to use for such things?

Upper class!

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 19/07/2024 15:43

Why is chav bad but snobby fine op?

Because 'chav' is a term judging someone for their social class (which they can't help), whereas 'snobby' describes someone's attitude (which they can help).

Anyway, I'm here for the many spurious suggestions about the origin of the word 'chav' and I have not been disappointed! There are a couple I haven't heard before! Also, the word 'bacronym' is new to me - very good!

gardenmusic · 19/07/2024 15:43

Panama2 · Today 15:20
Chav comes from travellers "Chavvies" meaning children I believe. I am sure someone more knowledgeable than me will be along

You are completely correct. It is a Romany word. That is how it became a term of abuse. Disgusting.

arethereanyleftatall · 19/07/2024 15:41

The problem with not wanting to use it, is that it is the only word available that accurately describes to a tee a certain type of person. We can all have an identical image in our head of the person. And it isn't even really an insult, as clearly many people aspire to it, given the choice of names for their children.

Rainbowsponge · 19/07/2024 15:41

I think if anyone thinks that words used to describe a group of people with a common feature, even if it’s unflattering, shouldn’t be used they are utterly naive

BobbyBiscuits · 19/07/2024 15:38

@5128gap I don't disagree it's a lazy insult. And I was only using those descriptions as they are some of the things that might make someone refer to something or someone as chavvy. Not that they would necessarily have every one of those traits?! You're getting me wrong if you think I'm pro the use of 'chav'. As I said I don't use it.

Moglet4 · 19/07/2024 15:37

Teentaxidriver · 19/07/2024 15:20

Chav, or Cheltenham Average. Coined by the ladies of Cheltenham Ladies College to denote a particular type of local.

That just came from an article in The Telegraph 20 years ago. It was actually nicked from the Geordie ‘chav’ (or ‘charva’ in full form) which most likely was itself nicked from the Romany term for ‘boy’. Geordies had been using the term for well over 10 years before the rest of the country cottoned on and I’m sure the Romany gypsies had been using it for centuries (though obviously with a slightly different meaning). I’m quite surprised that the OP thinks it’s still used extensively though!

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