Have had a private arrangement a few years now, I know that ex’s salary has gone up twice in the past year and only now have a mentioned this. He plucked an amount out of the air so I’ve gone down the CSA route so that I don’t have to have this conversation each year. He’s kicked, started bringing other stuff up and inferring he “knows stuff” .
Why? It’s like he think I’m out pissing up his CSA, not that in goes towards everything that keeps my child houses and fed.
Now I’m doubting that I should have brought it up whilst also worrying how he’s now guna be an absolute d*ck every time I see him! it’s like he can still control me now, through fear!