My partner is beyond useless when it comes to domestic skills. It is driving me insane and breaking me. It is not my job to teach him basic life skills. Does anyone know of a bootcamp/ training camp that he can go on? I'm deadly serious - he needs to go learn daily life skills and I would happily pay someone to properly teach him. I also think it would be healthier for our relationship and he needs to learn its not just me, these are normal societal expectations. Also - saying its biological/ just men - utter BS. He had lived by himself for a few years before I came along and has gone a little ferral.
For example - He cannot do a wash up properly (everything is still greasey), uses the counter top grill and sees no issue with leaving the grease tray full on the counter for a few days, cannot put things in the bin, leaves a trail of rubbish behind him in the house, leaves mugs and glasses behind him in the house, does not put laundry in the laundry basket, hangs out a wash all crumpled so it never dies, leaves tea bags in the sink, never rinses the sink after he brushes his teeth, does not put the empty loo roll in the bin (he is not 5 and collecting it for a bloody arr project), never puts things away, leaves cupboard doors open, does not wipe down spills properly, leaves the bins until they are a recreation of leaning tower of Pisa, never properly wipes down draining board, doesn't put dishes away properly after he washes up (I have sorted out the cupboards more time than I care to think about), does not use a toilet brush (was a learning point for him when I had to explain that he needs separate gloves and cleaning supplies for the loos in the house). Complains that he cannot find things/ things go missing but never tidies away his things, does DIY but then leaves the stanley knife out open and the cut bits of wire everywhere. I could go on for days.