And absolutely deading it and seriously considering not going!
We've been in a rough patch for a while although have been getting better for a few weeks.
We have a childfree trip with some friends planned this weekend (DC are 9 and 4 and a combination of grand parents are having them so I appreciate how lucky we are on that front)
However today I have been shouted at, called names (including an idiot/thick and a few others I can't repeat) all because I;
Finished work later than he wanted me to (I finish at 5 but had started work earlier so logged off at 430 - that was too late apparently)
Didn't know he wanted to take his keys when we walked to go and pick up the children as he wanted to gey something out of his car, so when I said I had mine apparently that was me being aggressive
Dared to shower one child and have the other waiting while I dried the first ones hair rather than let them shower alone
Shouted in my face when I dared ro argue that all I had said about the keys was that I already had mine, he could have explained why he wanted to take his, apparently I shouldn't queation what he wants to do
I am literally dreading going tomorrow and am currently thinking of excuses why I don't go!