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Joe Biden ist just like many octogenariens.....

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KekseKekse · 17/07/2024 23:49

.....who doesn't realise that he is past his prime and needs to leave it to someone else in the Democratic Party to run for the US presidency. Just like an octogenarian car driver, who insists that they are fit to drive, when everyone around them can see otherwise and it's up to their nearest and dearest to take away their car keys or report them to the DVLA.

Unfortunately, in the case of Joe Biden, he is wilfully refusing to listen to everyone telling him that if he tries for another term against Trump he will lose and give that awful man more power.

Today Biden said in an interview that only if a doctor told him he wasn't capable of standing would he listen. So, just like a lot of elderly drivers whose reflexes and reaction times are seriously on the decline , but won't listen until they have an accident, or worse, kill someone. I just despair!

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x2boys · 18/07/2024 12:52

Collexifon · 18/07/2024 12:45

So much ageist crap on here. I know plenty of people in their 80s who are still driving well and happily, in fact I have a friend who is 92 and still driving well.

I don't feel strongly about Biden one way or another, as the USA is clearly in a terrible place and is just going to keep deteriorating with either Biden or Trump. Let them get on with it.

My Dad's still driving at 82 I wouldn't say well though ,but he only drives too and from tesco he couldn't manage long journeys
But driving is very different from being in charge of one of the worlds super powers

x2boys · 18/07/2024 12:47

x2boys · 18/07/2024 12:42

I think it's 35 ?

Yes I was right someone one has to be at least 35 to run for POTUS so quite a few years after becoming a legal Adult.

Collexifon · 18/07/2024 12:45

So much ageist crap on here. I know plenty of people in their 80s who are still driving well and happily, in fact I have a friend who is 92 and still driving well.

I don't feel strongly about Biden one way or another, as the USA is clearly in a terrible place and is just going to keep deteriorating with either Biden or Trump. Let them get on with it.

x2boys · 18/07/2024 12:42

BloodyHellKenAgain · 18/07/2024 12:07

I don't know what the lower age limit is, but I assume like voting it's when you are legally an adult do yes IMO it's okay.
No one wants a minor as president.

I think it's 35 ?

x2boys · 18/07/2024 12:41

BloodyHellKenAgain · 18/07/2024 12:04

I can't speak for anyone else but when I vote for someone I base that vote on what they say they'll do and how likely I judge it to happen. If a candidate appears unwell I would assume what they're promising isn't likely to happen.
I have never ever based my vote on what a candidate might be like in 3 years time.

Maybe not but society recognise, s that as people get older their cognitive ability declines as can their physical ability, hence retirement

I'm assuming most people wouldn't want an 82 year old surgeon preforming major heart surgery on them
Also the older someone gets the more likely to develop health issues
It does seem ridiculous that the two candidates for POTUS ,which is a job which really does require you to be on the ball ,are an 81 year old and a 78 year old.

BloodyHellKenAgain · 18/07/2024 12:07

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 18/07/2024 11:08

But a lower age limit is ok ?

I don't know what the lower age limit is, but I assume like voting it's when you are legally an adult do yes IMO it's okay.
No one wants a minor as president.

BloodyHellKenAgain · 18/07/2024 12:04

x2boys · 18/07/2024 10:38

In three years time things could be very different ,,
Just going off my own parents things can decline very quickly when people get into their 80,s .

I can't speak for anyone else but when I vote for someone I base that vote on what they say they'll do and how likely I judge it to happen. If a candidate appears unwell I would assume what they're promising isn't likely to happen.
I have never ever based my vote on what a candidate might be like in 3 years time.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 18/07/2024 11:40

I don't disagree that it would be a big deal, @TheQueenWhoNeverWas, but it looks rather smaller compared to handing the election to Trump on a plate

There comes a point where the country's interests need to be set above those a a party, and for many of us that point has come ... and gone

Certainly some Democrats will never forgive the leadership for this, and that's entirely the party's own fault

TheQueenWhoNeverWas · 18/07/2024 11:32

Puzzledandpissedoff · 18/07/2024 10:40

I wondered the same, but with Trump ahead in tthe polling in most key states I worry it's just too late for the Democrats to come back now

Obviously Biden's not to blame for being old and sick, but for me the party's judgement in hanging onto him for so long would be reason enough not to vote for them - a view shared by many American friends

It's hard to blame the Democrats for picking him. If you have a sitting president who wants to stand for a second term then it would be a massive deal to stand against him in the primaries or to vote against him.

circular2478 · 18/07/2024 11:28

Trump and Biden as candidates are truly awful for different reasons. Maybe the democrats planned this though- put up an old man who won't win as they know trump js going to win anyway.

ssd · 18/07/2024 11:18

I'm so angry with Biden too. And if he still keeps doing that little mini jog every time he walks somewhere, i will throw something at the telly.

Manhere2024 · 18/07/2024 11:18

PeachPairPlum · 18/07/2024 11:03

Agree. Very bizarre situation.

Whatever ppl think of Uk politics the US mentality and present situation is way worse.

It’s off topic for this thread perhaps, but J. D. Vance seems more impressive than anyone the UK right has produced.

I’d have loved the chance to vote for a young and dynamic, protectionist, anti free trade, anti immigration and anti woke candidate if there’d been one in the UK. But I couldn’t vote for Farage or Sunak because they’re still cut from the failed globalist free trade cloth.

DickEmery · 18/07/2024 11:17

I agree, he really is much the same as the guy I was driving behind yesterday - hat on, steady 25 mph everywhere whether 40, 30 or 20 limit apart from when going round corners when we slowed to a mind bending 5 mph. Difference is this bozo is in charge of the USA rather than just an i10.

PeachPairPlum · 18/07/2024 11:10

This isn't just any job though - its one of the most responsible and difficult jobs in the world.

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 18/07/2024 11:08

roundspongecake · 18/07/2024 08:11

We don't put upper age limits on jobs thankfully. That would be agism

But a lower age limit is ok ?

GingerPirate · 18/07/2024 11:07

mayorofcasterbridge · 18/07/2024 00:08

The two dinosaurs need to go! I can't believe that in all of the US, these two elderly men are the best there is on offer! I can't bear the thought of another Trump presidency!

More "dinosaurs" like this need to "go".
Sorry.
Some people at productive age actually want to start to live their own lives.

PeachPairPlum · 18/07/2024 11:03

mayorofcasterbridge · 18/07/2024 00:08

The two dinosaurs need to go! I can't believe that in all of the US, these two elderly men are the best there is on offer! I can't bear the thought of another Trump presidency!

Agree. Very bizarre situation.

Whatever ppl think of Uk politics the US mentality and present situation is way worse.

BlackStrayCat · 18/07/2024 10:59

x2boys · 18/07/2024 10:38

In three years time things could be very different ,,
Just going off my own parents things can decline very quickly when people get into their 80,s .

From mid 70s really.

I agree with you.

Trump is an old man. He is ridiculous, he just looks "young" in comparison with Biden.

After 70, hell, after mid 50s (2 of my firends just died suddenly in their early 50s) who knows what can happen?

Puzzledandpissedoff · 18/07/2024 10:47

This situation should never gave been allowed to happen, it's handing Trump a victory. The Democrats should have been planning a succesor years ago ...

Absolutely, but the party didn't and since they're wholly responsible for that, they and everyone else will now probably pay the price

I'm reminded of visiting a county fair electioneering booth when Biden's decline first became obvious and being told "Oh we'll certainly have someone else by the 2024 election"
You have to wonder what happened ...

WayTooManyTabsOpen · 18/07/2024 10:41

Topseyt123 · 18/07/2024 03:43

I took cannot believe that out of that whole vast country Biden and Trump are the best candidates on offer.

It's totally farcical.

Biden is irritating the fuck out of me with his bumbling and his stubborn refusal to step aside. I can't abide Trump either but the election victory is now almost certainly his and that is a worrying prospect.

So much of this could have been improved if only the Democrats had picked their candidate more wisely instead of backing the shit show that is increasingly Biden for so long.

You could, of course, say that the Republicans too have a horrendous candidate, and that's true. However, theirs is being handed victory on a plate and all they or Trump really have to do is sit back and let Biden and the Democrats get on with it.

If I personally had to make a choice between Biden or Trump on my ballot paper I really don't know what I would do. I simply couldn't vote for the god awful Trump at all, but Biden is hardly an inspiring alternative. I'd probably have to abstain, and I do not really believe in doing that because your vote is your main voice and in most countries in the world it was hard won.Decent and acceptable choices on the ballot paper are needed though.

I don't envy those who will have to make this shit choice.

Edited

Totally agree.

I despise Trump, I think he's an awful, incompetent human being and a terrible terrible choice for any kind of leadership position, let alone a world leader.

But could I really blame anyone for voting for him this time round with Biden as the alternative? I'm not sure I could. They are both appalling candidates in very different ways.

I just can't understand what the democrats were thinking.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 18/07/2024 10:40

FuzzyStripes · 18/07/2024 00:09

I am hoping covid is an excuse to make a face saving exit from politics.

I wondered the same, but with Trump ahead in tthe polling in most key states I worry it's just too late for the Democrats to come back now

Obviously Biden's not to blame for being old and sick, but for me the party's judgement in hanging onto him for so long would be reason enough not to vote for them - a view shared by many American friends

x2boys · 18/07/2024 10:38

Janieforever · 18/07/2024 10:36

thats simply many people don’t agree with his thought process or politics, he isn’t losing cognitive ability and very frail mentally and physically. They are two very different animals health wise. Surprised you can’t see that.

In three years time things could be very different ,,
Just going off my own parents things can decline very quickly when people get into their 80,s .

Janieforever · 18/07/2024 10:36

Mustreadabook · 18/07/2024 09:33

Trump is only 3 years younger than Biden. And has been acting irrationally for years. Doesn't seem to have put enough people off.

thats simply many people don’t agree with his thought process or politics, he isn’t losing cognitive ability and very frail mentally and physically. They are two very different animals health wise. Surprised you can’t see that.

Janieforever · 18/07/2024 10:34

I think those close to Biden are telling him he can and should stay in power ie his wife and son. I don’t believe they are arguing otherwise, which is bolstering his delusion, and of course he is closely surrounded by yes people who will be telling him the same

its sad, trump is only 4 years younger and clearly as sharp as a pin , irrelevant of how much of an arse he is

thing is it is clear he is going to lose, he will not win another term, trump will get in, so what’s the bloody point in hanging on, it’s so selfish against his party who have no chance.

its just unfortunate that politics in the us means they have no mechanism to remove a sitting president if he refuses to go. He wants to stay and those c,lose to him urging him to stay it’s all over for the democrats.

noctilucentcloud · 18/07/2024 10:30

Biden is being so stubborn, he (and other democrats) need to look at the bigger picture - is it more important he stands for president or Trump isn't president. This situation should never gave been allowed to happen, it's handing Trump a victory. The Democrats should have been planning a succesor years ago, but they now urgently need to make Biden step down. It's crazy that there's no way of making this happen. And even crazier that in the whole of the US with all the millions of people that the choice is Trump or Biden!

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