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Leg lengthening surgery gone wrong.

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Thunderandlightningisfrightening · 17/07/2024 13:35

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13642509/High-flying-5ft-2in-banker-grew-5ft-6in-car-crash-leg-lengthening-surgery-left-one-limb-six-inches-longer-wins-payout-settles-1m-court-case-against-surgeon.html

Why would anyone do this?!?!?

5ft 2in banker settles £1m case against her leg-lengthening surgeon

Elaine Foo, (pictured with her legal team), sued her leg surgeon Dr Jean-Marc Guichet (pictured inset) over his alleged botched operation. She worked in London for Bank of America Merrill Lynch.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13642509/High-flying-5ft-2in-banker-grew-5ft-6in-car-crash-leg-lengthening-surgery-left-one-limb-six-inches-longer-wins-payout-settles-1m-court-case-against-surgeon.html

OP posts:
TroysMammy · 17/07/2024 16:15

voiceofastar · 17/07/2024 15:55

Grab something long, like a bumper packet of custard creams, to shuffle it off the shelf.

Done that and the clambering. I wouldn't reach into the bottom of a freezer in Iceland though in case I topple in head first and my little legs are waggling in the air 😂.

amoreoamicizia · 17/07/2024 16:13

I often see the 5'2 figure quoted as average height but I'm sure it's well out of date these days. I'm 5'7 and feel average or a smidgen taller than average, young women in particular are usually my height or close. I certainly don't walk around feeling taller than most women.

Benjilassi · 17/07/2024 16:12

But you can’t be cabin crew on many airlines.

That's a safety thing I think. Got to be able to reach stuff.

WhatsUpNowThen · 17/07/2024 16:09

Or a baguette. Baguette are a useful tool!

I'm 5' 1" and I keep a special spatula in the kitchen.
Nobody touches my spatula.

oakleaffy · 17/07/2024 16:07

MsNorburry · 17/07/2024 15:20

5'8 deviates from the norm more than 5'2

But you'd be unlikely to be described as "a bit tall".

Did you ever think about that?!

I’m also 5’8” it’s not that tall nowadays for a woman.

Bigcat25 · 17/07/2024 16:05

Primefungus · 17/07/2024 13:59

I'm 5 ft 2 and it's a real pain having to take trousers up all the time. Maybe that's why?!

The recovery for this surgery is brutal even if it goes well. A much bigger "pain" than any alteration. You'll be bedridden and peeing in a pan for a while.

Waitingfordoggo · 17/07/2024 16:03

CactusMactus · 17/07/2024 16:00

What kind of jobs? Like police officer?
I would never have considered my short-arsed-ness might hold me back professionally!

You can join the police if you’re short- there’s no minimum height to join the police in the UK! But you can’t be cabin crew on many airlines. Also probably not a catwalk model. Not sure if there are any other jobs short people can’t do.

oakleaffy · 17/07/2024 16:03

CactusMactus · 17/07/2024 16:00

What kind of jobs? Like police officer?
I would never have considered my short-arsed-ness might hold me back professionally!

Spot on!

FranticHare · 17/07/2024 16:03

quantumbutterfly · 17/07/2024 15:50

What a culture we live in, chop bits off, stitch or stick bits on, inject stuff in. No wonder so many people aren't comfortable in their skin.

It’s truly baffling. I do not understand.

Much healthier (and cheaper, and less painful) to learn to accept the body we were born into.

Benjilassi · 17/07/2024 16:02

missshilling · 17/07/2024 15:30

My tall husband says the same thing.

I am 5'8" and think the world is made for my height, at least I don't have to fiddle about getting my bones changed adjusting things nor find the standard worktops, cars, chairs etc uncomfortable.

I rarely have problems with clothes (sometimes a bit short in the body, that's all).

Clearly, I am above average for a woman so someone up high (hmm, bad choice of words...) needs to have a think.

Waitingfordoggo · 17/07/2024 16:01

She doesn’t come across well in the article. It does sound like she may not have followed instructions properly, and not disclosed things to her medical team that she should have disclosed (medication she was taking). I can’t really see how she won, but obviously I haven’t heard all the evidence.

this made me raise an eyebrow:

In the witness box, Ms Foo told the judge that, when she signed up for the operation, she was shown a document setting out the potential complications which could result from going through with the radical procedure.
'It ran to six pages. It was like studying for your driving licence, except you are signing up for a guaranteed car crash,

Rather sounds like she is admitting she was warned about the potential risks of the surgery.

LookingForwardToSunshine · 17/07/2024 16:01

I'm 5'10 and the shortest in my family now my children are grown up. Everyone under 5'7 looks short to me.

oakleaffy · 17/07/2024 16:01

robovacsareepic · 17/07/2024 15:57

It is well known surgery, been around at least since 1997 when I was offered it - but yeah, usually not for cosmetic reasons! It has a long recovery time, strange thing to do to add a bit of height.

The child I met said her legs would be lengthened by only a small amount at a time a few cms- It was very painful for her.
This banker has no need of leg lengthening- The problem was psychological not physical pain.

CactusMactus · 17/07/2024 16:00

Oakcupboard · 17/07/2024 15:58

I’m 5ft on the dot, I like my height (or lack there of). Only annoying thing is some jobs I wouldn’t meet the height requirement for.

that said I have other insecurities that I would consider getting surgery on, although this particular surgery seems very drastic to me anyway

What kind of jobs? Like police officer?
I would never have considered my short-arsed-ness might hold me back professionally!

RunAwayTurnAwayRunAwayTurnAway · 17/07/2024 16:00

hammering · 17/07/2024 15:44

Jeez. Would you really consider having your actual legs chopped to bits to save having to take a few pairs of trousers up 😂

Absolutely!! PP was ridiculous to even suggest that an awful operation was preferable to stitching some trousers up.

Get bloody Wonder Web, PP!

Oakcupboard · 17/07/2024 15:58

I’m 5ft on the dot, I like my height (or lack there of). Only annoying thing is some jobs I wouldn’t meet the height requirement for.

that said I have other insecurities that I would consider getting surgery on, although this particular surgery seems very drastic to me anyway

robovacsareepic · 17/07/2024 15:57

It is well known surgery, been around at least since 1997 when I was offered it - but yeah, usually not for cosmetic reasons! It has a long recovery time, strange thing to do to add a bit of height.

voiceofastar · 17/07/2024 15:55

oakleaffy · 17/07/2024 15:51

I’m 5’8 and not especially tall nowadays but STILL have to ask tall men ( usually select men with their partner)to please help reach stuff for me.

They always oblige.

edit “ stack em high “ seems to be a supermarket edict.
very annoying.

Edited

Grab something long, like a bumper packet of custard creams, to shuffle it off the shelf.

oakleaffy · 17/07/2024 15:51

TroysMammy · 17/07/2024 15:46

I'm just under 5ft and I know I'm short but it only bothers me when something on the top shelf in the supermarket is just out of my reach.

Also why do they display small shoe sizes at the top of the display rack and petite trousers drag on the floor? We don't all want to wear heels with jeans.

Surgery is extreme though.

I’m 5’8 and not especially tall nowadays but STILL have to ask tall men ( usually select men with their partner)to please help reach stuff for me.

They always oblige.

edit “ stack em high “ seems to be a supermarket edict.
very annoying.

PasteldeNata78 · 17/07/2024 15:50

SonicTheHodgeheg · 17/07/2024 15:20

How many people who have never had comments work on the trading floor of an investment bank ?

I have. I'm 5'1. South Asian mixed with various other asian.It's a jungle and you need a really thick skin.
This woman is a managing director. Whatever she claims , her career hasn't been stymied by her height or any other feature for that matter. Many of us never reach such heights.
As @quantumbutterfly said she's perfectly normal height for her ethnic group.

Not sure how this story even got published it's very embarrassing for her.

quantumbutterfly · 17/07/2024 15:50

What a culture we live in, chop bits off, stitch or stick bits on, inject stuff in. No wonder so many people aren't comfortable in their skin.

kitsuneghost · 17/07/2024 15:49

5ft 2 although shorter than average on absolute terms is still well within an the bracket of normal female heights.

Ohnobackagain · 17/07/2024 15:46

True @Thunderandlightningisfrightening but she must have really wanted to have the height. I wouldn’t put myself through it, it’s not going to be quick to grow 4” of leg bone!

Ponderingwindow · 17/07/2024 15:46

My daughter is 4’10” and she won’t be getting any taller unless something bizarre happens. We have worked very hard to instill body positivity from birth and I am very glad we did.

TroysMammy · 17/07/2024 15:46

I'm just under 5ft and I know I'm short but it only bothers me when something on the top shelf in the supermarket is just out of my reach.

Also why do they display small shoe sizes at the top of the display rack and petite trousers drag on the floor? We don't all want to wear heels with jeans.

Surgery is extreme though.