Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

My Dh just said I did drugs

137 replies

FeatherBoas · 15/07/2024 20:31

My DH just said I did drugs I never did, the worst was probably a drag on my mum's (stolen) cigarette when I was about ten, I once lit a cigarette for a boy friend while he was driving many years ago. I don't, never did smoke, never have done any illegal drugs, I had friends who did weed, I didn't, I once saw people doing heroin I didn't. I feel really upset why did he say this and when I said I never did he's still saying I did, ridiculous but it seems like he's talking about someone else, he has had a few drinks. We've been together for many years where has this come from? I was in tears with my adult DD.

OP posts:
Hangerslip · 15/07/2024 20:38

Have you had a few drinks too? Seems like something to talk about in the morning.

FeatherBoas · 15/07/2024 20:38

MarpleCake · 15/07/2024 20:37

Doubled down you say?

Basically said I was lying.

OP posts:
MrsTerryPratchett · 15/07/2024 20:37

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 15/07/2024 20:37

This feels like half a story

Maybe 10% of one.

OP does he drink a lot? Gaslight a lot?

MarpleCake · 15/07/2024 20:37

Doubled down you say?

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 15/07/2024 20:37

This feels like half a story

DollopOfFun · 15/07/2024 20:37

Give it him back. Keep referring to 'when he used to like wearing women's clothes'.

FeatherBoas · 15/07/2024 20:36

This was not a joke and when I denied it he doubled down.

OP posts:
JoshLymanIsHotterThanSam · 15/07/2024 20:35

That’s okay my DH says I have slept with half of Skegness. He’s very much joking and I have never cried over it. Gently OP get a grip.

FeatherBoas · 15/07/2024 20:35

It was just so out of the blue, and as though it was something he had always known, but totally untrue.

OP posts:
ChirpyBee · 15/07/2024 20:33

I think you need to be a bit more resilient.

Twistyripple · 15/07/2024 20:32

Seems a bit of an over reaction to something you say is untrue? Has he got his wires crossed about what you've told him in the past?

SoupDragon · 15/07/2024 20:32

Why would this leave you in tears?