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Private school fees - act now for SEND!

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BellesAndGraces · 15/07/2024 13:32

The King’s Speech is scheduled for this Wednesday (17th July) and it will be followed by 4 days of debating Labour’s proposed legislation in Parliament, including the introduction of VAT on private school fees.

If you have a child with special educational needs or a disability and send them to a private school because your local state school was unable to meet their needs but do not have an EHCP I would strongly suggest that you write to your MP and tell them why you send your child to a private school and how the charging of VAT on private school fees will affect you. Ask your MP to stand up in Parliament and ask the government whether it is willing to expand the exception they have agreed to make for children with EHCPs to cover all children who attend private school in order to meet their SEND. If you share your story and circumstances with your MP you will be providing them with a case study they can refer to in Parliament about how charging VAT on private school fees will affect those of their constituents who are already dealing with the challenges that having a child with SEND can bring.

You can find out who your MP is and their email address here: https://members.parliament.uk/FindYourMP

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DarkM3l0n · 15/07/2024 22:51

BrumToTheRescue · 15/07/2024 22:46

That’s not about what DC actually need though. Or the law. It is about LAs saving money at all costs. State at all cost, leads to LAs acting even more unlawfully.

So you are happy for LAs to fund independent SS but not independent MS? Despite the former being significantly more expensive. And arguably having more problems, particularly safeguarding concerns. Despite independent MS often not being unreasonable public expenditure. Despite the alternative for many being more expensive provision rather than state MS.

SS deal with the highest need so of course they’re going to be more expensive. Children who attend absolutely can’t attend MS. The safe guarding issues are separate.

BrumToTheRescue · 15/07/2024 22:46

That’s not about what DC actually need though. Or the law. It is about LAs saving money at all costs. State at all cost, leads to LAs acting even more unlawfully.

So you are happy for LAs to fund independent SS but not independent MS? Despite the former being significantly more expensive. And arguably having more problems, particularly safeguarding concerns. Despite independent MS often not being unreasonable public expenditure. Despite the alternative for many being more expensive provision rather than state MS.

geography21 · 15/07/2024 22:42

Have you seen any plans on how they'll do this? I don't think they can seriously improve 'mainstream' without diversifying school types personally but I hope you're right and they do have some ideas

DarkM3l0n · 15/07/2024 22:40

geography21 · 15/07/2024 22:37

@DarkM3l0n and I'm glad that works for you and your family - we're not all the same are we? In fact we really are all very much needing different things in the SEN area.

Yes I dont disagree with that however special school aside I don’t agree with local authorities diverting huge sums of money to private schools
for a few children at the expense of the rest. Schools should be supported to provide better provision for more. Isn’t that what the current focus is on in some areas? Schools being supported to provide better provision so not so many EHCPs are needed?

geography21 · 15/07/2024 22:40

Forgive me for being cynical but I wonder if the govt has looked at the SEN costs, and decided that our kids aren't worth the investment.

I see really no investment in SEN from labour. No new ideas. If anyone is excited by any new labour SEN ideas then I'd love to know about them.

BrumToTheRescue · 15/07/2024 22:37

And yet your posts are ignorant enough to think just because some can manage in state schools everyone can.

geography21 · 15/07/2024 22:37

@DarkM3l0n and I'm glad that works for you and your family - we're not all the same are we? In fact we really are all very much needing different things in the SEN area.

Frowningprovidence · 15/07/2024 22:37

ThursdayTomorrow · 15/07/2024 22:04

What type of SEN need cannot be met in state but only in private? I thought (purely from reading posts on MN - I have absolutely no real life knowledge) that private schools didn’t accept SEN children as they affect their results.
Are we basically taking about dyslexia?

There is a huge gap in state provision for pupils with autism who are academically able but need a particular type of sensory environment. A 1 to 1in mainstream doesnt work because they need small classes and a state special doesn't work because they don't offer the right curriculumn. There is a particular shortage of schools for girls with autism as a lot of special schools are built around a male presentation.

These pupils are often completely out of education as there are no state options. Some of these children are awarded an ehcp at an independent school If they fight for it. Other families realise that what their child needs is available privately and pay.

Obviously the right solution is the government builds a series of autism schools nationwide and there aren't children sat with zero education.

This isn't going too happen.

geography21 · 15/07/2024 22:36

Absolutely @Grasshopper7 completely understand what you mean.

We need to encourage all the alternative provision - the online schools, the online/in person hybrids, the specialist autism tutoring groups, the handful of schools (is it 1?) that specialise in autistic girls etc. There are more ideas out there.

The very last thing we need is everything being shoe horned into one size fits all state options that reduce parents trying to do what's best for their child.

DarkM3l0n · 15/07/2024 22:34

Grasshopper7 · 15/07/2024 22:30

@DarkM3l0n
I can assure you that we have explored all options available to us in the state sector.
Do you actually have much experience of ASD? What you may not consider chaotic is experienced very differently by my DC. They need a small, calm nurturing environment. Not a class of 30 children, many of whom have there own significant Sen/ behavioural needs.

Yes all my dc have an ASC and ADHD dual diagnosis. All severely impacted.As do I and as do their cousins. We were/are all state educated in classes of 30.

BrumToTheRescue · 15/07/2024 22:33

For some DC, all schools are chaotic enough to mean they are so overwhelmed their needs can’t be met.

For some DC, all state schools are large enough and busy enough to mean DC are so overwhelmed their needs can’t be met.

Planetbumble · 15/07/2024 22:32

thequickbrowndog · 15/07/2024 18:29

Petitions not periods!!

😂

Grasshopper7 · 15/07/2024 22:30

@DarkM3l0n
I can assure you that we have explored all options available to us in the state sector.
Do you actually have much experience of ASD? What you may not consider chaotic is experienced very differently by my DC. They need a small, calm nurturing environment. Not a class of 30 children, many of whom have there own significant Sen/ behavioural needs.

BrumToTheRescue · 15/07/2024 22:30

DarkM3l0n · 15/07/2024 22:21

If it can be met in some state schools it can be met in all. What Dyslexia provision can’t be provided in some schools that can be provided in others?

You have misunderstood. By ‘for some’ I meant for some pupils. Not some schools. For some pupils, no state school will be able to meet their needs. For some pupils, no school at all will be appropriate.

However, some schools can provide small class sizes, specialist SpLD tutor on-site, onsite SALT…

BarryCantSwim · 15/07/2024 22:29

BellesAndGraces · 15/07/2024 16:02

This is incredibly sad. We are talking about the life chances of disabled children, not whether rich people should get non-dom status or have to pay extra SDLT on their second homes.
It goes without saying that all children should have access to decent state schools and you have no idea what I or other posters with children with SEN or a disability have been doing to campaign for that or how many letters we have already written to MPs, councillors, newspapers or anyone who will listen. I can only guess that it’s probably more than you have ever written.

Trust me when I say that there are many children with SEN in private schools right now that you would not want in your child’s class of 30+ with one teacher because that teacher’s attention would almost certainly be monopolised by those children. Yes, let’s campaign for better SEN provision for state schools but let’s not pretend that that will happen any time soon whilst in the meantime you will have lots of kids re-entering a state system that cannot currently support them because their parents can’t stretch to cover the VAT on their fees.

I’ve done all of those things literally - and more. I don’t have an SEN child and am governor at a school with no connection to me and still do it voluntarily with a FT job.

You are conflating 2 things.

DarkM3l0n · 15/07/2024 22:24

Grasshopper7 · 15/07/2024 22:21

@DarkM3l0n
I described my DC primary as chaotic, not all schools are the same obviously. Neither are all high functioning autistic children.

So there will be other state schools
in your area. I doubt all are chaotic. Very few are in complete confusion and disorder.

DarkM3l0n · 15/07/2024 22:21

BrumToTheRescue · 15/07/2024 22:19

@ThursdayTomorrow so,e independent mainstream schools are poor with SEN, but some aren’t. Some (but not all, obviously) with ASD, SpLD, SEMH can have their needs met in an independent MS but not a state MS. Then there are independent SS too catering for the whole range of SEN needs,

Dyslexia absolutely can be and is met in the state sector.

For some it can. For others it can’t be. There are independent SpLD SS. There are also some with EOTAS/EOTIS.

If it can be met in some state schools it can be met in all. What Dyslexia provision can’t be provided in some schools that can be provided in others?

Grasshopper7 · 15/07/2024 22:21

@DarkM3l0n
I described my DC primary as chaotic, not all schools are the same obviously. Neither are all high functioning autistic children.

BrumToTheRescue · 15/07/2024 22:19

@ThursdayTomorrow so,e independent mainstream schools are poor with SEN, but some aren’t. Some (but not all, obviously) with ASD, SpLD, SEMH can have their needs met in an independent MS but not a state MS. Then there are independent SS too catering for the whole range of SEN needs,

Dyslexia absolutely can be and is met in the state sector.

For some it can. For others it can’t be. There are independent SpLD SS. There are also some with EOTAS/EOTIS.

geography21 · 15/07/2024 22:18

Some primary schools are a chaotic experience for some children, yes. You can't characterise other people's experiences. My dc found their school environment chaotic, noisy and overwhelming.

I don't know what you look at but I follow Beth Morrison's campaign on X and if you think that SEN isn't desperately in need of reform for all levels of need in the state sector then you perhaps haven't looked around enough.

doubleshift · 15/07/2024 22:17

My son has an EHCP and the LA pay fees at a local MAINSTREAM very small independent school for him because all the evidence provided said the child needs small classes but not a special school place. Was moved by the LA from a large mainstream state. Presume the LA will not be paying an uplift 20% on these fees?

DarkM3l0n · 15/07/2024 22:15

Grasshopper7 · 15/07/2024 22:10

@ThursdayTomorrow
My DC has ASD, high functioning so does very well academically. Cannot cope in the chaotic environment of our local primary.

The primary school I work in has several high functioning/ high need children with ASC who cope with good provision and support.

I don’t think it’s fair to describe primary schools
as chaotic.

Planetbumble · 15/07/2024 22:13

User6874356 · 15/07/2024 16:24

Why should those who can afford to pay privately for something the state should be paying for but isn’t be taxed? Especially when it’s a suitable education for a disabled child?

what an awful person you must be to want to punish disabled kids because you’re jealous their parents can afford to pay to stop the state failing them. It’s quite possible to care about SEN kids whose parents can afford private school and those who can’t if you’re a decent human.

This

Grasshopper7 · 15/07/2024 22:10

@ThursdayTomorrow
My DC has ASD, high functioning so does very well academically. Cannot cope in the chaotic environment of our local primary.

DarkM3l0n · 15/07/2024 22:09

ThursdayTomorrow · 15/07/2024 22:04

What type of SEN need cannot be met in state but only in private? I thought (purely from reading posts on MN - I have absolutely no real life knowledge) that private schools didn’t accept SEN children as they affect their results.
Are we basically taking about dyslexia?

Dyslexia absolutely can be and is met in the state sector.

Its interesting as I suspect those with the greatest need are catered for in the state sector as these kids will have parents struggling to cope let alone argue that a private education is needed above and beyond anything the state sector can offer.