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Private school fees - act now for SEND!

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BellesAndGraces · 15/07/2024 13:32

The King’s Speech is scheduled for this Wednesday (17th July) and it will be followed by 4 days of debating Labour’s proposed legislation in Parliament, including the introduction of VAT on private school fees.

If you have a child with special educational needs or a disability and send them to a private school because your local state school was unable to meet their needs but do not have an EHCP I would strongly suggest that you write to your MP and tell them why you send your child to a private school and how the charging of VAT on private school fees will affect you. Ask your MP to stand up in Parliament and ask the government whether it is willing to expand the exception they have agreed to make for children with EHCPs to cover all children who attend private school in order to meet their SEND. If you share your story and circumstances with your MP you will be providing them with a case study they can refer to in Parliament about how charging VAT on private school fees will affect those of their constituents who are already dealing with the challenges that having a child with SEND can bring.

You can find out who your MP is and their email address here: https://members.parliament.uk/FindYourMP

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BellesAndGraces · 15/07/2024 16:42

LoveSandbanks · 15/07/2024 16:40

Timescales for an ehcp are written in law and should be no more than 20 weeks from application. One of mine went to tribunal and still wasn’t 2 years from start of application. Some do go on for 2 years usually because the child has significant need and will be very expensive) but it is the exception.

I have personal experience of this and it really isn’t the exception. Either that or my LA is worse than the average.

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LoveSandbanks · 15/07/2024 16:40

Phineyj · 15/07/2024 16:28

Let's examine that statement: "those with serious SEN should get an EHCP".

Yes. It would take about two years (assuming the waits don't get longer which they probably will).

So are parents being allowed a two year grace period? No.

Timescales for an ehcp are written in law and should be no more than 20 weeks from application. One of mine went to tribunal and still wasn’t 2 years from start of application. Some do go on for 2 years usually because the child has significant need and will be very expensive) but it is the exception.

Heronwatcher · 15/07/2024 16:39

@Phineyj they first announced this before September 2023 and I think there should be some kind of transition period in the legislation, so it probably would be close to 2 years by the end of it, if not more. The writing has been on the wall for a long time- certainly long enough for plenty of private schools to have taken extensive advice on ways around it all (like paying everything now!).

User6874356 · 15/07/2024 16:39

qwertyasdfgzxcv · 15/07/2024 16:34

There are some children with SEN whose parents have got them into the private system and now they are doing OK. The difficulties have been to some extent resolves, but now the govt are going to introduce VAT meaning some of those children lose their solution. That doesn't benefit them and it doesn't benefit anyone's children who haven't used private either.

Absolutely. Taxing parents who have been forced to pay for a suitable education for disabled kids doesn’t benefit those who can’t afford to pay (in fact it will likely disadvantage them by putting further strain on resources). It’s just the politics of envy

Phineyj · 15/07/2024 16:38

VAT is not a "tax on luxury items". It is a tax on "value added" meaning value added at each stage of the production or consumption of the good or service.

I suppose the thing with education is the value added is rather subjective unlike e.g. a block of cheese (zero rated as deemed to be a necessity).

As it's a percentage tax, it does of course fall more heavily on expensive things.

User6874356 · 15/07/2024 16:36

Heronwatcher · 15/07/2024 16:25

@User6874356 because luxuries are subject to VAT and people have to pay tax on luxury items. No one is banning people from attending these schools the government is just effectively removing an exemption. And those with serious SEN can and should get an ECHP so won’t be subject to the full fees anyway.

Education isn’t a luxury. It especially isn’t a luxury if it’s simply paying for the education the state should be providing but won’t. Punishing disabled kids because you’re jealous of their parents is really low

getting an EHCP is a very long and difficult process. You’re being ridiculously naive.

qwertyasdfgzxcv · 15/07/2024 16:34

There are some children with SEN whose parents have got them into the private system and now they are doing OK. The difficulties have been to some extent resolves, but now the govt are going to introduce VAT meaning some of those children lose their solution. That doesn't benefit them and it doesn't benefit anyone's children who haven't used private either.

User6874356 · 15/07/2024 16:32

mitogoshi · 15/07/2024 15:17

Better send funding is a far better idea for campaigning. If your child doesn't have a ehcp then they cannot have needs that require a private education, you are choosing it

That is simply untrue. It can be a long battle to get an EHCP.

qwertyasdfgzxcv · 15/07/2024 16:31

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This has been withdrawn by MNHQ at the poster's request.

I agree. It doesn't have to be state school kids vs private children. They are all children whose parents are trying to provide the best they can for them. Bitter sums it up. My niece goes to a fantastic all girls private secondary. We can't afford that for my DD and occasionally I am a bit jealous, but how would making it unaffordable for her parents benefit me. It wouldn't. I want her to do well.

User6874356 · 15/07/2024 16:30

HorseAreBetterThanHumans · 15/07/2024 16:14

Yes - we are talking about the life chances of ALL disabled children.

You are talking about the life chances of the small % of this country's children with SEN which are a) at private school and b) cannot afford the VAT rise.

You are assuming that most posters have no lived experience, despite many telling you that they have. You are assuming that the rest of us are not fighting or campaigning or speaking out every chance we get. You are ignoring all the parents with SEN children who disagree with you.

you’re attacking op for caring about some
disabled children. It doesn’t matter if some SEN parents disagree and think they should pay more tax for the privilege of paying for a suitable education for their child (who are these people???). They can pay extra tax if they want. The purpose of ops thread is to help some SEN kids which is laudable. Why would anyone be opposed even if they were not in the group being helped?

Phineyj · 15/07/2024 16:28

Let's examine that statement: "those with serious SEN should get an EHCP".

Yes. It would take about two years (assuming the waits don't get longer which they probably will).

So are parents being allowed a two year grace period? No.

Heronwatcher · 15/07/2024 16:25

@User6874356 because luxuries are subject to VAT and people have to pay tax on luxury items. No one is banning people from attending these schools the government is just effectively removing an exemption. And those with serious SEN can and should get an ECHP so won’t be subject to the full fees anyway.

Darkfire · 15/07/2024 16:25

Isn’t a large reason children with EHCPs will be exempt from tax is to save LAs money as there are many LA funded children in independent schools.

How would it be determined without an EHCP that a child meets the criteria for exemption? If it’s a case of a school putting a children in the SEN register that could be open to abuse.

Ozanj · 15/07/2024 16:24

Heronwatcher · 15/07/2024 15:06

Also I’d be really interested in the numbers here, we know already that only 6% of kids attend a private school. Those with really serious SEN can get an EHCP (totally agree it’s a fight but it can be done especially if you can afford a solicitor). So this leaves an absolutely minuscule proportion of people who have a degree of SEN but not serious enough for an EHCP, and whose parents can’t now afford the VAT (which technically should really have been being paid all along).

Compared to the vast numbers of kids in the state sector who don’t have a qualified teacher, whose school is falling apart or who can’t go to school at all because their needs are not catered for at all this is an absolute niche issue.

Private schools don’t tend to use QTS teachers either. Yet most still manage to deliver.

User6874356 · 15/07/2024 16:24

MrsTerryPratchett · 15/07/2024 13:53

This. Some people are not alright Jack.

Why should those who can afford to pay privately for something the state should be paying for but isn’t be taxed? Especially when it’s a suitable education for a disabled child?

what an awful person you must be to want to punish disabled kids because you’re jealous their parents can afford to pay to stop the state failing them. It’s quite possible to care about SEN kids whose parents can afford private school and those who can’t if you’re a decent human.

MrsKeats · 15/07/2024 16:23

lightinthebox · 15/07/2024 14:04

No. I will not be doing this and neither should anyone else.

Focus on why the schools aren’t meeting SEND children’s needs not worrying about the education of those who can afford private.

Privately educated children should not be superior to state.

Petition funding for state schools, but I doubt OP cares about those children.

In a nutshell.

Soukmyfalafel · 15/07/2024 16:19

Longhotsummers · 15/07/2024 15:11

But a lot of these private places are being funded by cash-strapped local authorities at the expense of parents with SEND children who cannot afford the lawyers to force the LA to send their child private. Our LA is millions overspent because of this and now has pulled back on issuing EHCPs for this reason. Its scandalous.

Safety valve? Utter crock of shit that is. Let's reduce spending by pretending SEND doesn't exist. Lovely Tory policy there.

We need more special schools built. Sadly all political parties won't acknowledge this, why would they if they are expensive. Nothing on any manifestos about this. It's an utter mess. My LA asked the D of E for funding to build two SS and it got declined. There is over 200 children waiting for a specialist place in my LA (so have been through an EHCP process and meet the threshold to need one). That's about the capacity of two maintained special schools. Clever, clever D of E. 🙄I hope it changes after the election, but I doubt it because the economy is a pile of shit too.

I literally emailed my new Labour MP an hour after his seat was called, so I have already let him know my issues. 😂I will be like a wasp round this man. I hate being that parent, but you have to be.

Heronwatcher · 15/07/2024 16:19

@coupdetonnerre just so you know I am a school SEN governor at my local school, with 2 of my 4 kids having ECHPs for which I have successfully applied and now have to spend hours engaging with schools and the county council to try to ensure they are complied with (I.e. fight tooth and nail for the basics). I have also campaigned for equal access to education for many SEN kids including helping and directing others to resources. So I think I actually do quite a bit, yes it had been quite a struggle alongside Covid and working full time as well as multiple lengthy hospital stays for one of my kids- thanks for asking!

My comment was actually aimed at you criticising other people for not doing enough- it’s perfectly acceptable to critique the basic tenet of this thread- to galvanise affluent parents to bother their MPs about this niche issue whilst ignoring the needs of the majority who will benefit from this policy by increasing funding in the state sector. You can criticise that from whatever perspective you want without having to be a full placard waving protestor.

User6874356 · 15/07/2024 16:16

Heronwatcher · 15/07/2024 13:40

Have you got any suggestions for those of us who couldn’t possibly afford private school fees if their kids have SEN, ECHP or not?

Maybe it might be better for people to petition their MPs about the system as a whole, such as better support for children in early years, better process for getting an EHCP assessment and then getting the support that the EHCP mandates and having adequate special schools for people who need them, as well as proper funding for teachers and LSAs in mainstream schools. You know, so that everyone can get a shot at a decent education.

Why should people pay more for a SEN education that their child is not being offered by the state because another parent can’t afford it? Yes all SEN kids should get a decent education but that’s not a reason to charge VAT for children who are SEN and whose parents had to go private because it wasn’t offered .

HorseAreBetterThanHumans · 15/07/2024 16:14

Yes - we are talking about the life chances of ALL disabled children.

You are talking about the life chances of the small % of this country's children with SEN which are a) at private school and b) cannot afford the VAT rise.

You are assuming that most posters have no lived experience, despite many telling you that they have. You are assuming that the rest of us are not fighting or campaigning or speaking out every chance we get. You are ignoring all the parents with SEN children who disagree with you.

AngelsWithSilverWings · 15/07/2024 16:12

I have a child with learning difficulties but no EHCP. The state system failed her repeatedly but we were fortunate enough to be able to jump ship and go private. This is a luxury and I agree that that luxury should be taxed because not everyone can afford to do what we did. I believe that before we went private and I still believe it now.

I feel angry that the state system is so underfunded that even though my child attracted Pupil
Premium funding due to being a previously looked after child they could still not afford to provide the help she needed.

The state system had no problem spending my son's pupil premium money on extra tutoring to make sure he got level 9s instead of level 8s because that made their stats look good. They just can't afford to spend money on the ones who are really struggling due to learning difficulties.

Grasshopper7 · 15/07/2024 16:11

We are just about to move my DC ( ASD and ADHD) to a private school. Terrible timing. We have been told by the current school that they would qualify for an ECHP but could not bring ourselves to go through the process of applying for one after the stress of getting a diagnosis.
What we will be doing is applying for DLA and carers allowance. We hope that this will cover some of the VAT. Never would have applied for this if it wasn't for the new policy.
My DC could not cope in a mainstream school which is overwhelmed by many kids with special needs.

Soukmyfalafel · 15/07/2024 16:04

The PPs making flippant comments about just applying for an EHCP have clearly never tried to apply for one before and I sincerely hope that they never have to.

I have and that's why I made the comment. I don't think you should be resorting to having to spend your money and go through this worry of VAT, when really the LA should be meeting your child's needs. If you spent your money on legal fees instead it may save you money in the long run. My council conceded before tribunal in the end and if your case is clear cut you probably won't need representation anyway. It was a suggestion.

It's shit having to fight I know and it is exhausting working and dealing with your child's needs too, but I think if we all concentrate on the private school debate we are missing the point - you shouldn't be worrying about this in the first place if the LA was doing their job according to the law.

My son has complex needs though, and yes he is still in mainstream and it took about 14 months to go through the process to tribunal to get him school place, but we did get there in the end. I appreciate it can be harder for HF children though as it is more difficult to evidence their needs if they are doing well academically.

BellesAndGraces · 15/07/2024 16:02

MrsTerryPratchett · 15/07/2024 13:53

This. Some people are not alright Jack.

This is incredibly sad. We are talking about the life chances of disabled children, not whether rich people should get non-dom status or have to pay extra SDLT on their second homes.
It goes without saying that all children should have access to decent state schools and you have no idea what I or other posters with children with SEN or a disability have been doing to campaign for that or how many letters we have already written to MPs, councillors, newspapers or anyone who will listen. I can only guess that it’s probably more than you have ever written.

Trust me when I say that there are many children with SEN in private schools right now that you would not want in your child’s class of 30+ with one teacher because that teacher’s attention would almost certainly be monopolised by those children. Yes, let’s campaign for better SEN provision for state schools but let’s not pretend that that will happen any time soon whilst in the meantime you will have lots of kids re-entering a state system that cannot currently support them because their parents can’t stretch to cover the VAT on their fees.

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Phineyj · 15/07/2024 15:59

So write to your MP and make all those points!