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To NOT support England ???

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Shaketherombooga · 15/07/2024 11:49

I’m not English. I have lived in England for a very long time. I do not support the England football team, I frequently support their opposition!

Colleague has taken the England loss hard, and said ‘ I bet you’re glad they lost’ - I replied that I was essentially a neutral but thought Spain deserved the win.

Hes gone off in a big old rant about how if I live here I should be supporting England teams etc.
I think he should have a wee lie down and chill out!

YABU - you SHOULD support the team of a country you’ve made a life in - even if you are from a former colony of that country

YANBU - of course you don’t have to support a national team that’s not yours

OP posts:
DanielGault · 15/07/2024 20:01

Goldenbear · 15/07/2024 19:59

Evidently not if the ideas of the English are so outdated!

Who said that? I'm struggling to follow what you're saying.

Goldenbear · 15/07/2024 19:59

DanielGault · 15/07/2024 19:56

Believe it or not we don't spend a huge amount of time pondering life in England, Morris dancing or not. No idea how many here are DM readers. But there have been some strange attitudes on this thread and they do get your back up tbh.

Evidently not if the ideas of the English are so outdated!

DanielGault · 15/07/2024 19:56

Goldenbear · 15/07/2024 19:51

I think there are some odd notions of ‘English people’ and ‘English culture’ and a real misunderstanding as to how diverse England is. I was born in London, grew up in London and went to school with people with such a rich heritage that’s just a laughable notion that we are all Morris dancers and that we don’t understand difference and can’t accept it. People just read too many Daily Mail articles and come up with these completely inaccurate prejudices.

Believe it or not we don't spend a huge amount of time pondering life in England, Morris dancing or not. No idea how many here are DM readers. But there have been some strange attitudes on this thread and they do get your back up tbh.

WithACatLikeTread · 15/07/2024 19:56

Ploughlifht · 15/07/2024 19:51

You’re strangely obsessed with our ‘colonial past’ op and clearly hoping you’ll find someone who has an issue with you living in England. I’ll say it again op..no one cares.

We are genuinely very welcoming! Hence why English people are so diverse.

WithACatLikeTread · 15/07/2024 19:55

Shaketherombooga · 15/07/2024 19:51

no, but in response to a poster saying people are still going on about stuff that happened 500 years ago, I was merely pointing out that England has been fucking up politically all over the world as recently as the 20th Century.

Not England, Britain. All parts of the union took part in the British Empire, slavery, Northern Ireland etc. Maybe stick to football...Oh yeah you don't know much about that either!

Funny how England gets the blame though...

NooNakedJacuzziness · 15/07/2024 19:55

Shaketherombooga · 15/07/2024 19:17

‘Actually they played pretty well yesterday ’

We must have been watching a different match then…England barely touched the ball in the first 15 minutes, their passing was flat and poor, and did they even have 2 shots on target in the first half?

And yet Spain only beat them by one goal which came very late in the match. If England were that bad it should've been at least 3-1.

Anyway, I hope "Dave" is feeling better tomorrow #prayforDave

Goldenbear · 15/07/2024 19:51

Buddysbunda · 15/07/2024 19:45

I think a lot of this is 'wind them up and watch them go'. I'm in Ireland and a lot of people were supporting Spain but its not actually that deep, if England would have played well and won there would have a general consensus of fair play to them.

I think more people find it funny that it seems to annoy a lot of English people very much when they support anyone but England and that's where the fun actually lies - watching the indignation. It's a bit of a sport in itself, mean maybe but relations between the UK and Ireland haven't exactly been stellar lately so I can't see it changing any time soon.

I think there are some odd notions of ‘English people’ and ‘English culture’ and a real misunderstanding as to how diverse England is. I was born in London, grew up in London and went to school with people with such a rich heritage that’s just a laughable notion that we are all Morris dancers and that we don’t understand difference and can’t accept it. People just read too many Daily Mail articles and come up with these completely inaccurate prejudices.

WithACatLikeTread · 15/07/2024 19:51

Buddysbunda · 15/07/2024 19:45

I think a lot of this is 'wind them up and watch them go'. I'm in Ireland and a lot of people were supporting Spain but its not actually that deep, if England would have played well and won there would have a general consensus of fair play to them.

I think more people find it funny that it seems to annoy a lot of English people very much when they support anyone but England and that's where the fun actually lies - watching the indignation. It's a bit of a sport in itself, mean maybe but relations between the UK and Ireland haven't exactly been stellar lately so I can't see it changing any time soon.

I don't mind banter but some stuff has been proper hatred particularly from Scots.

Shaketherombooga · 15/07/2024 19:51

Livelovebehappy · 15/07/2024 19:47

Ah. I’ll bet the post was an excuse to bring up the Palestine issue. The subject isn’t as active on MN as it used to be, and they’re trying to sneak in another pointless debate about it….

no, but in response to a poster saying people are still going on about stuff that happened 500 years ago, I was merely pointing out that England has been fucking up politically all over the world as recently as the 20th Century.

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Ploughlifht · 15/07/2024 19:51

Shaketherombooga · 15/07/2024 19:28

That the problem with your colonial past, left the door open for other people to come back to England legally… bit rich moaning about it now!

You’re strangely obsessed with our ‘colonial past’ op and clearly hoping you’ll find someone who has an issue with you living in England. I’ll say it again op..no one cares.

WithACatLikeTread · 15/07/2024 19:50

Rainbowsponge · 15/07/2024 19:49

Of course they did, Scotland in particular was heavily entrenched.

Don't tell the SNP that. 🤪

Shaketherombooga · 15/07/2024 19:49

Goldenbear · 15/07/2024 19:41

Are you sure this colleague is affronted by you banging on about the football result…

Read the original post. He confronted me, and I barely spoke. Then HE went off on a rant, that another colleague told him to calm down a bit about.
I didn’t bring it up, He did. He went home because he was feeling unwell - thinking about it there’s a chance he was still drunk rather than hungover, because he’s not usually such a knobhead, although he is one of those blokes who enjoys a bit of ‘banter’ at others expense.

OP posts:
Rainbowsponge · 15/07/2024 19:49

WithACatLikeTread · 15/07/2024 19:48

British not English. Going by all the massive houses and estates across the union they all profited from it.

Of course they did, Scotland in particular was heavily entrenched.

Rizzola95 · 15/07/2024 19:48

HowIrresponsible · 15/07/2024 19:43

Your colleague asked if you're happy England lost because you're one of those who advertises this to any one who will listen.

Tbf I don't think the colleague even exists.

WithACatLikeTread · 15/07/2024 19:48

DanielGault · 15/07/2024 19:39

I assume the slave trade involvement was tangled up with the English but feel free to educate me. As to the rest of our sins, they are indeed hideous, but it's pretty nasty to bring them up on a thread about football. Whatever makes you feel better though.

British not English. Going by all the massive houses and estates across the union they all profited from it.

Livelovebehappy · 15/07/2024 19:47

Rainbowsponge · 15/07/2024 19:44

..says the person who started a thread about hating the English football team and has spent literally the entire day posting on it, bringing up Northern Ireland, Palestine, a famine from hundreds of years ago and repeatedly whined about colonialism.

Ah. I’ll bet the post was an excuse to bring up the Palestine issue. The subject isn’t as active on MN as it used to be, and they’re trying to sneak in another pointless debate about it….

Buddysbunda · 15/07/2024 19:45

I think a lot of this is 'wind them up and watch them go'. I'm in Ireland and a lot of people were supporting Spain but its not actually that deep, if England would have played well and won there would have a general consensus of fair play to them.

I think more people find it funny that it seems to annoy a lot of English people very much when they support anyone but England and that's where the fun actually lies - watching the indignation. It's a bit of a sport in itself, mean maybe but relations between the UK and Ireland haven't exactly been stellar lately so I can't see it changing any time soon.

Rainbowsponge · 15/07/2024 19:44

Shaketherombooga · 15/07/2024 19:40

It’s only a game!

..says the person who started a thread about hating the English football team and has spent literally the entire day posting on it, bringing up Northern Ireland, Palestine, a famine from hundreds of years ago and repeatedly whined about colonialism.

WithACatLikeTread · 15/07/2024 19:44

Shaketherombooga · 15/07/2024 19:17

‘Actually they played pretty well yesterday ’

We must have been watching a different match then…England barely touched the ball in the first 15 minutes, their passing was flat and poor, and did they even have 2 shots on target in the first half?

So? The main purpose was to take the steam out of Spain. It worked. Another plastic football fan.

If any of this is actually true please carry on and gloat to losing fans and see how you fare.

Goldenbear · 15/07/2024 19:44

Rainbowsponge · 15/07/2024 19:40

I was responding not only to being directly asked but also to OP’s post about all her grievances with English history and why that’s related to her hatred of the football team Confused

www.historyireland.com/clean-hands-ireland-slavery-and-the-slave-trade/

Tbf nothing has been confirmed or denied yet by the OP but hold on to your hats for the big reveal tonight maybe? At some point?

Jumpingthruhoops · 15/07/2024 19:43

Shaketherombooga · 15/07/2024 12:09

Are you telling me that all those ex-pats from England living in Spain were cheering for Spain? Not sure I believe that.

Well, no, because it's quite possible for England fans living in Spain to openly support their native side while being respectful of the country they've chosen to call their home.

Your attitude is akin to those English fans choosing to live in Spain and loudly declaring that they'd rather anyone except Spain wins! There's a huge difference.

HowIrresponsible · 15/07/2024 19:43

Your colleague asked if you're happy England lost because you're one of those who advertises this to any one who will listen.

Rizzola95 · 15/07/2024 19:43

Rizzola95 · 15/07/2024 17:54

"Ooh… Irish famine? Palestine? Division of India? Northern Ireland? Bengal Famine?
Boer War? British concentration camps in South Africa. British ships at the heart of the slave trade?
Mau Mau massacre?
I could go on or alternatively you could crack open a history book that doesn’t jump straight from Henry 8th to Queen Victoria to WW2"

Perhaps you should pick up a history book OP instead of just cherry picking historical events that highlight one countries sins. Countries across the world will have a history of slavery, wars, famine, tyranny, cruelty and abuse, savagery beyond most of our comprehension. History was extremely cruel and harsh for most (and many countries today continue to experience all of this). Acknowledging only one strand of history to justify your own prejudice is exceedingly ignorant, it's a big wide world out there.
Further, the people perpetuating the atrocities you listed were not representative of the general population, my ancestors were poor and oppressed themselves. My ancestors were not colonisers or slave owners..and even if they were evil and cruel, am I fuck being held accountable for someone else's actions. I mean it's absolutely ridiculous to use it as an excuse to hate people. At what point, which generation do you start to think "hmm this is a bit silly"?

But tbh I think it was clear from the start that you only started this thread as a means spout yet more xenophobia. There's no Dave and you typed it all out from your living room, right?
Football (and who you choose to support) is unimportant, having it used as yet another chance to demean you and your country is the issue. Just stop. And no more accusing "the English" of being anti Irish/Scottish/welsh/whatever.. it's been made clear that actually that's pure projection and complete hypocrisy of an accusation

@Shaketherombooga I noticed you didn't respond to this post, stop referring to our "colonial past" and attempting to accuse us of being colonisers.

DanielGault · 15/07/2024 19:42

It's obviously moving too fast for me.

Goldenbear · 15/07/2024 19:41

Shaketherombooga · 15/07/2024 19:39

Not really minding who wins doesn’t mean you aren’t interested in the quality of the game or the football played… what a weird comment…

Are you sure this colleague is affronted by you banging on about the football result…

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