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AIBU to not leave the GP without antibiotics

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Turtlegurl888 · 15/07/2024 07:51

I suspect I have bacterial tonsillitis. I've had a raging fever of between 39 and 40 even when maxxing out the daily allowance of paracetamol and ibuprofen. I can hardly open my mouth or turn my head/neck. My glands are like painful golf balls. Yesterday and the day before, my tonsils were covered in white and yellow patches, but that seems to have lessened today. I was awake every hour last night in sheer agony. I don't know how else to describe this pain. It's like being stabbed in the throat and neck. This started on Friday and its been worse every day since. I can't even speak today.

I have had tonsillitis MANY times, I'd venture to say on at least 100 times throughout my childhood, I really suffered. This feels different. The pain is next level. I can't eat or even drink. I am forcing myself to sip water but I'm screaming internally every time I have to swallow.

I know the Dr will say its viral and to wait it out but I can't. I need something. I have my 15 month old all week with no childcare or another adults help and I'm not going to be able to cope like this. Can I be like, I'm not leaving until I have antibiotics? Or at least a swab test for bacterial? I'm usually a massive pushover and willing to accept a doctor knows more than I do but it's so bad I think I need to stand up for myself.

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Toooldforthis36 · 15/07/2024 07:57

I know the Dr will say its viral..Can I be like, I'm not leaving until I have antibiotics?

No you don’t know . Go and ask them for their diagnosis rather than go in looking for a fight.

spikeandbuffy · 15/07/2024 07:55

They'll likely give you antibiotics
I was like that with a temp of 40, shivering and my throat was full of pus and they couldn't give me antibiotics quick enough as she backed away from my throat----

AShortName · 15/07/2024 07:55

Can you ask/ push for a swap? To get the proof?

Edited - read your op again. I would definitely be asking for a swab.

liann34 · 15/07/2024 07:55

This doesn't really make sense. You aren't in a negotiation to extract what you want with from a deal. Unless they're incompetent, which is a different question altogether, they'll prescribe antibiotics if antibiotics will help what you have. If not the antibiotics will be useless, or actively harmful.

Bodeganights · 15/07/2024 07:55

Absolutely stand up for yourself.
I was amazed a while ago I was in a similar situation and was prepared to stay until I got antibiotics, and then was offered them. Totally blew me away, I'd hyped myself up to say I need them and wont leave until I get them, and they were just offered.

SummerDays2020 · 15/07/2024 07:54

You can insist on treatment, I'd say but not specifically antibiotics. But I'd be surprised if they didn't give you antibiotics considering your symptoms and that you've had it since Friday.

monicagellerbing · 15/07/2024 07:53

If you've got white and yellow spots then you need antibiotics. Surely a GP wouldn't say viral when it's in that state. I've never had an issue getting antibiotics when I've had tonsillitis. Good luck OP sounds miserable Flowers